Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

makydebbie:
Yelz oo, so I can deceive you in peace.

OrestesDante:



Most babes will want to know the stuffs you packaged that made the process looks like it's a real deflowering. Trust me

Jokes apart.

Be a woman, be bold tell him the truth. But the man will be very disappointed. I hope the level of trust he had built in you will not be brought down

Some babes go be like, "OP, abeg tell us the trick wey you use wey make the thing be like tear rubber nah"

Fxwarrior:


Ignorance is bliss in this situation . He himself is not a virgin, abi you never ask am.. Telling him will hurt his pride and he won't trust you again thayt is if he doesn't cancel the weddin.

Cedarseeds:
Some people won't read the opening post yet call me names. I was 15. I didn't even know what sex was. The man is long married and will never admit he did that. My fiancé wouldn't have believed my story then. I doubt he would now...

pocohantas:
Go and download virginity from Play store...

Cedarseeds:
Some people won't read the opening post yet call me names. I was 15. I didn't even know what sex was. The man is long married and will never admit he did that. My fiancé wouldn't have believed my story then. I doubt he would now...

Kondomatic:
You don't know a third of what I know about Vjay

Ishilove:

So why do you want to now open up a can of dead, stinky worms? Why the awkwardness? He has already slept with you and was satisfied so why do you want to complicate your life?

Be wise. Forget the past, move on and let your secret remain between you, the long married man, Nairaland and your God.

Ishilove:
So you like 'em big

tosyne2much:
Some babes go be like, "OP, abeg tell us the trick wey you use wey make the thing be like tear rubber"

stuffs4me:



Thunder fire that your evil lying mouth there.

See who is talking fa.

You are a pathological liar. How can a 15year old girl not know what sex was. Saying a 15year old girl doesn't know what sex was is another big lie.

After you have fvcked the whole street you now went on to deceive an Inocent man.

OrestesDante:

tosyne2much:
The decision is yours but I want you to know that there are two things involved

It's either you tell him the truth and you lose him or you tell him the truth and things still work out fine.

7Alexander:
At 15 a man had sex with you, or you had sex?
That's the tone of one who doesn't like to take responsibility for their actions. I understand that 15 is not legal, but that's just on paper. You knew what you were doing, no be this naija wey we dey so?

Please what did you do to your vagina?

OrestesDante:


What is your own now? Alarina.