brasilia:
Brilliant, but the thing is this, when I confronted my wife, she said she can not control what the guy was typing, and sending, then I asked her why did she not caution the guy, instead all she said to the guy was that 'my husband is here ' . My brother wen I told her that she got really angry, that I should do wstever I like, after all she was not the one that started it.

Keneking:
This government sef

- are you missing me? Buhari to Nigerians

Buhari is missing in action

xynerise:


Like seriously?

So if he is cheating he should tell you 'Yes sir,I am fvcking your wife'?

That was why l called him a woman, na wao oo

AngelicBeing:
That was why l called him a woman, na wao oo

brasilia:
Brilliant, but the thing is this, when I confronted my wife, she said she can not control what the guy was typing, and sending, then I asked her why did she not caution the guy, instead all she said to the guy was that 'my husband is here ' . My brother wen I told her that she got really angry, that I should do wstever I like, after all she was not the one that started it.

AngelicBeing:

Ayanfeoluwaoba:
Let me start by saying that whatever anybody tells you on Social media concerning marriage and you don't think through carefully before taking action will cause you more harm than good.

Every marriage has its own formulae all you need do is find yours!!!!.

Now to the issue, I think you sounded more confrontational when you approached her hence the reason for her reaction. Until u have an undeniable evidence, you don't go confrontational with your spouse when it comes issues in marriage.

Like I said find a formulae on how to resolve issues in your marriage and you will be surprised how many equations will be solved.

#myopinionthough.

brasilia:
Hello all, my phone went bad, I was using my wife's old phone, and i ran in to a message between she and a supposed family friend . my wife asked the guy to take her some where, and the guy replied her like this, are you missing me ? my wife now said,this, my husband is right by side, the conversation went on, and my they were just talking casually, then again my wife now asked him again if he will come and drop her, the guy replied and siad, what about if your husband sees you in my car, my wife replied and said that I already know that the guy has dropped her off twice,

the truth is that I did not per say, it was a day she was going out and i asked her who was going to drop, and she angrily told me i do not know the person, but much later like months later, during our normal discussion, she told me it was that guy . So could she be cheating with the guy, should i call the guy and ask,

brasilia:
Brilliant, but the thing is this, when I confronted my wife, she said she can not control what the guy was typing, and sending, then I asked her why did she not caution the guy, instead all she said to the guy was that 'my husband is here ' . My brother wen I told her that she got really angry, that I should do wstever I like, after all she was not the one that started it.

AngelicBeing:
That was why l called him a woman, na wao oo

NotOfThis:
Don't call the man because he would obviously deny it and you would get nowhere. Besides, he has no responsibility towards you but your wife is the one who owes your her faithfulness and the one you should be voicing your concerns to.

dealslip:
@brasilia,have you cheated on her before? where a woman doesn't give a rat ass about how you feel in the face of a possible adultery suspicion is not a good sign. She is definitely enjoying this guys attention or affections. When a wife is in that position,she is definitely not impressed by you.

Oyind17:
That was too blunt

If that will keep the home, so be it

maberry:
Oga your wife is obviously having an inappropriate kind of friendship with this guy
"for him to ask her if she misses him"
Whether she has cheated on you with him already isn't sure yet but even if she hasn't, at the rate she is going with that guy, is only a matter of time

AngelicBeing:
If that will keep the home, so be it

Ayanfeoluwaoba:
Let me start by saying that whatever anybody tells you on Social media concerning marriage and you don't think through carefully before taking action will cause you more harm than good.

Every marriage has its own formulae all you need do is find yours!!!!.

Now to the issue, I think you sounded more confrontational when you approached her hence the reason for her reaction. Until u have an undeniable evidence, you don't go confrontational with your spouse when it comes issues in marriage.

Like I said find a formulae on how to resolve issues in your marriage and you will be surprised how many equations will be solved.

#myopinionthough.

dealslip:
@brasilia,have you cheated on her before? where a woman doesn't give a rat ass about how you feel in the face of a possible adultery suspicion is not a good sign. She is definitely enjoying this guys attention or affections. When a wife is in that position,she is definitely not impressed by you.

brasilia:
Thanks for your thoughts on the matter, you might be right,

brasilia:
OK thanks, yes we have been having issues, but she is not open to reconciliation, I beg even if she is wrong or I am wrong. Anytime I dare try to express displeasure on anything she gets very very angry...

Oyind17:
Lol, you no be am

l dont take nonsense from a woman, l am in control of my home, matrimony, destiny, family life, kids etc, l dont oppress women, l respect them but l dont tolerate stupidity but what these woman is doing to these guy is sad and pathetic, l cant stomach it

segzie2012:


His not right ooo... Marriage can be funny atimes "TRUST"

Dey have not had anytin together as far as I am concern because you have no evidence "u've got only conversation trails- d guy can be a free talker and your wife might just response because she need someone to " trust your wife 1st...

my advise is you give your wife more time - give her all the attention she needs,chat,call,take her out, do romoe & juliet - she will not see any reason to call the guy for anything. Best of luck guy

xynerise:

The guy is too soft.

As the man of the house, show your strict side for once. Spare the rod and ....

brasilia:
Thanks very much, the guy is not a family friend per say, because I do not know him, he is friend/church member with my wife. I only hear of him. Sadly when I asked my wife about the messages, she was very angry, she said she was not in control of wat ever the guy was sending, and moreover, she doesn't care. So the only option I have is to look for the guy and speak with him, but I don't know how this will look.

brasilia:
Hello all, my phone went bad, I was using my wife's old phone, and i ran in to a message between she and a supposed family friend . my wife asked the guy to take her some where, and the guy replied her like this, are you missing me ? my wife now said,this, my husband is right by side, the conversation went on, and my they were just talking casually, then again my wife now asked him again if he will come and drop her, the guy replied and siad, what about if your husband sees you in my car, my wife replied and said that I already know that the guy has dropped her off twice,

the truth is that I did not per say, it was a day she was going out and i asked her who was going to drop, and she angrily told me i do not know the person, but much later like months later, during our normal discussion, she told me it was that guy . So could she be cheating with the guy, should i call the guy and ask,