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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by okezuoemmanue(m): 1:09am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Before confronting ur wife, u should have come to seek for advice from the gods first. U f**ked up by letting her know about ur findings. When you confronted her, where u expecting her to owe to the rubbish? She did what every other woman will do. And believe me, she will now go to tighten up every noose. U can't see her chats again, and too, if she ask u to go for the paternity test, she must be ready to go there to seal ur fate. So I advice u to go to her and apologize to her, make peace with her, tell her that you love her so much and u were scared of loosing ur precious to another man. Buy her gifts. But know that she will play along but she may still not believe in the drama. So wait till she put to bed. Don't tell her. Take the specimen to a hospital a hospital that don't know either of you. Do the test in about 2 to 3 hospitals. If the results tells you that you are not the father of the child. Then tell ur wife that you want to go for paternity of the child. She will say the same thing like she will give you hell. Agree. It will be worse for her and any hospital she pays to tamper on the result. Provided that u are sure of ur results, u can make money(lol). 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by MurphyTheory99(m): 1:14am On Jun 30, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes: The baby is not yours. That calculation don't add up. Let be real here! She is buying time and find out about the Doctor. I guess once she puts to bed she would move to him. Don't allow her to suggest where the paternity is done when the baby is born. If am in ur shoes I won't wait. Start chasing those women you been tripping for. Get one pregnant asap and as she is moving out to Dr your heavily pregnant side chick is moving in as wife. She won't believe when she hears about the way u moved on so fast. Anyways that's how I treat them hoes. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by skj1377(m): 1:16am On Jun 30, 2017 |
bros sorry, i think the baby is not yours, start looking for new wife that will not need to call another male " friend" for any reason. i also think you should stop eating her food till this is over just in case she put the charm on any part of her body, you need to stop touching her also. finally kindly check under your bed for charms thanks. the part of you that trusts her is the charmed part. you just married a bad person. sorry what ever made you check her phone is the self preservation you have left but has been over run by external forces (charms) this thin has no end run for you life bro. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by FellaL: 1:20am On Jun 30, 2017 |
bants. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by crowley(m): 1:24am On Jun 30, 2017 |
too much talking. when baby come, do a DNA test. if its urs, plead with her to 4give u 4 nt trusting her. if nt urz, divorce her nd ask her to pay all u spent till baby was born. simple. 18months is to short for her to start misbehaving. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Fourwinds: 1:29am On Jun 30, 2017 |
megareal:nonsense ....what kind of threat rather dan to end d marriage....is she God 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by HolyTitus(m): 1:30am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Oga o.. Diff. people with their own problems! Believe me, Life experiences like this cum personal experiences with series of relationship does instills a great deal of fear in my mind- which makes me afraid of getting serious with a lady, not to talk of even settling down... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 1:30am On Jun 30, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes: Nigga, nigga, nigga The baby ain't yours Must you be told nigga ? Seriously? Why ask questions if which you already know the answer ? Fact is you need to pray for courage to do what you already know needs to be done .. Divorce ain't nothing to be ashamed of Stay strong brother 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Opoki(m): 1:30am On Jun 30, 2017 |
naturalwaves:Pls kindly teach me how to spoof. I am ready to pay. Pls sir. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 1:33am On Jun 30, 2017 |
eyinjuege: What sort of rubbish comment is this ? So meaning if he is infertile he should father another's child ? Your have zero morals and will do anything to achieve your aim I pity kids your have for they will be morally bankrupt 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Denko2721987(m): 1:37am On Jun 30, 2017 |
MicroBox: I think this is the post that'l try clear the mess.. Sorry about what you going tru.. Honestly, i am beginning to wonder if marriage is even worth it these days.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by pochman: 1:37am On Jun 30, 2017 |
My brother,your wife may be carrying your child. Firstly,pregnancy age starts counting from the day of a woman's last period. Secondly,scanning is not a true test of determining the age of pregnancy,that is why you see most women are given expected date of delivery and will actually deliver a week before or a week after the given date. So if you put this into factor the date may add up. I will also advice you talk to your wife to mind how she interact with men and to choose her words correctly because men can take advantage of their weakness to lure them to their bed. A married woman has no business having the kind of chat she is been having with that Doctor. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by naturalwaves: 1:39am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Opoki:You go get heartbreak o. Sometimes, I am always forced to agree with that statement ....." These hoes ain't loyal". Smh. Spoofing is not ethical jare. Just let sleeping dogs lie. Make God just help person chose, anyone you carry, just manage am like that 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Lloydfolarin: 1:40am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Awwwww!!! I now understand why these Nigeria guys are being treated like fools by their wives. Just read all their suggestions and tell me that these guys are ok These Nigeria guys irritate me to high heaven with their stupid utterances such as "If she finds out that you are the father of that child, she ll do this and that". Shooo!!! Are you guys that dumb and sissy that you can't call d bluff of your wife and still get your full respect? This is what you get when you foolishly and stupidly fall in love Back to Op, it's over, you are an Ode. You deserve to be cheated on. Another time, consult the experienced brothers instead of coming online. Let me burst your bubbles by letting you know that your hoe called wife has no respect for you. It's obvious she doesn't dig you hence the cheating And finally, if you take her emotional blackmail seriously, you are on a long thing. Women ll cry and swear with anything despite their involvement in the shameful act. She has either cheated on you or still cheating 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 1:45am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Shroud:I endorse this advice |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Opoki(m): 1:45am On Jun 30, 2017 |
There are 3 things I prayed for in life. Wisdom, knowledge and understanding. After years of prayer, I realised that if I must have wisdom, I must be patient, if I must have knowledge, I must see things differently and if I must have understanding I must be able to control my emotions. The 3 things the OP lacks, he's not patient enough, he lacks the ability to control his emotions and lacks understanding. If you had waited and be patient, you wouldn't put yourself in a mess because the heap of information you will discover would have been massive if your wife is cheating on you. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 1:47am On Jun 30, 2017 |
This is why men are advised to follow up on their wives pregnancy journey but they wont listen. Pregnancy is calculated from the first day of a woman's period, that is how 40weeks gestational period is gotten. In addition scan is unreliable at giving gestational age(ask any gynecologist). but since you hv already created doubt in your mind, i suggest you carry out a DNA test after d baby is born. only dat can give you peace of mind. Its either the baby is or isnt yours but whatever the result is, prepare to live with it cos its going to be heartbreaking to either of the party at the end. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Lloydfolarin: 1:47am On Jun 30, 2017 |
megareal: Bleep that, who cares? Make his life miserable and get sent back to her parents His wife is calling someone a sweetheart and you are here telling us that the stupid wife ll subject him to all sorts when the baby is finally here. Bleep that 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by HolyTitus(m): 1:49am On Jun 30, 2017 |
People are just telling the OP to play on, and act like nothing is happening until the baby is born- like it's that easy to bear such life-threatening matter in mind; but, did you remember to ask him if he has the mind to bear it till that time ? na high BP dey knock be that(by the time blood rushes into the brain, due to too much thoughts, you'll know maybe the woman in question won't move on with her gynae. best friend). So, the earlier the better, you gas act very fast and know where your fate lies; know the baby paternity on time, just to know if you're now a dad or not yet(the ball is in your court) N.B: DNA testing can be done as early as the end of first trimester of pregnancy ... Well OP, i pray the Good God that never fails for once see you through this little tribulation.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 1:52am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Out of all the commenters here, I can only find 3 females dem don ja....dem know say the bros don ka....seriously though, statistics indicate that a man's instincts about the paternity of a child is about 72% accurate...that's pretty high. So if you ever doubt the paternity of a child, do a DNA test. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Opoki(m): 1:52am On Jun 30, 2017 |
naturalwaves:I have never take any woman serious in my life but I enjoy it when I know what they do in the conferment of their room and still prove innocent, for instance, I innocently did a desktop whatsapp on my pc with someone's fone so I automatically receive her msg unknowingly to her... I feel ashamed with the information I discovered! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Afamed: 1:54am On Jun 30, 2017 |
If you need to get to the root of the situation, never confront her with any suspicious message until the day the baby is born. For now, take away any discussion that has to do with DNA. This is because she might find a way of terminating the pregnancy as a way of covering up. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by naturalwaves: 1:58am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Opoki:If you see a good one,you can take her serious. After passing all the requisite tests though. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by oyatz(m): 1:58am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Sorry about your condition bro. Your wife may just be a bit immature about handling relationship with other guys but you need a lot of prayer and maturity to save your home and happiness. 1) In Obstetrics, the estimated gestational age (EGA) is calculated from the first date of the menstral period. 2)If your wife last saw her period on May 16 and let's assume she menstrate for 5 days (the commonest duration for young Ladies), so she started on May 12. From May 12 to Jun 26 is 45days making 6weeks 3days. Estimated gestational age (EGA)= 6wks,3days and the expected date of delivery (EDD) =19/02/2018. 3) Ultrasound scan in early period is fairly reliable for calculating gestational age but its operator dependent. 4) Wait patiently after delivery and do DNA test , possibly at a teaching hospital to confirm the paternity. 5) DON'T ever raise the issue with her again... you will seriously hurt her if the pregnancy is truly yours. 6) Discuss with a genuine and enlightened man of God, not your mother or family members who will complicate the matters. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by biggie73(m): 2:04am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Trust and love are for dead folks. Wise up. This your wife may kill you. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nairaboi(m): 2:08am On Jun 30, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:Ogbeni, shut up dia! as long as you have brought your issue to a public forum, anyone is free to give their opinion as the spirit directs. You keep a skank in the house and called that a wife? What business does a married woman has with referring to another man other than her husband as her love? Someone is now giving you LaTruth, and instead of being grateful that you are being helped not to father another person's child, you are talking trash. It seems the pucci juice she has been giving you is yet to clear from your brain. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Opoki(m): 2:09am On Jun 30, 2017 |
naturalwaves:I'm not a saint but I've come to understand that every being has a dark spot, to some, it is more darker, like very very dark and these set of people crucify, castigate and stone others for their wrongdoings. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nairaboi(m): 2:14am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Franky826:means nothing Mr. the only thing was his blood/genes was much stronger than the other alaye's own, so it subdued what would have turned out to be an exact replica of Mr. Patrick |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Afamed: 2:22am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Nairaboi:Gbam! |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by naturalwaves: 2:25am On Jun 30, 2017 |
Opoki:Yeah yeah. You are right! |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 2:33am On Jun 30, 2017 |
MurphyTheory99: The calculation adds up perfectly for her to be 7 weeks along. It's obvious you don't know how to calculate due date for a pregnancy. Stop giving bad advice and trying to destroy his marriage. If my husband played this game with me, he would find himself alone after I leave the hospital. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by MicroBox: 2:36am On Jun 30, 2017 |
stuffs4me:Its being awhile you joined nairaland so i believe you are very mature..though i doubt if you are married because if you do, you will understand how keeping a very peaceful home is important.What if the baby belong to the OP. Please Start paying attention to how women think. Definitely flirting with another man is haram to me and you but the husband allowed the wife to work so flirting occasionally is a must. (Flirting does'nt mean sleeping around). |
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