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My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by GT07115: 5:02pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student. In terms of financial needs, she is self sufficient. But i don't really understand her. I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon. Most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day , and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn't reduce my love for her, I don't really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn't call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can't she can let go. She sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue? 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 5:05pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
3 times per day? That's breakfast call, lunch call and dinner call nah. 203 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by BeautyBaebee(f): 5:09pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Quit because of this minor issue? Trust girls, they can break up over any excuse once they start seeing sm1 else they like. Op, move on. She's tired of you 316 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by adajoe555: 5:09pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
My boo calls me at least twice a day. that is what she want from you na, but she is not serious oh only for call breakup 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Yeligray(m): 5:10pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
3times a day you d work for MTN. 79 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 5:14pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
call her and talk about what exactly? pointless and irrelevant things. your girlfriend is not mature enough for a relationship, yes communication and attention is important but 3 times a day even when you chat on whatsapp. are there no goals to be met are both of you that jobless with so much free time 136 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by MhizzAJ(f): 5:15pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
People don't understand that communication is key in any relationship That's not an issue If that's what she wants..then listen to her..maybe that's what she likes 101 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by IamSINZ(m): 5:15pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Since you both chat on WhatsApp, atleast twice a day would do. Communication is important when you're in a distant relationship. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 5:17pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Communication is the key to a successful relationship, though calling 3X a day is kinda much, like stalking. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by shege45: 5:17pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
someone is destroying d kpekus 30 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by eezeribe(m): 5:37pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Just let her quietly go and die.... 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Dillusionist(m): 5:38pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
feed her with calls 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by MhizSylvia(f): 5:40pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
That means she's jobless. 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 5:40pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
GT07115: You'll be fine, you are on the right path, you have your life to worry about, I like your behaviour take care. I wish I could buy you a bottle of beer, am even in Ondo sef too, have fun 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by DanseMacabre(m): 5:44pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Bros even if you call am once for every hour on the clock, when she wan breakup she go find another thing use as excuse. Just use your head (like Mutiu Adepoju). 54 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Ifakiland(m): 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Ur a corper, dat alone makes her feel ure probably with anoda gal that's y u don't have her time to call. I suspect ur gf has trust issues...yes she sent u a breakup text, trust me when a gal really wants to break up, she simply stop calling/chatting/texting....Nigerian gals don't breakup tru text, she was just kidding...go visit ur gal, hug her and bang the fork out of her... 88 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by asjay(m): 5:48pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:why are we not asking how many times does she call him in a day? It is not about the guy alone, does she make effort to call you at least 3 times a day too? If she does,then bros you have no excuse. It's either you talk to her about you not having anything to say ( well if you still love her) or you reciprocate. Currently in a similar situation with a random babe( not in a relationship with her) and I don't reciprocate her calls but I am doing that to pass a message indirectly.....Move on, I don't like you 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Lewaluv(f): 5:54pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
I can understand. My bae facetime me on all 3 of his breaks plus we live together. Am tired oo 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by agbonkamen(f): 5:59pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Ordinary call 3x in a day is causing this breakup......if she does not pick your calls now you starting complaining now she want your calls Wahala.....Nigerian guys are bad lovers only knows open and close......(3mins) 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by rosy1992(f): 6:01pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Although she has a point, she is taking it too far . But I think once a day is preferable, it shows that you care about her and always have her in your heart. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
I and my bae talk 5 to 10 times daily. That's what has kept us together all the years. She on WhatsApp but we don't chat. If I send "hey babes", next thing she'll send is "call me" 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by IamLEGEND1: 6:11pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
if she wants to talk to you 3 times a day then she should call you. I don't know what is so hard to understand about that. Nigerian women and their skewered sense of entitlement are the bane of every man's existence in this country. Bitch_if you feel like talking, call me..... I'm not gonna waste my time and money calling you just so I can listen to you breathe on the phone. I dey ration my calls..... a 10min call every 2days and if you exhaust your quota then you're O.Y.O 111 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 6:14pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
If you aren't perturbed that she broke up with you then I'm not surprised that you wouldn't call her three times a day. You probably aren't meant for each other. When you meet someone you're crazy about, you'll call her enough times to make her a part of your day. Not just the perfunctory (4) calls per week. 79 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: Word... 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 6:21pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
BeautyBaebee: Yes. Once there's someone she's seeing, they start coming up with excuses till they leave, the same way Eve broke upwith Adam and went off with the serpent.... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 6:24pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by GT07115: 6:25pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
[well she does calls, at least once in 2days, she said calling is my responsibility as a man. quote author=asjay post=61390672]why are we not asking how many times does she call him in a day? It is not about the guy alone, does she make effort to call you at least 3 times a day too? If she does,then bros you have no excuse. It's either you talk to her about you not having anything to say ( well if you still love her) or you reciprocate. Currently in a similar situation with a random babe( not in a relationship with her) and I don't reciprocate her calls but I am doing that to pass a message indirectly.....Move on, I don't like you [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Nobody: 6:28pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: Well... I have a black tag on my moniker as a traitor on the forum, so on a low key... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by tyllapia: 6:28pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
I do call my gf twice a day dough d distance makes me do such silly thing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Dharneehell(m): 6:28pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
You ain't "perturbed", but you posted it here? Nigga, what should we do? For the girl, she must be high on crack most Christians only pray to God twice daily. Yet, she wants three times a day...like she's food. Fuckgirl 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by Qokie: 6:35pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Dis one na Puppy love. Next please........ 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by wristbangle: 6:38pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Physically and mentally in terms of emotional aspect, your girlfriend is still a baby. 10 Likes |
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