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Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 11:39pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Why don't she do the call? Is it the sole responsibility of the guy? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by WhichWayNaija: 11:39pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
GT07115:Same happened to me but I'm way past that. Either you take me for who I am and I for who you are or quit. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by vivalavida(m): 11:46pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1: LMAO. I nearly choked with laughter here. I remember calling my chic for 45 minutes and told her that was her call for the week and she should expect my call again in 7 days 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by piagetskinner(m): 11:47pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
I call my gf once in a week or two weeks... understanding is what matters |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by DanielsParker(m): 11:51pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
ikennaf1: as in eh. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by EHIRIMCHA(m): 11:58pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
GT07115:if it's a long distance relationship then 4times a week is extremely poor |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by mariong(m): 12:04am On Oct 14, 2017 |
The day my ex complained I wasn't calling her as much as I should, that I ought to be calling her at least 3 times a day, I didn't know when I responded by asking, is it food? She was so pissed by my response that I had to apologise. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by naturebase: 12:08am On Oct 14, 2017 |
This man is working with 19800 ohh. 4 times a week is very very reasonable. Remember he has to call family, some colleagues probably and most importantly his provost before Cds to report about his stomach ache. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by PDPGuy: 12:09am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Modelqwen: Very sensible of you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by chiraqDemon(m): 12:10am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Lmao if its me then the girl would have left since. Me that will have 5k bonus credit to expire tomorrow and I will prefer to just admire the credit till it expires than to call somebody. I hate calls eh. My exes and future gf sef have all complained about it. 4 times a week is even too much for me. If I call u it's either I need something from you, which u will know, or I really care about u, which u will also know. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by godofuck231: 12:14am On Oct 14, 2017 |
GT07115: She's either jobless or a nag 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Yascoby(m): 12:19am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Not my taste. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Yascoby(m): 12:24am On Oct 14, 2017 |
atleast 3 times a day apart from the what'app chats. . . .?. . . . .HMM! guys like me wey rehearse n memorize lines before calling NKO?. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Marshalxv(m): 12:27am On Oct 14, 2017 |
MhizzAJ: So it's because it's what she wants he should just do it? what about what the guy wants? they chat on whatsapp, what does she want to do with the call? maybe to show off to friends each time her phone rings she'll be like oh that's my boyfriend he's calling me again. lol.And who said its the guys sole responsibility to be the caller? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by sunboy(m): 12:27am On Oct 14, 2017 |
GT07115: I’m just like you Bro. What’s the point talking on the phone when don talk about everything for WhatsApp. Baba, if she can’t accept you for who you are then she has other reasons jare. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Marshalxv(m): 12:29am On Oct 14, 2017 |
MhizSylvia: Sister, you're highly blessed. Is this what they call "ukwu nwanyi owerri? " |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Marshalxv(m): 12:31am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Ifakiland: Words of the wise |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Boyooosa(m): 12:34am On Oct 14, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:The guy is not perturbed and has henceforth moved on. He just want to read into the girl's brain and see what is twitching inside there. @op, the girl herself is a minor and the case is also a minor. The girl just sought an excuse to opt out and nothing more Meanwhile, you are also a honey pot licker, you were not that in love with her, you are swearing in vain here on NL to get our attention. Summarily, you guys are not good for each other because u r not in love and she is too naive to understand serious relationship which I guess u r up to. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Fjsand: 12:35am On Oct 14, 2017 |
She nw ave an option B. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 12:36am On Oct 14, 2017 |
It shouldn't be a problem placing the calls, just out the phone beside a sounding speaker each time you dial her number. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by babsdeebabs(m): 12:36am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Abeg, is she paracetamol? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 12:37am On Oct 14, 2017 |
kimbraa: Sometimes, you'd have to make your point with actions. When he calls to say the same thing every time, it will bore her alright and he'll get what he wants eventually...Less or no calls. Oh well, we all cannot be diabolical, can we? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Relationship56(m): 12:43am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Don't mind your girlfriend jawe...and that doesn't mean shes loyal to you. Girls are very deceitful bro but this 10 Tips will make your Relationship Last Long or Forever -> http://www.frabidel.com/blog/10-tips-to-make-your-relationship-last-long-or-forever/ |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Niceboyx4(m): 12:48am On Oct 14, 2017 |
agbonkamen:l How many times do you call your bf in a day? Is it bad if she call him instead? This call break up weak me pass 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Niceboyx4(m): 12:49am On Oct 14, 2017 |
agbonkamen:l How many times do you call your bf in a day? Is it bad if she call him instead? This call break up weak me pass.... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Enskynelson(m): 12:51am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Relationship is about compromise. Now, see it this way. You told her to leave if she can't accept your none-frequent call habit. Are you not only thinking about yourself? Can there ever be a good relationship without sacrifice? You often have to sacrifice a habit for it to work out. If we all refuse to give in or change a thing about ourselves, it just can't work. She left not because of the call but because you are self-centred, not ready to learn or change a thing for your relationship. What will it take you to improve on calling her? Thought you will say you are such a busy person at work or you can't afford airtime for such calls. But here you are just hard and unwilling to change a simple thing about yourself. Guy, she left cos you don't want to sacrifice you for her. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Funkybabee(f): 12:56am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Try to do her wish and see what next Seriously woman likes call with their man maybe in other to show that they are in serious relationship |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by talk2percy(m): 12:59am On Oct 14, 2017 |
She's suffering from what my people will refer to as UMUAZINESS(childishness)....leave am, when u don waka eh...she no go believe am. She get wahala. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by brightalo17: 1:00am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Op no even reply to her message no even ask her why . although I know you will not mind me. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 1:02am On Oct 14, 2017 |
ikennaf1: I was on course to ignore the belligerent mentions from guys; but since you played the GE card, you've successfully pushed my buttons. The Op says he's not a good caller. I don't think there's anything wrong with that in particular (mostly because I'm so terrible at that as well) But then he says he's not perturbed that she told him it's over; and before that he told her that she could end it if she won't accept him for who he is. You might think that's proper and self-evident, but it's in fact a very careless statement to make; people make compromises for their loved ones all the time, but the OP seems to have given off the vibe (even to his girlfriend as he has here) that the relationship wasn't of much value to him and didn't deserve any adjustments on his part. So, in my opinion, the problem isn't that he's a bad-caller but that he doesn't even love his girl to begin with. Why would he stress himself? A lot of commenters are wondering how a person could squeeze out three calls to their girlfriend/boyfriend from their "busy" day. (WTH). Once in the morning, as you wake up; once before bed; and over lunch (that is if your day is so tightly structured that you have to schedule it properly). But, people who really mean to call, make it organic: to get her opinion over an argument you are having with a co-worker; to help you choose what brand of an item to buy in traffic; to find out if she's okay after you hear unsettling news from the state she lives in. It's possible. If you don't consider it necessary now then...........I wish you love in your life. Now, to your grouse. This is not about entitlement it's rather about reciprocation. People have different ways of expressing love, and in a new(ish) relationship, there is often that period of 'storming' where people learn each other's love languages. It's not uncommon to go by what you're familiar with in the meantime, while you're figuring it out. If a girl is used to expressing her affection with frequent calls, she would interpret the Ops behavior as extremely cold. He already said she's financially self-sufficient, so he may not even be giving her the occasional gift to tell her she's on his mind. Well, it's obvious now that he didn't care for her; but if he did, it would have been up to him to show her how he expresses his affection. And she, in turn, would have learnt to trust it. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by chikachike86(m): 1:06am On Oct 14, 2017 |
GT07115: Bro wait o! Are you her parole officer� |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by NigelCundy: 1:09am On Oct 14, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn:Bro, I love you #NoHomo 2 Likes |
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