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Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: Yo how you go from rhymes to romance? Where the freestyles at bruh?? |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by Oahray: 8:36pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:I think it's very much the same for singles in relationships. Work doesn't start at marriage; add that to the physical absence most of the time. On the whole I get your point though. Moderation is key, even in showering our partners with attention. Just wondered how practical it would be in marriage. |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by Nobody: 8:46pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Oahray: But singles don't bear the weights of the responsibilities which marriage ushers into a person's life. Of course many singles have jobs, but they don't carry the burden of having to balance work with family -- both nuclear and extended. Marriage is more secure, more serious, more permanent -- but premarital relationships are more likely than not to be built on wobbly foundations, that and the possibility of a break-up circling the space above many premarital relationships like a roving buzzard. So yeah, premarital relationships and marriages are apples and oranges.
Touché. Modesty is the mother of virtues. 2 Likes |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by Oahray: 9:13pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:hmmm... That's quite a conclusion to reach, that part about singles not bearing much responsibilities. Some singles carry staggering responsibilities. Before marriage, one still has a family, nuclear and extended. Some become part-time or even full time breadwinners, due to circumstances. For some the challenge it's balancing demanding jobs with providing care for aged parents or terminally ill relatives. I agree that marriage is in a league of its own, but it's not as if every single person has all the time in the world to choke his partner with attention. If we aren't seeing very often in the first place, why try to add even more distance? The part about marriages being more serious and secure makes sense. The more committed a relationship is, the less the need to disappear into thin air to spice it up again. |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by Nobody: 1:25am On Dec 02, 2016 |
davide470: Thats typical Michael for you, I cannot even begin to imagine how a conversation with him will be like without jaw breaking words |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by TheRealestGuy(m): 6:40am On Dec 02, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:When you say close-knit do you mean close in physical or emotional terms? Good am. |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by yhemsy62(m): 7:16am On Dec 02, 2016 |
sinaj:GBAM |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by Nobody: 7:24am On Dec 02, 2016 |
TheRealestGuy: Physical and emotional closeness are mutually exclusive. You'd be hardpressed to find one existing without the other. |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by sinaj(f): 8:11am On Dec 02, 2016 |
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Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by joseph1832(m): 8:19am On Dec 02, 2016 |
sinaj:You're welcome. |
Re: The Magic Of Distance In Relationships by FTbomb(m): 8:39am On Dec 02, 2016 |
ah! not this thread... |
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