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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 5:56pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
bakynes:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 5:56pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Oyind17:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 5:57pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Vizzim:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 5:58pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:I sent you a PM, reply my message with your contact. I will give my own advice in an interpersonal level. ... I care for you bro Preferably Whatsapp number or BBM PIN |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 5:59pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
bobolizim:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:05pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
MicroBox:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:Your wife, like many other Nigerian wives in the US we have been hearing of wants to fully utilize the advantage she gets from the US defective system to cheat on you and still rub it in your face. Please do not focus on confrontation now, but on gathering of valid evidence cos thats the only thing that can save you when she comes down on you with full force and wants you to lose your mind so she can take advantage of you. Be wise mehn, she is cheating & your marriage is over whether you accept it or not. Focus on actions that will protect you when things fall totally apart. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:05pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Charly68:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:06pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Ayanfeoluwaoba:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:08pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
ManTiger:married but traditional and church, nice wedding, dated for 5years, been married for 6 years |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:08pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
segzie2012:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Biafrarep(m): 6:09pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:This makes your case even worse. With feminists and women rights on the prowl, decadent morals/value system and the fact that she could be earning as much as you if not more, makes it the more pathetic. Smh. 4 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:09pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
DukeNija:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:10pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Jaabioro:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by proffemi: 6:10pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: "The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves, that we are underlings." I don't want to comment on the issue of your wife and her friend, but scanning through this thread, it is obvious (IMO) that you need to look inwards first. You sound weak-willed, and basically invite your woman to ride rough-shod over you. I'd be less concerned about confronting your wife's friend (childish idea, that...) and address the issue at the source: RESPECT. Love feeds on respect. You wife does not seem to respect you, and I'm going to blame you for that. You need to work on earning her respect. Any other thing you do (surveillance, confrontation...whatever) will either hasten the demise of your marriage, or push your BP up a few points. As you yourself observed, she's apparently past caring at this stage. Good luck dude. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:10pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Ayanfeoluwaoba:I thank all of you for your kind contributions, some have said that I should wait to have concrete evidence. Well about a year ago, she was on phone with somebody and all of sudden she was asking the guy dont you know I am married, I asked what was the problem, she refused to answer me, we quarreled and I let go, because I never knew what they were saying. The only I thing I gather was that the person was her church member, so that was how I banned her from ever attending that same church again. It was only of recent that I discovered that it was this same guy that I am talking about now. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 6:11pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Now that she is not willing to listen, SHOULD I CALL HER MOTHER AND LET HER KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON ? 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by summerflame(m): 6:11pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
You are a very weak man. In as much as I am the man in the marriage, I have every right to be respected and regarded. Cowards like u ain't grown up enough courage before jumping in with a Jezebel in marriage .. Hate responding to weakling like u though 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by AntiWailer: 6:16pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Bros u need concrete evidence. She sounds like a "can not say no" Lady. U need to help her out. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by summerflame(m): 6:18pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
ehis05:One or two hard slap to reset her brain to default won't be a bad idea or what do u think? 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Kagawa10: 6:23pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
cheezy4real: It's a flirty message. It's like when a man playfully tease a female friend about missing him already while the friend would reply thus "I have my man/boyfriend here with me, so why should I miss/need you" However, the husband must quickly nip it in the bud to avoid story that touches. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by ameh99: 6:31pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: My brother you just have to tread with caution, when it comes to women issue you just can't say just like someone here rightly said you've just got to confront her and insist she cut every communication with this so call guy..... |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Kagawa10: 6:31pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Just discuss the matter with her and remind her she's a married woman. All those flirting attitude doesn't suit her as a married woman and that she wouldn't like the same thing if she were in your shoe. Unknown to her, she's probably leading on the man who may have an ulterior motive in the first place. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by kelechi17(m): 6:40pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:you have to be careful ...its either your wife has started to cheat on you already or is about to...my advise do a small CIA work on her and d guy ...track and spy on d guy witout dem knowing..... buh if u can lay ur hands on d guys phone ...I'm sure u wil confirm a lot of ur suspicions ...I jus can't stand a cheating wife... |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Lekkuzz: 6:52pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
AngelicBeing:I totally agree with you *AngelicBeing * he's not in control of his home at all, why should he talk and his wife flare up over such trivial questions,he should seriously man up and take charge of his home 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by gentlesoul196: 6:53pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
HARDDON:Bros u have said it all |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by frank317: 6:54pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
sexy74: Best advice so far!!! Who the hell is she to shout u down? She can't be in ur house and be flirting with another man, yet offers no explanation to you but have the guts to tell u to do anything. What the Fk!!! And I can't believe people are even asking u to call the man. To discuss what exactly? Hey man did u fuk my wife? Well if I was the man and u call me I will tell u to fuk off or I will ask u to pay me not to fuk ur wife. Be the man and take charge. Be ready to let go if she can't give u ur right as a husband... STOP LICKING HER ASS, THE SMELL WILL EVENTUALLY KILL U AND SHE WILL BE FREE TO FUK ALL THE MEN SHE WANTS TO EVEN BEFIRE U ARE BURIED ANF FORGOTTEN. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Snowstorm: 6:55pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Bro...you're wife is flirting and she doesn't care about your own thoughts and feelings...she's angry ke?angry about what? Thats a no no... Don't waste your time trying to fix a broken lady.. It's inevitable let her self destruct... The both of you have trust issues.. Never go through a lady's phone next time If u don't have the balls to take charge of the situation if not u go get heart attack... |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by majorbravo: 6:55pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Op can you throw more light on this bolded statement? Before I give my advice. But what I can say for now is that its pointless calling the guy up because he already knows your wife is married (from her statement on the phone asking him if he doesn't understand she is married). Telling him would only make them be more cautious about hiding their affair if indeed they are seeing each other. I would tell you what to do only if you answer the above question sincerely. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by hahn(m): 6:57pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
frank317: He needs proof to act though. Guessing is not enough Apparently, she is getting fed up with their relationship thus the talking off and all |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Gloryboy(m): 7:00pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Am not saying she is cheating or not... But for her replying you with "anger" when you ask about the guy. That means there is something fishy about both of them (She and the guy). 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by johnson232: 7:06pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:Not might, he is right. It is obvious your wife is already cheating on u, u just don't wanna believe this probably because u love her...u seem like a weak man from your post.... man up & tell her to cut every connection she have with the guy... & warn the guy to stay off your wife. If she starts giving u attitude because of this...i believe u know what to do... 1 Like 1 Share |
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