KreativGenius:



Tosin, it's way beyond the hymen issue. How can the guy entrust his decisions, his life to such an individual. Also guys, once a lady accepts a proposal, sexual intercourse is permitted. I can prove from ancient Jewish traditions, i wonder why guys wait till wedding for proposal. The guy will feel duped, and won't be able to trust her for life. It's a different thing if he knew she wasn't a virgin, that's different matter entirely, this one is a dupe, a fraudster, a liar, a murder, she doesn't deserve that marriage

Cedarseeds:
Some people won't read the opening post yet call me names. I was 15. I didn't even know what sex was. The man is long married and will never admit he did that. My fiancé wouldn't have believed my story then. I doubt he would now...

Lomprico2:
Tell him if it will gives u peace. If you think you might loose him if u do, then keep shut and live happily ever after. Afterall its not the type of lie that will damage anything.
90% of couples today marry as non virgins and countless lie before, during and after wedding oat.

To me its no biggie

maasoap:

Thank you. I said it, it has gone beyond lying. The guy will never be happy with what she did (fake hymen), not with she said (claimed to be a virgin).

thunderbabs:
What did u do to ur vagina gangan? Das wha me i want to knw fa

sniperwolf:
Lol!!! My guy go dey expect tight püssy

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

freakthingz:


Sorry for qouting so many times but your mindset is intriguing, would you marry a 15yr old girl? Just curious

KreativGenius:


Like we've both established, its not about the kitty, but she's a cheap fraudster, the guy will not feel safe around her. Why marry a person we can't trust? Mark her, the marriage will have issues except thre are elders that can calm the guy, this is the only solution, she needs to go speak to people that know the guy before the marriage, so he can decide of his free will to go on with it, otherwise he will say she stole his free will

frenzyduchess:
i don't know why this comment made me laugh, let's just hope karma has decided to take an eternal chill pill on her matter

tosyne2much:
It's better she shut her mouth because the truth will most likely cost her the marriage, or what do you think?

freakthingz:


Then by your logic since a 15yr old is equal in mental capacity and experience to an adult they should be able to vote or become political leaders.

Why don't they reduce it to 13 or 11 at once, it's like your talking from experience, would you have sex with a 15yr old girl if she threw herself at you?

kennypedia:

I believe not everyone is lucky, why do girls lie when it comes to sexuality I have met with someone who had consentual sex with her ex but due to parental problem they were separated but had to lie she was drugged to her fiancée just because he knew she's not a virgin

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

sinaj:
You better look for a way to tell him yourself even if it will cost you the wedding.
If he should find out himself he might feel betrayed nd hate u.

If he really loves you, the truth wnt stop him from getting married to you and if tries to stp the wedding just know he doesnt worth it.

I wonder why people lie to their loved ones

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

OrestesDante:



Most babes will want to know the stuffs you packaged that made the process looks like it's a real deflowering. Trust me .

Jokes apart.

Be a woman, be bold tell him the truth. But the man will be very disappointed. I hope the level of trust he had built in you will not be brought down

freakthingz:


Is a 15yr old an adult yes or no?
You didn't have to type all that lol

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

1StopRudeness:


Marry a fifteen year old...what the hell for..??
Marry means u'll go in depth knowing the persona nd ask a lot of info.
Casual sexx don't require a lot of info...when I use to shag without care...I've had sex with a girl in less than 4hs of meeting..
I'm just saying a lot of men sleep with these minors not knowing they are minors...u need to see my 14year old niece..u'll think she's 25 or something..her mum is just afraid..they monitor are social media life 24/7