gloria34:
ur opinion is urs, speak 4 urself. my eldest sister has been married 4 about 10 yrs, d other just celebrated 6yrs anniversary, so abeg speak 4 urself

gloria34:
obviously some1 has done that to u, sorry o but some guys have done worse to some ladies yet d ladies are still willing to give relationship a try. go work on urself, try to 4give and stop such advice as d 1 u are spreading now.

gloria34:
always claim he don't have friends in delta state. he didn't grow up here, actually came here due to work. I only know few of his colleagues but Dont have their number and I didn't bother going to his place of work cos I knew he was fine due to his status update

sfinkzslot:
somebody will soon post about back up husband, na then we go know say the end has found us

ebby9z:

Seriously guy!!! Lmaoo p
Shey she dey spread her legs wide dey waka ni? Girls and lies

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

Pusyiter:
It is unfortunate you have built an empire relationship without a foundation. If you say the truth, you lose all and if you continue in the lies, you lose same. My advice is for you to come clean and make parties involve know your stand. It is better to be a single being searched than to be a deceptive single and a horrible housewife.
Did I hear you say Co-habit? You need a new dawn

sinceraconcept:
are you saying your elder sisters were wayward before marriage? if they weren't,then they don't fit into that category but if they were then their husbands are either overly religious,or not the husbands to be considered as high profiled husbands or they have done some kind of huge favours for their husbands,or their husbands. but husbands of today,if you're wayward and they learn about your dirty past,my dear,we no go treat you like queen o. we go do our own back o. that's why Kanye made a sex tape with a girl that looks like Kim,its a revenge to Kim K Ray J mixtape. many husbands that are not known to be wayward start being chronic cheats if they hear about their wife's sexcapade before marriage,its like trying to feel satisfied. So,if the woman is trying to maybe question them for the cheating,it gets to a point they would say she's worthless,that they used to think she's worthy and treat her like a queen but she's totally worthless. I know many bros that have treated their wives that way due to that reason o. that's why some men even want a virgin. if the woman with wayward past keeps quiet long to conceive,her problem multiplies and that would give every opportunity to put all blames on her and even the husband's family would make life miserable for her or even talk the man into having another wife in some cases. so,past of women usually come to haunt them,no man is stupid and no quality man wants to settle for less. there is a Yoruba proverb that says "If just little piece of human faeces is at the edge of the plate with food in it,even if we remove the faeces from the plate,we won't get our mind out of the disgusting experience" that's exactly why a lot of men seem to cheat for no reason and people would say his wife is beautiful but why is he cheating? its just a revenge mission to satisfy his ego

sinceraconcept:
don't just conclude sis I would urge you to give him a chance. who knows maybe he notices something that isn't true about you or was told something about you. ask him questions. some people like myself don't really voice out what we have in mind at times,it might be something entirely different from what you taught sis. since you said he has done that about 2 tob3 times before,it could be his nature. don't forget no one is perfect and some people just always prefer to keep shut and keep malice than ask question. Don't let go like that pls. question him thoroughly,let him tell you all that is going on and not just that he's been busy. ask him why he updates in whatsapp but ignores you. who knows maybe you're the one that would change that shortcoming in him cos I see you as someone intelligent

sinceraconcept:
nobody has ever done it to me sis,I swear. its just based on experiences of people around me. I don't give women money except women I pity and don't want to have anything to do with or if its very important I buy something for my girl. its just very common to girls to see some guys as maga and they would never love such guys for anything than the Money. I can't love a girl who pumps money on me all the time for anything but for the money as well. if a guy or girl wants to help partner with money,it should be that the person really need it for something overly important and that's the only place it could come from and that would be for the sake of humanity. I don't give women money . but I can help whenever its needed

aigboeben:

Now what tangible reason is he giving?

Purebeerry:
2017-side nigga

2018-backup boyfriend.

Its okay, continue.... .

biacan:
:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

gloria34:
he was held up at work and there was no network, but u could update?

biacan:
:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

holysaint1:


this one you are seriously asking soo.... Hope you are not planning on getting yours.

aigboeben:

I pray he didn't try out someone else. Obviously he's hiding something from you. Be wise as a serpent and gentle as dove. Did he get you any gifts for the just concluded festive season?

gloria34:
non. I didn't bother cos he wasn't even Around

aigboeben:

The season didn't come suddenly except he was not loaded enough to perform. You need wisdom and strength now. But your unwillingness to accept him back should not be hinged on your admirers trying to woo you. Do you think he trusts you?

gloria34:
he works 4 an oil company. he knows I don't cheat, d reason I am refusing him now is not about suitors but I always have dis heartache whenever he suddenly disappear. I can't continue with that

gloria34:
he works 4 an oil company. he knows I don't cheat, d reason I am refusing him now is not about suitors but I always have dis heartache whenever he suddenly disappear. I can't continue with that

aigboeben:

It seems this is not the first season of his disappearing act. Is he an introvert?

aigboeben:

So what are you going to do now? Forgive him or wait for another Prince Charming. Time is ticking you know

gloria34:
not an introvert, he usually disappear like this but it doesn't last more than two days. he usually says he forgot his phone at home