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Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:49pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Stevengerd: before nko. I am waiting for them, but seems nah reasonable people dey here. Lalasticlala op has a point. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Stevengerd(m): 10:51pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
OfficialDad:Yea. Op deh always make sense bro! Dem deh cum ooo |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:51pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
MissCokie: She be my girlfriend den, so she carry that opportunity take suck me dry. Although i am way above that cash, but i felt sick for 2weeks . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 10:55pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
OfficialDad: Next time, give that money to a family member, since you're above that, they would appreciate you forever, and in case things goes bad, they will help you. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:57pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Stevengerd: Lolz, make I dey watch. I don sight one person sef . |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
MissCokie: Thanks misscokie . I don note this advice. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Stevengerd(m): 11:05pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
OfficialDad:Lol, naso. they are never api seeing good things. dem go soon start their E- Cry |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
To me, Miss cookie is 100% right. I can't sponsor a gal friend. If I have I can help u like I would help any other person boy or gal 3 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
MissCokie:I swear down |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by zionmde: 11:17pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
MissCokie:yeah at least it should be very clear to both of them that they are going to get married and not on a gf and bf level 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 11:21pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Stevengerd: I dey watch. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:23pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
zionmde: Yes. Investing in her at a gf stage would end up with heartbreak. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Stevengerd(m): 11:24pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
OfficialDad:Yea |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:25pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
raylord: So many guys make this same mistake, investing your hard earn money on a total stranger. Such act beats my imagination. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 12:36am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Its called love. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 7:13am On Sep 09, 2017 |
No one knows me here,so I'm just gonna say somethings I consider personal. My gf has some financial issues,her parents are not forthcoming,I try to offer any assistance I'm capable of. I do this not because I'm trying to keep her,I help because it's the right thing to do. Stupidity is you running down yourself and future just so your gf can smile. It's stupid wanting to impress her,but acceptable wanting to help her. And the stuffs I will do for my gf,I will also extend such to my good male friends,it's not only limited to her. My gf has helped me too in this our world,so why shouldn't I help her when the chips are down. MissCokie: 6 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by imustsaymymindo: 8:49am On Sep 09, 2017 |
LordKO: It could not have been said any better. Your first pargraph is the proper way of showing help. The second paragraph with the mutual understanding thingy is no more giving but a contract. Such should be dealt by a court i.e the boyfriend/girlfriend sign an agreement of "I help you, you marry me". To cap it all, one of the biggest problems we have that is making Nigeria not progress today is self-centeredness. We enter government positions - we only want to help our families, we are blessed -we only want to help people we can benefit from in return, Boko haram is in Borno -what's my business with that as a Lagosian? If you see how people risk their lives for strangers, bless people selflessly in some parts of the world you would be surprised. @op, if you are blessed and can gallantly sponsor anyone who does not have the means, be it your boyfriend, stranger or what not, please do it. If everyone gives like this, watch the reduction in crime, the more patriotic people would be.... etc. If the table turns around though and you happen to be the one who needs help from who you have offered help before and there is no reciprocal, such is life. Move on! @op, you should be putting up posts that would attract benevolence, not one that would spoil people's minds. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 9:07am On Sep 09, 2017 |
So no to broke gals |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by newslifeop: 9:13am On Sep 09, 2017 |
True |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Michael004: 9:13am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:I always love your topics. I love you misscokie. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by SenorFax(m): 9:20am On Sep 09, 2017 |
The moment you are no more her taste after sponsoring her 2 Likes
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Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 9:21am On Sep 09, 2017 |
illuminated93: Your head dey dia joo. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by jay89: 9:22am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Learn it the hard way. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 9:23am On Sep 09, 2017 |
uzoormah:Tell us say u no get money 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Whatever good you do, if you are doing it because you're expecting any form of payback, then it should be stated in a legal and binding document. If you're really doing good, there should be no expectation. Gf or wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by nkwuocha1: 9:26am On Sep 09, 2017 |
True talk. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Dollabiz: 9:26am On Sep 09, 2017 |
For real.women are corny |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Antoeni(m): 9:27am On Sep 09, 2017 |
I concur |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Elxandre(m): 9:28am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Change it to "she might leave you...." Not everyone is an ingrate. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by ivolt: 9:28am On Sep 09, 2017 |
LordKO: You don't get it, how many friends do you have ? Are they all at your level of financial capacity ? There is a clear difference between helping a friend out in times of need and taking up the role of a parent by sponsoring his/her education. I am not against doing good to your fellow humans on a neutral ground but when emotions are involved, one should steer clear usurping their parental roles unless one do not care about the outcome, which is nothing but a pretence to save face since nobody want to be a loser. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 9:30am On Sep 09, 2017 |
what if her skul fees is just 50k
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