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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Dblock89:not like we see nothing wrong in it but she already did it, what she need is advice and not condemnation. any1 can b in that situation, we need to put ourselves in her shoes and stop acting holier than angels. I feel 4 her, she have made a mistake, but being a girl of marriageable age, I really understand what she is going through |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Josephamstrong1(m): 9:03pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34: Na so |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
sinceraconcept:obviously some1 has done that to u, sorry o but some guys have done worse to some ladies yet d ladies are still willing to give relationship a try. go work on urself, try to 4give and stop such advice as d 1 u are spreading now. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Emychikele(m): 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Back up boyfriend eh kwa, we niggas die well for babes hands, This kind double dating e good for your eyes?
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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by delors(m): 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Lol. Backup boyfriend? Omo we don die finish. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by SweetyMarvel00(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
she probably didnt have trust on her main boyfriend. And she's probably confused because she didnt expect things will turn out this way. Maybe all she was hoping for was that the main boyfriend could dump her....and then she will turn to her backup bf. She has to define who she wants for the right choice and that's when confusion will end. Saying yes doesnt mean you cant say 'No' later. 1 Like |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Josephamstrong1:is it that difficult to believe? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Your fiance must be favored then. We all grow to perfection, and our growth is directly proportional to our sincerity. Anyone with backup has no confidence in God. We now have a generation in church but not in Christ |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Yeligray(m): 9:13pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
nikkypearl:kikiki... What manner of children |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
justmi1:thumbs up! |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:don't have 1 4 now tho, i'm sure d lucky 1 is favoured. thank u |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 9:19pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Really? What happened? Something must happen before this year ends |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:he just cut communication. nothing happened, we didn't have issues. started calling 2days back with some funny stories. I told him to 4get about it, i'm done with excuses |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Jhayeahsam01(m): 9:25pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
so after you don say yes what should you do? give him poison then......... your back up boi frnd laise artist with back up aiye le oooo... ibosi ooo |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 9:28pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:For how long were you two together? Does he live far from you? Ever suspected him seeing someone before now? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:we live in same street, we were together 4 almost a yr, I've always had my suspicion but being that I am a jealous person, I didn't want to seem too jealous by asking. well, I am really done with excuses |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 9:39pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Same street is like same house. Could job have kept him busy? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 9:41pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:For how long did he cut communication? Or was he avoiding Christmas responsibilities? Did he complain of anything to you before cutting communication? Obviously he has been giving you excuses before this. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:that was his claim, but not calling 4 2weeks yet I see ur update on whatsapp? that's really d height of it |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by YoungDaNaval(m): 9:50pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan:Thank God say you self don Confirm am |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 9:52pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Didn't he communicate with you on Whatsapp? At least a physical presence is not needed for that. I think festive period should be used to show love to those you care about. Be mindful of your temper too. His friends? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by explosivesedo: 9:52pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
your life your rules none of anyones fucking business..... You're bleeped though |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by YoungDaNaval(m): 9:57pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
northvietnam:Hahahahahahaha 1 Like |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:when I said he cut off communication, I meant in all ways. stopped taking my calls, no whatsapp message, no Fb message, 4 two weeks. now he is back saying he was busy at work. d excuse is too lame. its not d first time, but it was usually a 2 or 3 day thing. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by BENRAZY(m): 10:06pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
chai,nothing I no go hear,hmm backup boyfriend, sha I no blame boys make the get ten girlfriend, the guy na backup boyfriend fr her side o,but she go be fifth fiance fr the guy side, hahaha life goes on,e no concern government sha |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by stevups(m): 10:10pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
You sleep with someone for great 6months, so you wanna change pen.. Well done ma!! Another 6 months for you. Don't worry, Korede will sing mongopack for you soon. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 10:11pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Trust and communication seem to be missing in your relationship with him . What convinced you to be involved with him initially? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:always claim he don't have friends in delta state. he didn't grow up here, actually came here due to work. I only know few of his colleagues but Dont have their number and I didn't bother going to his place of work cos I knew he was fine due to his status update |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 10:29pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Now what tangible reason is he giving? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by godofuck231: 10:43pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
VastFinder:Wait for his backup girlfriend to propose to him first then, since time de for u |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by obonaija234: 11:16pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Tell him the truth, its bad to start your marriage with lies. Just tell him "baby you were my backup boyfriend, never knew you would be serious" |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by ebby9z(m): 11:28pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
northvietnam:Seriously guy!!! Lmaoo p Shey she dey spread her legs wide dey waka ni? Girls and lies |
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