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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:41pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: Gbam. I go with you on this. I'm sure plat is fine with paying half of the house rent, paying for her food when she goes dining and carrying her share of the wedding expenses. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 11:41pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
chika98: That is what i have been tellin that stubborn head plat. She doesnt think deep, she dey disappoint me. pesin must talk with all her mouth b4 she gets |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by oyinda3(f): 11:42pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
davidylan: lol @" those nigerians". can u please tell me about the married nigerian immigrants in ur area of the United States? what are the typical male professions and the typical female professions? who makes more money? http://www.sturvs.com/Blogs/Nigerian_Men_Are_Killing_Their_Wives_in_America_now-/ like i said the "killing" is extreme but u get the idea that the men are generally not comfortable with the US gender relations. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 11:42pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
davidylan: Yes they are . . Business Partnerships. . . Marriages. . Same thing. 50/50 TOPE2000!: I expect to help pay the house rent, Am I working for myself? He doesnt marry himself so I shouldnt expect him to do everything. Its a partnership 50/50 |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: See i was trying not to say this before they crucify me. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by chika98: 11:42pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
stillwater: Yep! It is a two way thing. People use emotions to get what they want all the time. Newsflash! |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:43pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
platinumnk: lol pls can someone set this girl straight before she crashes into a marriage? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by chika98: 11:43pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
davidylan: She's young still. Allow her |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 11:43pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
platinumnk: Good for you hun . Gudluck |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by oyinda3(f): 11:45pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: rotfl. i think your the one not thinking deep here. so if your husband fall out of love with u. what will u do? or if he start seeing girl outside and spending all his money on her? u better find a job n make sure your self sufficient. instead of relying on your female parts. that will only take u so far. maybe till u turn 35. 1 Like |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:46pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
The fact is Plat is trying to use logic where it can't be applied. We are not talking about Physics or Maths where objectivity rules (yet there are multiple ways to get to the same solution). Marriage can't be governed with 100% objectivity and fairness, just like in any other human aspect. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 11:47pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: Hey I am naturally stubborn If I have to manipulate the guy then its not a true form of leadership. the woman rulez then with the man being deluded I'll take that but its still 50/50 inits truest form davidylan:you are always trying to drive a stake in my arguments davidylan: Dude I already in another thread that I expect to pay my share of the wedding If he pays one day, I got the other Am I working for myself? chika98: again even with coverups the equation equalizes 50/50 |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:49pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
michelin89: Is this Michelin talking? I can't believe it. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 11:50pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
michelin89: Even mich understand what we are tryin to say. Thank God oyinda.: Oyinda are u OK? Did i write it anywhere that i wont work? what does submission have to do with being a hsewife. these girls are living in lala land i swear |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by oyinda3(f): 11:52pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
from my understanding, when plat says "50/50" the idea is equality not necessarily that u have to calculate ur salary and divide by 50%. no that's not worthwhile. @ tope, if you end up becoming a rich woman, and by some reason, u end up marrying a richer man than u, will u still expect him to be paying all the rent, bills etc. do u think he will be willing to let u keep all ur money to urself while he only spends his? i don't think most rich men are that foolish. typically they're the most economical (how they become wealthy in the first place) unless they're the flashy type that's taking u for a ride. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
stillwater: TOPE2000!: Little woman grows. She talks less and acts more. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
@ OP: Masterpiece! "Fear is the highest form of respect." --- Al Capone. "It is better for a prince to be feared, than be loved" --- Niccolo Machiavelli (The Prince). |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 11:54pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
michelin89: Why cant we use logic? A +B = A+ B A man get whats he wants (a flimsy title) + A woman using emotions to get what she wants = Still the same 50/50 If What instances are fairness is not used? A man that wont make decisions without his wife? That means the man is NOT self sufficient, and is reliant on his PARTNER Again no one has combated my Business Partnership example. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by oyinda3(f): 11:54pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
Richfella: u dey craze |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 11:55pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
stillwater: Michelin89 is new-improved. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 11:56pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
platinumnk: i see where u r getting the 50-50 shite from u seem to think marriage is some kind of business partnership or contract. Wake up and smell the coffee it isnt. I am tired of this argument sef. Lets all wait n see, shall we? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 11:57pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
oyinda.: Exactly, I can not see myself lesser than a man , if thats in a bible, sign me for a gender change If it was true form of leadership, the woman wouldnt have to use manipulation to get what she wants. But since she does, and hence effectively get whats she wants, how is that being a leader? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by ayettymama(f): 11:58pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
leadership or control is not equivalent to manipulation if the poster was simply saying men should try and be firm in thier relationships then fine i sorta agree but thats not what he sed he mentioned men should not sleep with one woman thats simple bs i cannot agree with if a man cannot be himself in a relationship it will neva work a man cannot fall out of love- that simple means he was never in love like 99% of the newlyweds out there! love takes time and effort but then that doesnt make a marriage and thats a whole diff story! I know the type of men that behave like the poster have said they dont have gf's or wives they have women they sleep with because they cannot make relationships work- so they turn to thinking they are in control they dont control shizz!! but whateva works for u sha if u think a woman that falls for ur mind games is the one for u then fine |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:58pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
michelin89: If even Michelin tyre can get what marriage is all about then i guess my job here is done. Let those who want to sign business contracts and draw up prenups on the day of their business incorporation (sorry i mean wedding day) . . . go ahead. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 11:59pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: As long as there are men like el razour around there is hope, otherwise I'll adopt my 3 kids from Cambodia and rock it out |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:59pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
Oyinda is even worse, i'm sure she has a ghostwriter somewhere there. platinumnk: men like Elrazur only exist on the web . . . try talking about 50-50 in real life to him. Men like that would have slapped you before you even say A. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:00am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: How many bottles have u heard tonight? This is bollocks, platinum. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:00am On Feb 12, 2010 |
oyinda.: Well thank God u said richer than me Honey, its is JOB to take care of me . . . . . .Yes he has to pay the house rent himself . . . . that is a must and yes i will Help out with some other bills in the hse. does that bother you? if so, im glad it isnt u that i am marrying. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:00am On Feb 12, 2010 |
michelin89: That's right. ~Sauron~: Lol, not that I conform to all that the poster is saying, not many women want a wimp for a mate. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by mamagee3(f): 12:01am On Feb 12, 2010 |
I wasn't expecting anything except such a look down and belittling of women from a Nigerian man Typical Nigerian men mentality. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:01am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: You can't compare two humans to numbers. Numbers or letters are abstract concept. You take them and invent some rules and they stick to those rules. That's why we have something called Science, but there is no science called Humanology. If fairness was so easy to achieve like 1 + 1= 2, we wouldn't be here in the first place. Logic rules in an abstract world, in the real world, compromise is the word. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:01am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: Oh no but its equality season eh? |
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