~Sauron~:

It comes with age and experience.
The ones between 18-22 do front because they are still in the market.
23-26, their fronting is moderate. They will do some chores, they will shy away from some.
But from 27-30, they will wash, clean, scrub, sweep and cook.

your degree covered womanology to? lord sauron a man of many skills.

whitelexi:

You're joking right?

Joke for wetin?

Look this is me:

Day off from work (as long as im not off sick) : I will cook, clean, sort the kids etc etc, he will surely find food on the table when he comes home. no yawa. Vice versa.

Both of us working all day, but I get home first: I will cook, he berra be ready TO WASH PLATE!!! Vice versa.

Both of us at home: We do things TOGETHER, COOK TOGETHER, CLEAN TOGETHER reh reh reh.

Infact, lemme ask my sweeteart wetin he wan chop this weekend sef. brb.    

jay bee:

your degree cover womanology to? lord sauron a man of many skills.

It's not what you think.

platinumnk:

Actually Sauron in my 30's I want to be running a stable business, by my husbands side.

Amen!!!!!

platinumnk:


Some men dont like doormats   Just Saying
I know mine likes me fiesty

you do not have to be a doormat to respect your man.
you can be very firm yet give your man the dignity he deserves

i am very feisty oh  . . . when i blow hot, ko funny  

@secrets, nor just come back here oooo,
as u dey go, just dey go like that, Nonsense !!

@funkybaby, i wish there could be 6 ladies like u here in NL, this forum would be a better place.

funkybaby:

you do not have to be a doormat to respect your man.
you can be very firm yet give your man the dignity he deserves

i am very feisty oh  . . . when i blow hot, ko funny  

But why would you think yourself below a man? You can respect him and give him authority as the head , but never below him.  

Washing dishes is undiginified? Why? Did they both not eat?

@platinum, whoever is made the head becomes the superior, wheda the man or the woman.
Besides, a man has been created to be above a woman ! Period !
dont care what u think.

@The Amaka,Platinumnk,
The western world is different. The way they do things is very different from ours.
The women there believe they have the same rights as their husbands and this is one of the reasons why they divorce more often.
In Nigeria, if a husband helps the wife in doing the dishes, its by choice.
A Naija man can only do it to please his wife and nothing more to it.
You ladies over there will never understand. If you grew up Nigeria, you wouldn't argue over this.
You just wouldn't.

full depth:

@secrets, nor just come back here oooo,
as u dey go, just dey go like that, Nonsense !!

@funkybaby, i wish there could be 6 ladies like u here in NL, this forum would be a better place.

hanhan kilode?

I have to go and take one of assorted bags of meat from the freezer now. I have to go and buy some fresh spinach and some other ingredients. He has told me what he wants on the table, so I have to get them ready to prepare am for him.  

full depth:

@platinum, whoever is made the head becomes the superior, wheda the man or the woman.
Besides, a man has been created to be above a woman ! Period !
dont care what u think.

kpele. It must be hard.

cantell:

@The Amaka,Platinumnk,
The western world is different. The way they do things is very different from ours.
The women there believe they have the same rights as their husbands and this is one of the reasons why they divorce more often.
In Nigeria, if a husband helps the wife in doing the dishes, its by choice.
A Naija man can only do it to please his wife and nothing more to it.
You ladies over there will never understand. If you grew up Nigeria, you wouldn't argue over this.
You just wouldn't.

cause those ladies are naive and dumb!
its time they wake up tooo!!! things are happening oooo.
let me enjoy my western world, at least i know i have the possibility of having a future. not to become some secretary working in an office for little pay or being a housewife.

full depth:

@secrets, nor just come back here oooo,
as u dey go, just dey go like that, Nonsense !!

@funkybaby, i wish there could be 6 ladies like u here in NL, this forum would be a better place.

dont worry, the world is changing! either catch up or get lost! 

platinumnk:

But why would you think yourself below a man? You can respect him and give him authority as the head , but never below him.  

Washing dishes is undiginified? Why? Did they both not eat?

are you reading my posts at all ?  
i gave different responses to different posts on this thread

abeg, no misquote me out of context  ! read through my posts !

anyway, whether he thinks he is below me or vice-versa, who cares !
i love him, he loves me and our relationship is working !  

full depth:

@platinum, whoever is made the head becomes the superior, wheda the man or the woman.
Besides, a man has been created to be above a woman ! Period !
dont care what u think.

are you afraid of a challenge?

full depth:

@platinum, whoever is made the head becomes the superior, wheda the man or the woman.
Besides, a man has been created to be above a woman ! Period !
dont care what u think.

I guess you're one of those guys that goes into spasms when you find out your boss is a woman!  
Look, my father raised me like a man, I can do outside house chores with the men, and cook and clean if I want to.
Superior is only a state of mind.  

cantell:

@The Amaka,Platinumnk,
The western world is different. The way they do things is very different from ours.
The women there believe they have the same rights as their husbands and this is one of the reasons why they divorce more often.
In Nigeria, if a husband helps the wife in doing the dishes, its by choice.
A Naija man can only do it to please his wife and nothing more to it.
You ladies over there will never understand. If you grew up Nigeria, you wouldn't argue over this.
You just wouldn't.

Nigeria isnt any better, trust me, we just hide our sins better. If women in nigeria were not as scared to divorce in 9ja the ratio would be the same.

Can you explain the high ratio of Nigerian divorcees when they move Abroad?

funkybaby:

anyway, whether he thinks he is below me or vice-versa, who cares !
i love him, he loves me and our relationship is working !  

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I think it's about time i have him kidnapped. He cannot enjoy this alone.
Off to hire MEND militants.

~Sauron~:

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I think it's about time i have him kidnapped. He cannot enjoy this alone.
Off to hire MEND militants.

Dont worry Ill send you a blowup doll and a mail order maid

platinumnk:

I guess you're one of those guys that goes into spasms when you find out your boss is a woman!  
Look, my father raised me like a man, I can do outside house chores with the men, and cook and clean if I want to.
Superior is only a state of mind.  

Nigeria isnt any better, trust me, we just hide our sins better. If women in nigeria were not as scared to divorce in 9ja the ratio would be the same.

Can you explain the high ratio of Nigerian divorcees when they move Abroad?

GBAM!!! dont mind him.
if women actually had the law on their side or they felt more protected by the law, they would have divorced a long time ago.
jus that law enforcement and the government think like the backwards men that they are.

THE-AMAKA:

are you afraid of a challenge?

YES, im afraid of a challenge from a MAD WOMAN,
especially ones with ur kind of tougue and attitude !!

@secrets, why u nor send ur man make im do all those things??
u women eh? na God fit handle una issues.

THE-AMAKA:

GBAM!!! dont mind him.
if women actually had the law on their side or they felt more protected by the law, they would have divorced a long time ago.
jus that law enforcement and the government think like the backwards men that they are.

+1

full depth:

YES, im afraid of a challenge from a MAD WOMAN,
especially ones with your kind of tougue and attitude !!

what? you cant handle it?
lolol
at least plat's father raised her right! she doesnt need to depend on any man, cause he knows there are goats out there running around like you.

platinumnk:

+1

my score is now +2 lol

full depth:

YES, im afraid of a challenge from a MAD WOMAN,
especially ones with your kind of tougue and attitude !!

@secrets, why u nor send your man make im do all those things??
u women eh? na God fit handle una issues.

Well let go of your gf and find your self a woman like funkybaby

^^^
GBAM!

THE-AMAKA:

what? you cant handle it?
lolol
at least plat's father raised her right! she doesnt need to depend on any man, cause he knows there are goats out there running around like you.my score is now +2 lol

make that +5!! 

yes ooooo!!

THE-AMAKA:

what? you cant handle it?
lolol
at least plat's father raised her right! she doesnt need to depend on any man, cause he knows there are goats out there running around like you.my score is now +2 lol

well plat's berra than u! she's trained !
but U, AMAKA, U sound like someone who passed thru the training of ANIMALS,
Nonsense,

please excuse my french!
a person like you shouldnt go without having my french reigned on you!
you have some nerve.

platinumnk:

Well let go of your gf and find your self a woman like funkybaby

Oh, its not necesary any more, she read all ur comments !! and has taken the right decision.
guess what? She has apologized !!
and if i hadnt any, i would definitely go for someone like Funkybabe !!
A real woman, not that AMAKA !!!

~Sauron~:

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I think it's about time i have him kidnapped. He cannot enjoy this alone.
Off to hire MEND militants.

come back jare.  
dont even waste your time

MEND stands no chance with a full-blooded ijebu guy  

platinumnk:

Dont worry Ill send you a blowup doll and a mail order maid

include your return address, so he can send it back to you unopened !  

full depth:

Oh, its not necesary any more, she read all your comments !! and has taken the right decision.
guess what? She has apologized !!
and if i hadnt any, i would definitely go for someone like Funkybabe !!
A real woman, not that AMAKA !!!

i hope she sees this
WHAT A DOG! 
apologize for what? FOR WHAT? did you threaten her or something?
damn!

THE-AMAKA:

i hope she sees this
WHAT A DOG! 
apologize for what? FOR WHAT? did you threaten her or something?
damn!

guess what she says?? she says u must have been raised by a single mama!!
Nonsense !

she is stupid!!! tell her she needs to grow a di.ck and stand up for herself.
fuk her!
youre probably making it up, nonsense.

I doubt that she "demanded". Perhaps she just asked??

It isn't right to demand to do the dishes. A man shouldn't go about with the mentality of a woman being confined to cooking and cleaning either. That mentality is somewhat "off". Generally, most women understand gender roles and would do what they taught by their parents to do. A man however shouldn't take the piss. Nothing is wrong with helping out every once in a while. You both live in the said house together and it takes two to keep it clean.