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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by mikkyphp(m): 7:13pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:wrong attitude, i kind of like you, and would love to see you grow some balls. It is not too late to enforce your will in your home. Let your head do the thinking at this moment and be very logical. be stern, and resist her manipulative plots with her anger. dont back down. if it doesnt work, den take a walk. you will be better 4 it. unhealthy relationships are a silent killer. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by johnson232: 7:13pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
frank317:op na weak man jor... how can your wife shout u down for questioning her about about a man u are suspicious about? & your next move was to come to nairaland? 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by majorbravo: 7:17pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
johnson232:Dude, he lives in the states, there are limits to what he can do to her and his wife knows this quite well. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by johnson232: 7:17pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:Now i know why your wife is cheating on u...i am afraid it is a cross u will have to carry, probably because of the wrong u did in the past, your financial status or nature... 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by johnson232: 7:19pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
majorbravo:I know what i am saying regardless of where the op resides.... 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by majorbravo: 7:23pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
johnson232: Have you thought of the fact that Op may have married her to get a green card? who do you think is most likely to wear the pants in such a marriage? He may be living in her house. There is even a tendency she has threatened to throw him out for daring to speak back when she talks, or perhaps even send him back to the jungles of Africa if he wouldn't live by her own terms. In such case, even the Lion would become a mere cat. 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 7:42pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
majorbravo:the bolded means she did not initiate the conversation, it was the guy |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 7:46pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
proffemi:Hmmm Nigerians are just too intelligent, majority of you have described my personality.and the things happening in my house |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by konfused: 7:47pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Her anger is a defence mechanism.......... Something is not right somewhere |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 7:49pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
mikkyphp:Thanks bro I really appreciate |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 7:51pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
johnson232:In the state of north Carolina, once the cops are around , they don't ask what the matter is, the simply ask the man to leave. The next time you can see your family is in court. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by dealslip(f): 7:52pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
HARDDON:yes this reasons are very valid for a woman to misbehave. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 7:53pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
majorbravo:The woman I literraly sponsored through university ? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by majorbravo: 7:54pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: In that case, I take it her behavior has nothing to do with your past infidelity? I'll assume so. What you are going through requires deep self examination, is there a problem with your sexual prowess? You need to find a remedy. F**k your wife so well, and your problem is 60% solved. Are you not romantic enough? You need to step up your game. Being married especially in the western world, is not a free pass for you to be complacent. Surprise her with meaningful things that bring back memories of when you first met. Slowly she would get tired of being a booty call for Stevey or whatever the other guy's name is. Are you idle? Start looking for something passionate to engage in and while you are at it, ensure it makes you cash. Do you take your physical appearance seriously? Well your guess is as good as mine, Hit the gym. Do you have hot female friends? If your answer is no, start keeping them around. Not an invite to cheating though. When she finds out you are desirable to other women, she would step up. Do you have a lonely life? Start being more social. Get invited to lit parties that she can attend with you. Do these and with time she would find that boyfriend of hers boring and start to respect you a lot more. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 8:02pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Kagawa10:ha she doesn't want to talk, she said she doesn't care |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by frank317: 8:03pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
hahn: Prove what bros? "Do u miss me?" "My husband is here" Husband.. "what's happening with u and that guy?" Wife.. "is it my fault he wants to fuk me? Go to hell and do/whatever you like" Pls what prove do u want? Her reaction is enough to make him act like a man... She mustn't even be cheating on him yet 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 8:03pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Snowstorm:it is her old phone that I am using dude |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by brasilia: 8:06pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
majorbravo:I literally paid her way through the university, I brought her to the states, ... I have read comment s about she financing the house and I just laugh. I am a petrochemical engineer 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by majorbravo: 8:07pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: In that case you have no reason to be going through this, anyway here is some more advice for you to add to the one I posted before. Things you should stop doing and what you can do Stop saying yes to everything she says, accept only that which is comfortable for the family Stop curling into your shell each time she shouts at you, give her non-verbal reactions that she dreads more than you talking back Most importantly, Stop making excuses for her in your head as to why she might not be cheating, there is never a good reason to. Use your God given initiative. She likes to pray with him right? Don't say a word to her again about him. Simply start a family prayer session at home, and ask her to invite her church friend that drops her off. By week 3, if she doesn't break up with him, he would break up with her. If she refuses to invite him, you have your answer. Women who cheat, enjoy the suspense that goes with being away from their husband, the cheater's love partner most times doesn't want any contact with the man being cheated on. Ensure you meet him in a non confrontational way like the suggestion I have made above, slowly guilty conscience would make him back off or become less intriguing to your wife as that guilt of his disassociation from you that excites her, would diminish inevitably. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Please do not bother yourself to speak to that guy. It is not worth it. Besides doing so makes you look very weak and might fuel an affair if there was only a potential. Talk to your wife and let her know you are not comfortable with the closeness. A woman who still loves her husband will listen. If she really cares she will listen to you. Otherwise brother you are in for a deep wahala. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by ChiefSweetus: 8:19pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
If a guy is comfortable enough to flirt with my partner... then the world obviously seeing a side of her hidden to me. I have no problem with the world.. guys will always want to fück a woman if they can pull it off. Be with a woman who wordlessly assures them they can't. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by ManTiger(m): 8:20pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:Bro, don't confront the said man, don't ask your wife about anything concerning the text you see. She will tell you what transpired later if only you can keep calm, show her TLC "Tender Loving Care" after a longer time to this incident, call her and asked what led to the text. Tell her how you both started, how much you love her and how much she meant to you. After this time, try to be more romantic. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by frank317: 8:20pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Oga.. ask ur self what u want with a partner... Is ur wife giving it to u? Work on getting what u want in life or walk away from what u don't what. Don't let past sacrifice from being who u want to be...No man needs such a woman as a wife, except she is willing to change, let her go... If u are a petroplentypleny... U are sure wiser than. U think. U must send her packing. Manipulate her to be what u want her to be,if it does not work take a walk..I am sure ur sexual life is already fruastrating... Guy... Women can be tamed... Just use ur head and make urself happy even if it means sacrificing a lot |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by touchplay(m): 8:20pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Oya Mr petrochemical engineer... What you really need to do,and do very fast is to invite a pastor for a 3 days family liberation. A liberation that I need to come and do and be going.u go pay small fee sha ........I'll cm to america with my team.......! Your case is spiritual..your wife loves you no more.she needs this prayer. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by alobright17(m): 8:23pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Op you're just wasting your time.I am sorry to hit you with this painful truth that your wife is cheating on you with that guy. I have more than enough ex girlfriends who most of them are married and you can't imagine or believe how they still want the sexxx acts to continue,Thank God my culture forbids me from sleeping with married ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Zirah: 8:36pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Hi. Why did you marry a woman who does not love you? Why? I empathize with you. brasilia: 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by bizhop01: 8:36pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: Free your wife alone,the guy in question is not a gost,investigate & meet him one on one PEACEFULLY, find out more about him,who he really is, this will make him have a rethink befor things gos so wrong. Remember women are always so weak emotional,so easy to manipulate their mind,if you ask me why,it din't start today it started from the bible. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by cstr100: 8:36pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Where do all these kind of men come from sef? You suspect your wife of cheating and yet you are still tip-toeing around like a wussy. This is a woman you married o. If i ever ever suspect my lady of cheating, i would get to the bottom of it that very second and fully clear my doubts or any misconceptions, or carry out some drastic actions depending on the gravity of the offense if any was committed. I can'''t sleep in that house or eat my wife's food knowing she is possibly cheating on me. How do you guys do that? 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by bignero: 8:38pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia: i was quite skeptical initialy but when you mentioned that the message was six months old...and the guy had called a year back etc i concluded shes probalbly cheating more like 80 percent probablity... residing in the us makes it harder on you ..considering the fact that the law always backs ladys in these cases... then again, another advantage of being in us .... why not CALL CHEATERS... http://www.cheaters.com/contact/, http://www.cheaters.com/cheaters-detective-agency/ for real though,they will do a thorough and effective surveillance on her...or hire a private detective to investigate...i believe this will answer all ur questions 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by samsam2019: 8:41pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
brasilia:sir, your wife is cheating . I'm a married man myself I expect to to know how to deal with this |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by mofebosola(m): 8:41pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
Do a thorough soul-searching to identify whatever may be lacking I your relationship with your wife. Do you communicate cordially? Has she been raising some questions that you feel less concerned about? Do you think she feels you are not matching up to her social or academic status? Are there. Some vital things lacking at home (economic or sexual)? You said the guy is her church member; why are you not in the church? Do you have some shortcomings that are glaring - like if your IQ is lower than hers? If you a "Yes" to any or some of these questions, then call your wife for a discussion. Let her know you've identified some gaps and you will want her to join hand so you can correct the lapses. If on the other hand you don't have any of these shortcomings, I'll advise you meet their Pastor. Tell him you're not finding their relationship palatable and that he should counsel your wife and the guy to desist. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by cstr100: 8:44pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
bizhop01:Why should he call the guy? Guys would always look for any willing hole to stick it in. I would do the same if I were in his shoes. And if the husband tries to confront me, I would deny it and treat his fucck-up. The problem here is the wife he married. She is the one doing the free giving and she is not a kid. That is who he should confront. He has no business with the nigga receiving free married pusssy. 1 Like |
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