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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 4:56pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
naijaboiy:Written on stone 1 Like |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 5:42pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Many of you here are unintelligent, both guys and girls. That's why you fail to realize that the root cause ofthe argument stems from the fact that in society today, male and female are judged by different unequal standards. I hear broke guy broke guy, why is there no thread on broke girls? Many unemployed girls spend lot of time on social media, yet feel its still okay to call someone broke. The OP is well aware that there are way way more girls than guys who lack vision, yet she never cared to open a thread about it. No man likes being broke. Afterall, are there not many female university students getting married. Many married girls than guys in nysc... Who exactly is broke? Why didn't you open a thread on why the broke female students shouldn't be getting married? If you are intelligent enough, you will realise that the economic situation of a country will reflect the caliber of men you will meet. No matter how much you rant, you will keep encountering many struggling guys and a certain percentage of rich ones, as far as the economic situation remains. I think Nigeria today is experiencing what we call social expectation imbalance, where the media heightens our expectations such as "type of weddings, restaurants to visit, phones to use, places to stay, dresses to wear... etc... But the economic reality, the purchasing power, remains different. Your expectations cannot change reality. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by FelixFelicia(m): 6:16pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
No amount of light can chase the darkness in her foggy brain 2 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 6:44pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
mrphysics:Fact... Women are more often, a distraction, yet its funny when you see a woman feel entitled to a man's money citing "love" when she has no idea what he passed through to get it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Adex50: 6:51pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
queency11:Life Eyaff spoil :- even A girl of 17-19 A unijos fresher/ Jambite sef dey talk Smh 1 Like |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 7:02pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
cooldood:Bro, I ve followed all your comments, and in truth, you are hitting it realistically. But you still have to factor in that expectations change. Have you realized that even a local Bimbo today that enters Unilag, becomes a "classy Bhyimboh" at year 3 who knows all the restaurants in ikeja, when her father gives her 12k every month. This is due to association. The Media is having a lot of influence in expectations today. 2 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by cooldood(m): 7:14pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
mctowel01:True. That's why to be a man in this 21st century ehn, no be yamz. The pressure is simply crazy!So as a man, you have to keep going at it, dont ever relax and think becos you are meeting your babe's current needs,she'd stop at that..oh no!gals expectations always grow, give a babe an inch, she'd soon start demanding for a mile.A man needs serious wisdom in dealing with a woman.If she's motivating you to work harder,excellent, but if she's only demoralizing you n damaging your God-given ego, pls let her be.21st century men have so so much to worry about than to add a "trash-talking" babe to it, instead, face your hustle n ignore, if she's truly into you, i bet you, she'd come around. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 7:15pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Safiaa:Is every man living alone lonely and miserable? Are there not lonely and miserable married people? Why use such extreme negative adjectives to describe men staying alone? This your comment is lame, saying someone who buys a house from his hard earned sweat will rot in it with loneliness. Seems you subconsciously want to impose your idea of cohabitation on people. 4 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 7:28pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
cooldood:I forgot to add bro... Your points will work for someone ready to die young pleasing a woman. The financial demands of this present age is so much that it makes no sense in most cases for a woman not to be contributing financially in a relationship. Go and do the maths of what it takes to raise a child in a month now, compare it with the typical earnings. 2 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 7:37pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Safiaa:I will address your other aspect, and not the relationship debate. To be honest, you really have a lot of growing up to do. You really do. You are seeing things from the textbook illusion you were made or your mind is wired to believe. Life hasn't hit you hard enough. Personally, I ve achieved a level of success, of which the process involved once hinged on thin wires, fortunately, I came out well. I can never and will never insult or demean anyone who passess through same hustle or anyone thereof and became unfortunate at the end. We men know and feel what it takes to make it through life. You sit there opening threads from your fantasies. I laugh at the way you are making 5 years goal. Its good, its really good, but wait till life happens. That is when the real test comes. Will it be cool to be demeaned because of certain misfortunes? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 7:39pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Alright. That's understandable. Thank you for your input. mctowel01: |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by cooldood(m): 7:40pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
mctowel01:If truly you've followed my comments, you'd find nowhere that says please a gal. And dont go into a relationship expecting contribution from a gal.Again ladies are wired to follow a man's lead, if she's into you, she'd follow your lead once she sees your hardwork.The point is try your best to provide basics and expect little from your babe, it will save you psychological blow if she decides not to financially contribute, so if she contributes, that's fantastic for you.An example,you only have money for a 2 bedroom flat in Ikorodu,but she wants 3 bedroom flat in Lekki, then either she follows you to Ikorodu or she contributes to what you have so you go to Lekki (anyways, I wont advise a man to part-finance rent, its your ego at risk).So again, cut your suit according to your size, give yourself little stress about gals n enjoy your hustle. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 7:48pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
cooldood:Got you man... You ll like a simple life |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 7:58pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
CreamyMoltenLar:word |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by tosyne2much(m): 9:34pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Safiaa:I won't let you drag me into your league of greediness and then you will still use your experience to knock me out... Let me leave you to wallow in your laziness and gold digging 6 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by tosyne2much(m): 9:35pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
FelixFelicia:Wetin happen to me nah? |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by tosyne2much(m): 9:36pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
mrphysics:My brother, we just need to open our eyes before picking the right woman.. Women like this are leaches jawe 1 Like |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by tosyne2much(m): 9:40pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Paulpaulpaul:Bro, I have been so busy lately... You will surely hear from me tomorrow |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans: 11:33pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
cooldood: Nigeria won't grow with your kinda mentality You placing the female folks on a kinda lazy entitlement If that's the way it is been done in the Us and Uk You think Nigeria wouldn't be far ahead of them by now with our smartness. Both male and females work for their money No one sends the other. I don't understand where your own wiring of ladies is coming from |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by cooldood(m): 12:31am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Raydans:Oga,its how nature wired the genders,in those countries you mentioned there's a trade off which is gender equality which I completely don't agree with.Over there also,ladies can talk to their husbands or spouses the way they like cos they're even more protected than the males.That won't work here oga.It's not everything about the west that are positive.Take it or leave it,the female gender is wired to look up to the male.If you like let them have millions in their accounts,its not a lazy mentality,don't fight it. 1 Like |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Dshocker(m): 12:42am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Alesandese: Why must a guy/man feed you? 1 Like |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Raydans: 12:59am On Apr 17, 2017 |
cooldood:[b] So if Nigeria adopt same. You think this place won't be a better place, developed, equipped and condusive like the west for us all or do you it is by magic that it is done. Where is the gender equality that our great feminist screams about. Well i don't blame them because they are the same, one sided and delusional about it. That's why it couldn't manifest as they are NIGERIAN women. Nigerian ladies are the laziest species of ladies in the world and it affecting our developmental and economical growth. Check out ordinary south africa there.Their ladies accepted their men are more lazy than them. They praise and make compliment about Nigerian men as hardworking which even results to the xenophobic attack. In one way or the other southafrica might be better than nigeria so to say. It is because majority of our ladies are broke, lazy and dependent thereby increasing the number of hardworking men in nigeria and a number of men trooping out in mass because they can't satisfy our broke ladies and prefer foreigners. Or travel out to hustle and come back to impress the weakling of a nigerian lady. Majority of nigerian men have died in the process trying to impress or satisfy a Nigerian women because of the way you claim your imaginary nature wired them Another is the issue of Europeans and america. Why do you think it is their women that get easily scammed from the yahoo boiz Or nigerian men wanting to get papers. Many nigerian men that were forced into such have been jailed, killed and sentence to death because of trying to have a family and make it because of our lazy nigerian ladies You cant compare all these ladies with our own nigerian ladiez that had the reasoning of entitlement. That is why we are backward How many of the lazy Nigerian girls can u really scam wen they even have nothing but nothing. This is drastically affecting Nigeria economically and financially but we may not be conscious of it because we see everything normal to us. I know I should have created a thread or really need to write an article on this with standard statistics for you and us all but am not just good with words and writing. But i know plenty and better writer that got my point can take it from here for a reasonable article[/b] 2 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by freddaboh(m): 1:40am On Apr 17, 2017 |
queency11: Keep fighting for the few and available 'made men' while the sleep with you and enjoy what you have to offer they will move to the next girl with your kind of mindset. Do not come here and start saying that men are wicked. I don tell you my own. 2 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by 2hrt(m): 2:14am On Apr 17, 2017 |
KennyID17: Guy you spoke my mind...Imagine me on a salary of 103k with heavy family responsibilities yet this ex-gf demanded iphone 6...I couldn't get it she term me broke...Na her papa she dey refer too sha.. Most times i just chill and get entertained by the stupidity of our naija girls |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by biz2get(m): 3:50am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Raydans: You said it better... I had to stop replying this thread, bcus it seems to me as if the the level of Ppl in this Thread are just Deluded ones. Less than 5% of Nigerians Are Well Oriented. Thank you for this write up. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by biz2get(m): 6:39am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Raydans: Here's Something I Learnt while Growing up. Always Take Note Of The First Thing that A Person Tried to Describe Themselves As, Becomes In Reality. That's who they truly are When you meet somebody today, and tomroro the person tries to look different. No the person is either faking or truly who they are (1st). There's no edithing or changing anything. What she wrote up there is what is tried to pass out to others. Anything changed is FAKE! |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by cooldood(m): 9:43am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Raydans:Where you got this idea that Nigerian ladies are lazy I dont understand, I served in Akwa Ibom a couple of years back and I was amazed at how laid back their men were, yet you find their women riding bicycles to the farm to work, attending to people at various business centres. If you see 9ja women as lazy, then its because the men are perhaps lazy as well.By the way, who are those in charge of 9ja, that made it difficult for jobs to be readily available for people (be it male or female), is it not the control-freak men. In fact with the number of unemployed guys around, by the time the ladies fill up most jobs available, then I want to see what will save men from running out of the country to get basic livelihood. The type of men you have in every society determines to a large extent the type of ladies they produce also. If you continue to have men that are ego-centric and always looking for gals to blame for their predicaments, then you get gals that are also laid back (unwilling to contribute to relationships). But if you face your hustle/work/vision, you will attract and find just exactly the right babe for your qualities. Guys should stop blaming gals for whatever happens, take ownership, take responsibility. Also, stop presenting yourselves to gals in the wrong way, if you pretend to a gal that you have this or that, meanwhile you dont and also begin to promise her heaven n earth, then be ready to die in River Nile,and travel far and wide, when she starts demanding for crazy things in line with all your fake lies. All the babes I dated, were always hard working, I cant attract any lazy person, cos you will be left behind if you cant move at my pace. So oga, 9ja men should redefine their ways, if they think 9ja gals are lazy, YOU MADE THEM LAZY with your ways. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 9:59am On Apr 17, 2017 |
There's a book called the Great female con ... Google it ... Its a good read for both men and women looking to get married . Thank me later . |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by mctowel01: 10:06am On Apr 17, 2017 |
cooldood:In summary, women are the weaker sex. To be dependent on the higher sex. Gender equality is B.S. I see your point. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by cooldood(m): 10:26am On Apr 17, 2017 |
mctowel01:Real ladies actually accept that gender equality is nonsense. I have a friend that works in the media and she has actually once gone on air to trash the equality stuff. Is she hardworking, of course she is, does she love herself as a lady, yes she does and she earns steady income, yet, loves her man to be the man.Women are all looking for security-emotional, financial and what have you, so a man needs to develop himself emotionally and become emotionally mature to handle a relationship. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 11:36am On Apr 17, 2017 |
This is a guy that has common sense. cooldood: |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Sike(m): 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
I trust my guys. them don already finish the op before I come. nice one! |
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