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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:27am On Feb 12, 2010
Krayola:

haha. I'm not married. Probably never will.  grin I love my freedomwomen too much. .  embarassed

Hehehe. . . . . .Platinum will be disappointed.
Men who think like Krayola are loners cos their skewed mentality cannot work in marriage.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:28am On Feb 12, 2010
michelin89:

Who said men don't use emotions to get what they want? Especially at night when they start stroking their kobokos against your yansh saying please na. If that is not being slave to your emotions, I don't know what to call it. lipsrsealed grin

Plat wudnt mind submitting to that. grin cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:29am On Feb 12, 2010
TOPE2000!:

Plat wudnt mind submitting to that. grin cheesy

Are u saying the sight of koboko makes Plat wet n ready? grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:30am On Feb 12, 2010
TOPE2000!:

Plat wudnt mind submitting to that. grin cheesy

She probably wont even need to be begged.  grin

~Sauron~:

Hehehe. . . . . .Platinum will be disappointed.
Men who think like Krayola are loners cos their skewed mentality cannot work in marriage.

lol i think women like plat are deluded if they think there are men out there who are for the 50-50 stuff. Its easy to say so online . . . i'm not surprised all the men who supported 50-50 marriages are SINGLE!  grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:32am On Feb 12, 2010
~Sauron~:

Are u saying the sight of koboko makes Plat wet n ready? grin

davidylan:

She probably wont even need to be begged. grin

LOLz . . . .make una leave her jor cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:32am On Feb 12, 2010
davidylan:

lol i think women like plat are deluded if they think there are men out there who are for the 50-50 stuff. Its easy to say so online . . . i'm not surprised all the men who supported 50-50 marriages are SINGLE!  grin

SINGLE abi players looking for innocent and naive lambs like Platinumnk to devour and spit their bones in a pit-latrine.
Yet we wonder why some babes get heart-broken every quarter of the year. grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:35am On Feb 12, 2010
Krayola:

But what if he gets used to u being so submissive. . . WHat happens when you disagree with him but he insists on making decisions that directly affect you, for u, despite your objections?


That's why you try as much as possible not to marry one of those touts fresh from Aba with skewed ideas of submission. People like Sauron and David enjoy healthy debates. I don't think they want a siddon look woman for a wife. But all of these should be done with respect. cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:35am On Feb 12, 2010
stillwater:

That's why you try as much as possible not to marry one of those touts fresh from Aba. People like Sauron and David enjoy healthy debates. I don't think they want a siddon look woman for a wife. But all of these should be done with respect. cheesy

Lmao grin cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:36am On Feb 12, 2010
~Sauron~:

SINGLE abi players looking for innocent and naive lambs like Platinumnk to devour and spit their bones in a pit-latrine.
Yet we wonder why some babes get heart-broken every quarter of the year. grin


Even break ups are now 50-50. We are equal. grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 12:38am On Feb 12, 2010
~Sauron~:

Men who think like Krayola are loners cos their skewed mentality cannot work in marriage.

haha. I agree with u jare. I ain't built for that marriage stuff.

I think monogamy and marrying for love are social constructs. As long as I'm safe, sincere, and don't go around lying to women to get in their heads[size=5pt]panties[/size] . . I'll be one happy single mo-fo.



TOPE2000!:


But then again u are an Atheist . . . i dont expect u understand what God meant when he said wives shud be submissive grin

haha. I'm not an atheist o. I'm agnostic. But I think I know the Bible pretty well.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:38am On Feb 12, 2010
davidylan:

Even break ups are now 50-50. We are equal.  grin

ROFLMAO!!!
Hmmmmmmm. . . . . . .I nor dey take NL serious o grin grin grin grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:41am On Feb 12, 2010
Krayola:

haha. I agree with u jare. I ain't built for that marriage stuff.

I think monogamy and marrying for love are social constructs. As long as I'm safe, sincere, and don't go around lying to women to get in their heads[size=5pt]panties[/size] . . I'll be one happy single mo-fo.


I must say i admire that u knw who u are n what u want and i hope you stay true to it wink


haha. I'm not an atheist o. I'm agnostic. But I think I know the Bible pretty well.

Lol . . . . If u had had plans to marry, i am sure u'd want a wife that is also submissive cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:42am On Feb 12, 2010
Krayola:

haha. I agree with u jare. I ain't built for that marriage stuff.

I think monogamy and marrying for love are social constructs. As long as I'm safe, sincere, and don't go around lying to women to get in their heads[size=5pt]panties[/size] . . I'll be one happy single mo-fo.

Behold . . . plat's husband! There is hope folks! grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 12:47am On Feb 12, 2010
TOPE2000!:


Lol . . . . If u had had plans to marry, i am sure u'd want a wife that is also submissive cheesy

haha. At all o. It's sauron that wants to marry a woman he can cage in his basement, feed thru a small door, and f.u.ck like a rabbit after watching blue film. Thats what he call a "loving" relationship


davidylan:

Behold . . . plat's husband! There is hope folks!  grin

haha. Does Plat have a phat bank account? Cause I'm broke and I want HALF!!!  grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:49am On Feb 12, 2010
Krayola:

haha. At all o. It's sauron that wants to marry a woman he can cage in his basement, feed thru a small door, and f.u.ck like a rabbit after watching blue film. Thats what he call a "loving" relationship

Lmao grin grin
Sauron is a teddybear jor, the dark lord sauron is fake grin cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:53am On Feb 12, 2010
Krayola:

haha. Does Plat have a phat bank account? Cause I'm broke and I want HALF!!!  grin

I support you . . . share the account 50-50.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:54am On Feb 12, 2010
davidylan:

I support you . . . share the account 50-50.

Plat would say: to each his own. cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by ayettymama(f): 12:57am On Feb 12, 2010
dont worry plat

i have plenty of friends married to white men

happily i must add

the man helps wiv the cooking cleaning buying buying spending buying paying paying etc etc

so i agree

to each her own!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 1:01am On Feb 12, 2010
davidylan:

I support you . . . share the account 50-50.
grin me I dont know about this whole 50-50 idea o. SHe is MY woman, abi?. . .ALL of her, which includes her bank account. ALL. I will love her with ALL my heart tho.
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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 1:08am On Feb 12, 2010
ayettymama:

dont worry plat

i have plenty of friends married to white men

happily i must add

the man helps wiv the cooking cleaning buying buying spending buying paying paying etc etc

so i agree

to each her own!

We're back the racist and frankly ignorant categorization that states - white men = tolerant, good . . . black men = bad, animals.

This type of junk analysis pretty much destroys the credibility of the person making it. I wonder why such people dont just go ahead and marry white men and leave us alone.

Back to debunking the false claims . . . there are equally good and bad men among the races. I know black Nigerians who cook (one i know is a chef and he is in his 60s), clean (my uncle scrubs the bathrooms in his home), take care of the kids (i know an uncle who took care of the kids because his wife is never up before 10am and you are not allowed to wake her) and buy/spend (my dad is guilty of this).

We also know white men who are just bone-lazy, do not support their wives . . . not to mention the divorce rates in white countries.

So really what was this individual trying to bring out from the hare-brained post?

That Nigerian men who insist on tranditional roles for men and women in the home cannot cook, clean or spend for their wives? Wow nigerian men will spend their precious money for gfs and fiancees . . . you try asking your white bf to pay for your dinner.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by H2O2: 1:12am On Feb 12, 2010
I've said many times before that ayetty's posts are sickeningly devoid of objectivity.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by ayettymama(f): 1:24am On Feb 12, 2010
then stop following me!!!

monkey!

david i didnt say anything

i just said inno plenty of white men that reason the same way

i didnt say anything abt good or bad

im not going to debate wiv u abt races

we are not talking abt that

im observing the way u reason and comparing it to those inno

u are looking for a submissive wife

they are looking for other things!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by mamagee3(f): 1:25am On Feb 12, 2010
Highly belittling of women, Since when did women become Objects that require maintenance
Old School mentality.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by H2O2: 1:26am On Feb 12, 2010
ayettymama:

then stop following me!!!

monkey!

david i didnt say anything

you are not being followed. Arrow!

this is not your private parlour. rofl
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 1:26am On Feb 12, 2010
ayettymama:

then stop following me!!!

monkey!

david i didnt say anything

i just said inno plenty of white men that reason the same way

i didnt say anything abt good or bad

im not going to debate wiv u abt races

we are not talking abt that

im observing the way u reason and comparing it to those inno

u are looking for a submissive wife

they are looking for other things!


and you have me figured out based on? A thread on NL?  grin
Its high time i logged out for the nite . . . we're entering into silly season.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by H2O2: 1:28am On Feb 12, 2010
LOL LMAO cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 1:42am On Feb 12, 2010
angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by ayettymama(f): 1:56am On Feb 12, 2010
davidylan:



[b]you try asking your white bf to pay for your dinner.[/b]

Your kidding me right?

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 2:08am On Feb 12, 2010
~Sauron~:



I'm sorry for your relationship.
U would be thrown out of it faster than farticles stream out of OBJ's arse after eating a pot of beans.

I dont see anything other then biological that men cant do I cant undecided 50/50

Quote from: michelin89 on Today at 05:22:18 PM
Who said men don't use emotions to get what they want? Especially at night when they start stroking their kobokos against your yansh saying please na. If that is not being slave to your emotions, I don't know what to call it.  
after i finished with him, he would be in submision grin grin grin tongue

Krayola:

haha. I'm not married. Probably never will. grin I love my freedomwomen too much. . embarassed
hey wanna rent a house together and adopt a couple of kids? grin grin

stillwater:

You really see this issue as a lord and subject thing. Sorry I can't help you here.
But why is there is a need to maninpulate? whats wrong with mutual understanding? undecided

TOPE2000!:

Plat wudnt mind submitting to that. grin cheesy

tongue tongue tongue Im a virgin tongue

~Sauron~:

Are u saying the sight of koboko makes Plat wet n ready? grin
hell no  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed turn off, filthy looking things angry angry angry lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

davidylan:

She probably wont even need to be begged.  grin

lol i think women like plat are deluded if they think there are men out there who are for the 50-50 stuff. Its easy to say so online . . . i'm not surprised all the men who supported 50-50 marriages are SINGLE!  grin
Because I demand equal rights??
Krayola:

haha. At all o. It's sauron that wants to marry a woman he can cage in his basement, feed thru a small door, and f.u.ck like a rabbit after watching blue film. Thats what he call a "loving" relationship


haha. Does Plat have a phat bank account?
Cause I'm broke and I want HALF!!!  grin




50/50 U cant be broke, though we can negotiate a loan I can write out for you to help you start a business.

michelin89:

Plat would say: to each his own. cheesy

we can share, as long as his pockets are the same length grin grin grin
50/50

Saying 50/50 does not in any form of way mean that I will disrespect my man, Why should I , in 50/50 he respects and loves me, and I him. We work together and make decisions together, he suggests things, and if I dont like it, i wont have to bend to his will immediately because he knows that I have EQUAL rights to the marriage so he will hear what I have to say.

If he is more comfortable doing some thing, and vice versa, why wouldnt it work?
I dont mind footing the bill for things, it shows responsibility and willingness to put effort towards your home.
I dont work for myself, so why should he be paying only the major bills, if hes at work, should i wait for him to mow the grass, or change the lightulbs, change the oil?

If im working, he cant pick the kids or make them dinner?
Please tell me where 50/50 wont work, with both of us respecting each others  differences. undecided undecided undecided

It will NEVER boil over easy with me if a man says  "do this" because he thinks he has an automatic right over me because he was born with golfballs lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TeeJay6(m): 2:09am On Feb 12, 2010
blimey this control thread is still on grin grin grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 2:20am On Feb 12, 2010
. . .
David and Saurons Secret Remote tongue
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by oyinda3(f): 3:45am On Feb 12, 2010
rotflmao  cheesy

davidylan:

We're back the racist and frankly ignorant categorization that states - white men = tolerant, good . . . black men = bad, animals.

This type of junk analysis pretty much destroys the credibility of the person making it. I wonder why such people dont just go ahead and marry white men and leave us alone.

Back to debunking the false claims . . . there are equally good and bad men among the races. I know black Nigerians who cook (one i know is a chef and he is in his 60s), clean (my uncle scrubs the bathrooms in his home), take care of the kids (i know an uncle who took care of the kids because his wife is never up before 10am and you are not allowed to wake her) and buy/spend (my dad is guilty of this).

We also know white men who are just bone-lazy, do not support their wives . . . not to mention the divorce rates in white countries.


That Nigerian men who insist on tranditional roles for men and women in the home cannot cook, clean or spend for their wives? Wow nigerian men will spend their precious money for gfs and fiancees . . . you try asking your white bf to pay for your dinner.


and no, your uncle's story is not the general case for naija men. which typical naija man cook for his family or scrub bathrooms or take care of kids rotflmao and i'm not talking about those "once per year" ones  grin
the ones abroad here are a little better. america generally force changes some of the men n make them realize they have to help their wives once in a while. if wife work all night n has to sleep in morning who will take care of kids!? there is no omo-odo in america rotfl

and the ones that are still culture shocked and can't wrap their heads around the idea of a man cooking food or washing plate. well we hear about them in the crime news  grin unless they have older kids then maybe they will be spared a bit.


even the title of the topic sef is extremely sexist. only with nigerians (and maybe arabians) will such be seen as normal. imagine. "control and maintain your wife" shior grin

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