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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by yvelchstores(f): 10:35am On Jun 29, 2017 |
My scan showed 5 months pregnancy.hubby was there with me. We knew the pregnancy was 4 months so for what it's worth, scan doesn't give actual term of pregnancy. I pray ur child will be ur splitting image so God saves ur wife. Those saying do DNA, u think its kobo kobo. Op said they are restrained on cash. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Agbaletu: 10:43am On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:This is a very sensitive matter, you have to tread with caution so that you will not regret whatever step you take. Based on this calculation, the pregnancy is yours. I wish you did not challenge her and wait till the baby is born. You would have done the paternity test without her knowledge. You have blown it out and you will do a lot of fence mending when the baby finally belongs to you. There are certain things one should not do once it has to do with the paternity of a child. Either baby is yours or not your relationship with your wife will never be the same again. Women can forgive but they too don't forget. Be prepared for anything that comes out of this. I wish you the best. 20 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by ststyreal(f): 7:55pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Just relax that baby could be yours! I personally don't trust all this machine stuff called scan. Make peace with your wife and wait until the baby is born. The baby could be your, scan aren't 100% accurate. God bless your home, amen! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by valdovas(m): 8:50pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
The op sounds like a weak man with no backbone that's why his wife can threaten him to make his life miserable over legitimate concerns and even be receiving calls freely from another man in his presence. Warn your wife seriously to never repeat that rubbish of using dearie or luv when chatting with another man, that is a huge slap on your face and you should be the one angry with her not her threatening you after disrespecting the sanctity of your union. For now don't show any remorse for suggesting the baby isn't yours, you were justified to suspect her after seeing that chat. Just stop mentioning the dna and paternity issue and after the baby is born you go behind her back to confirm paternity. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by jchioma: 10:56pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Sorry bros, you are in an unfortunate situation. The doubts are justified. Just be patient and watchful. The truth shall manifest. Wisdom is the principal thing. It's still possible your wife may be innocent. But she needs to learn from this experience and guard her young home from spoilers with caution and responsibility. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by hucienda: 10:58pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
na wa o. d tins pesin dey see n hear diz days. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by exlinkleads(f): 11:02pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
hmm |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by 1miccza: 11:03pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
FOUR WORDS BRO
Never trust a woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by lepasharon(f): 11:04pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
If ur doubting, you should have done DNA test on the baby in secret |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Baamivic: 11:05pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Tell her u have a traditional practice (ORO) in ur family that she must do before she w deliver and failure to do it can lead to her death or something else. U w see what will happen before her delivery. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by whizzyleejr(m): 11:05pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
What is the DNA test for?? oya go do am chap chap |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by felixomor: 11:05pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes: My advice to you will be to first of all, Stay Calm Allow the baby to be delivered and actually go and do a paternity test when the baby is born. Your wife has to realise that even if you are the real father of the baby, she has cheated on you. It is bad of her not to feel remorseful for what she has done by flirting. Please find someone she is accountable to and thrash that out. Lastly, please pray very well. Things like these are hard for men to get of their chest. I must confess. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Sleyanya1(m): 11:06pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Vivipop(f): 11:06pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
This one strong ghan! With what you wrote down here, it is difficult not to doubt the paternity of that child. Actually very very difficult. Still, I don't want to judge her. You also need to clear your doubts, so do conduct a paternity test as soon as possible and brace yourself for any possible outcome. Lest I forget, if the baby is proven to be yours, make sure you comeback on nairaland to clear her name(plus millions of women out there that could be affected directly or indirectly by your post) 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by obataokenwa(m): 11:06pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
DNA Test is 100k... just save money and be sure Pls after she has given birth. pet her till then and do it secretly. Only DNA Test can help you 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by juntod: 11:07pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
All these cooked up stories. What kind of training is she having with a Gynecologist? Is she one too? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by GeneralOjukwu: 11:07pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Mr MemphisRaynes, 1st mistake....why the hell will your wife have male friends who gist with her even in your presence? What's wrong with you providing male companionship? 99% of men can't reject an easy screw and you kept your eyes wide open. Better do a DNA test or pour your resources down the drain.....do at least 2 tests just in case there are false positives / negatives. I know of a family where 3 out of 5 kids were discovered to have been fathered by the neighbour when the Husband started having grandkids * juntod. ...thank-you, we just indulge them. We can smell all the fake stories from a mile away. I think Seun even pays his MODs to write them. I see them on a daily basis now... they are released especially as last articles for the night 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by onyeezeigbo: 11:08pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:I don't think you need help,you have already called your wife a cheat by suspecting her already so allow we the panel of judges to handle this your case in peace 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
DNA test is N100k. It involves you swabbing a cotton bud inside the babies cheek, then you swab another inside your cheek, then take it to the DNA laboratory for testing. Do a google search for the nearest one in your city, or some labs give you the option of sending the DNA sample (cotton bud) to them by courier. Goodluck. MemphisRaynes: |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by AntiWailer: 11:10pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Calm down. Let her give birth and try to do DNA. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
He doesn't have to tell her, he can do it in secret. Prettyhurts: |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by maklelemakukula(m): 11:10pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
we dont know either 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by dayleke: 11:10pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Good luck man.... |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by fof1: 11:11pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes: U SEEM STUPID WITH UR STORY LINE. AFTER UNCOVERING A GREAT DECEIT U ARE STILL MAKING EXCUSES FIR UR FAKE LOVER WIFE. MY FRIEND DON'T BE DECEIVED. U HV TWO OPTIONS. WAIT HER DELIVERY AND SEND HER PACKING OR DISCHARGE HER NOW. REM. HER FRIEND IS A GYNECOLOGIST WHO CAN MANIPULATE RESULTS THRO FRIENDS OR SYMPATHETIC FOOLS. UR WIFE WAS EATING YAM REGULARLY WITHOUT CAUTION DURING TRAINING. WOMEN DON'T JUST GET PREGNANT OVER NIGHT. HER SYSTEM HAD BEEN OILED OR LUBRICATED hormonally TO GET IT IMPLANTED WELL. SHE IS CRYING CROCODILIANS STYLE. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by lonelydora: 11:11pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes: Bros, you need to calm down until the baby is born. You have already shown your wife your doubting her, which is your first mistake. My wife for example does not have 'safe period'. She got pregnant for my second child just immediately after her period. Safe period is not for everyone. Do a paternity test when the baby is born. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by pweshboi(m): 11:11pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
please where are the women right Fighters, this guy needs your advice. I'm here to read reasonable advises from y'all since we know y'all to be the ones to slam a man when things go south about gender. Biko we waiting for y'all Nah so dem go avoid this thread like flee 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by adegeye38(m): 11:12pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
MemphisRaynes:the chat still doesnt mean, she and her gyne mighy be friends, and the "our baby" terms he used still doesn't mean, he probably said it in joking way die to their closeness.... anyway, give ur wife d benefit of doubt for now and wait till d child i born then go do a dna test 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Bussme: 11:12pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Bros, my candid opinion is to e calm till she put to bed. Just behave as if you have forgotten this issue and don't forget to do your scan after the delivery.. The sms's you saw and other conversation are pointing to the facts that she is cheating on you, no doubt but exercise Patience. Do not let her threat get you scared except you are in control of our home I.e financial responsibility. |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by chuksanambra: 11:13pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
OP, listen to me very well, if you don't carry out a paternity test on the child when born, you may end up spending your youthful years training another man's child. If this happens despite the technology around, you'll be the greatest fool of this century. By the way, hope you guys noticed a pattern on this thread? The ladies are trying to convince him that the foetus is his and pushing him into accepting it. Truly, these hoes aren't loyal! 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Hope y'all know that a DNA test is a big deal in Nigeria. Only a handful of medical centres in Nigeria can actually carry out a DNA test and it's damn expensive. If the o.p is not well-to-do but is really serious about it, he should start saving towards it. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Joenyam(m): 11:15pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
May you not find your better half after marriage. My prayer for you all. 8 Likes |
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