i hate freaks of any kind big turn off

To me its my dad, thats too obsessive about cleanliness. He associates anything shorts of his standard as SIN!. i cant live with him for one full week without having problems! i mean i do my bed, clean my room and bathroom but he always finds faults and thats really makes me not to wanting to be with him, although i so much love him as a father. Even when he visits in my country of residence he seems encroaching my privacy just for the sake of cleanliness.

Poster,

I love it when a man is clean and neat! That means you and me can shake hands cause Im a neat/clean freak as well

Perhaps maybe you brag about how dirty the house is all the time which made them fedup to hear?

i dnt think i have problems with cleanliness cos my grandma does everything for moi but now i think i will have to do them myself

poster, forget about the dirty girls. if they can be so lazy as not to take care of their environment, be sure that their personal hygiene also is seriously in doudt. abi you wan open eye go enter gutter?

Kelvinj:

@gabry
I tink u are kinda correct. How are u

Im fine thank you.

Look at this logical reasoning. Dirty guys move with dirty ladies, clean guys move with clean ladies, Ayinisong is a clean guy, therefore he is moving with a clean lady. YOU SAID YOU ARE A CLEAN GUY, still you have time for dirty ladies. Remain clean and clean girls will come. Your relationship with a dirty girl will never depict who you are.

Calsito:

Look at this logical reasoning. Dirty guys move with dirty ladies, clean guys move with clean ladies, Ayinisong is a clean guy, therefore he is moving with a clean lady. YOU SAID YOU ARE A CLEAN GUY, still you have time for dirty ladies. Remain clean and clean girls will come. Your relationship with a dirty girl will never depict who you are.

Dont brag 'bout it and dont do it while they are still with you. better ask them to help you out in some cases. i guess that's what is scaring them away.

@poster

There are wrong impressions you have that need to be corrected.
the girls dont run away because you are too clean and not because they are dirty either and certainly not because they are lazy and can't do house chores.

I was like you when i was a bachelor leaving alone only having my guys visit me. but when i started dating my girlfriend (now my wife), i had to carefully handover everything to her. Initially, it was not as perfect as i would want it but i never complained and with little encouragement and appreciation, she became exactly the kind of woman i want. Infact, i had to step in to make sure she doesn't overdo things.

So when dating, allow your girl to come around and go to the market, cook, wash the dishes and clean the house. whether she did it to ur taste or not, tell her how much you appreciate what she has done and you'll see, she'll steadily improve. after she has gone, you can then lick your floor with ur tongue if you like. Please dont take over a woman's job. atleast not when she's around. Real women don't like that. Don't make it look as if you can do without their assistance, even if you can.

So, my guy treat ur girls with some respect. we all came out from diverse backgrounds and homes. Even if ur girl makes a mistake, point out indirectly and say it with L. O. V. E. Dont be blunt though bluntness is required sometimes but not at an initial stage.

Peace and God Bless!

i like all that's going on here

u see mine is that i run away from them. It's part of the fun

One LOVE for all the ladies but to be honest most of you are not really dirty or really clean either. My flat mates for the past 5 yrs have been the ladies, whilst I personally find them very easy to deal with + all their emotions and mood swings, their hygiene level is usually below par!

My current flat mate is not clean at all , and she is the best I have seen at double dating and she goes to church a lot - what a life hey!

DOAweb:

One LOVE for all the ladies but to be honest most of you are not really dirty or really clean either. My flat mates for the past 5 yrs have been the ladies, whilst I personally find them very easy to deal with + all their emotions and mood swings, their hygiene level is usually below par!

My current flat mate is not clean at all , and she is the best I have seen at double dating and she goes to church a lot - what a life hey!

i say u live it to the fullest man

you are my opposite, a hooker who will not get things organised.

Latest posts of: ayinisong 6 Forums / Sexuality / Sex Starved Househelp Needs It Desperately, What Do I Do? on: 17 October 2009, 14:44:14
Guys, my sister's househelp is giving me green light, but I'm pretending not to see. She's 17 and I'm 24. At first, she likes smiling at me sheepishly. I smile back at times. Last week she bashed into my room when I was watching porn at night around 11:30pm. She watchd for few seconds & walked away. Also I use to bring girls to f, k in the house. The following day when my sister had gone out, she asked me to play the movie for her which I did and we both watched. I started jerking while the movie was on, guess what she help me. But she didn't allow me touch her. After 2 days she came to my room at 2am that she's Hot & wants to f, k. I told her no. She pleaded that is sex starved. Guys should we keep our househelps body & soul together? Should I f, k her? But she's a teen. Advice.

Hmmmm. So I guess u've stopped living wit ur sista n her housemaid rite?

There's more to it my friend,

@ OP,There a research that says most guys like you are either gay or impotent. *tee heee heeee* and i'm sure most girls dont want a serious relationship with either,

just passing anyway, no comment for now

there is something missing somewhere

DOAweb, is there any correlation btw being dirty, going to church and double-dating?

I recommend you change your choice of ladies, make you no enter desease wahala.

All this discussions about WOmen (Woe unto Men)

woe unto who? brother, watch it!

@ Kech, thanks for that lovely, mature and wise advice, i also have that problem too, i'm taking a cue from that.

Only dirty and filthy girls will actually say you are neat to a fault.
Nobody can really be neat to a fault.

PLEASE, IT PAYS TO BE EXTREMELY NEAT.

nice thread

really, I think girls do not run away because of ur neat nature but probably because u are a guy who complains about anything around u once someone touches or uses anything that belongs to you.

Try to be dirty lol

Some thing very interesting about guy like you is that, you end up marrying the very disorganised women. My Dad was a very organised, neat and punctual man. My mum is the complete opposite, but he loved her all his life and learnt to live with her. Opposite they say attract. When you meet the woman you love learn to be flexible. All the best.

@poster, you have what is called, OCD, Obssessive Compulsive Disorder, you may choose to read about it on the internet or see a shrink or find an OCD girl, Pele, by the way, there are many OCDs like you, and it may predispose some of ur future kids to having Asthma

There is a certain amount of "dirtiness" that is expected from a guy. I call it the dirt that makes a guy possible. When a guy gets too clean and unruffled, one needs to take a closer look. Does the term "gay" ring a bell?

Haven said the above, cleanliness should be encouraged for both sexes.

Believe this: ur cleanliness pis them off cuz u don't allow them to express themselves cuz ur tu conscious of ur room and remember, women like freedom (u even go to market wat is her duty then) they most leave u.