biacan:
:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

Dblock89:
After reading some comments above, I discovered that most ladies see nothing wrong with this tho I know guys cheat as well but this is bad... As I can understand the story this girl is living with the main guy that she loves more but presently the guy is hustling so that everything would be fine and they can get married together but this girl is having an affair with someone else at the same time knowing fully well that this backup guy isn't financially stable as well! All I can say is that girl you need to amend your ways or better still get yourself delivered by à true man of God because if not karma will catch up with you sooner or later.

justmi1:
Hmmmm, this is a very dicey situation, though as a young man I detest a girl with "back up " boyfriends, however it is not uncommon for ladies of marriageable age to have back ups.
Having said that, a guy that has dated you for 4 years should propose already, it shouldn't always be about money, you guys can plan together.
Now the backup guy made a fast move, apparently he loves you more.
If you really love your main man, make him propose and return the backup guy's ring quietly, otherwise let the main man go.
Be careful though, you could become Lord of the ring
In fact the matter pass me, you should never have back up except if it's for power supply...
This is like 9ja bet, your ticket fit cut

Menzy86:
Deceptive people deserve every ounce of strain they get from their deceptiveness. So deal with it till you make the wrong decision. That's what you brought upon yourself!

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

northvietnam:
Which wing is the back up playing

Keep xpanding ur Vjay in the name of back up BF....

Nah so one idiot tell me for xmas say na too much trekking from bus stop to lecture dey make her Vjay xpand. ..... I was like , u Don mean it...

What's my own, just use rubber play my game commot....

Menzy86:
Deceptive people deserve every ounce of strain they get from their deceptiveness. So deal with it till you make the wrong decision. That's what you brought upon yourself!

MrNigeria2018:


Hoe sighted

iamJ:
I don't visit ur grade

musa234:
Not every guy has a side chick. Please stop the generalising.

fatherdfd:
The back up bf is a great learner. How will u propose to a girl u hardly know were stays, u don't visit her home to know who she stays with. The guy wan marry masquerade.

Josephamstrong1:


For quoting me with this, I can swear on my bollocks that you have many backups.
Deny it.

sinceraconcept:
you just see them laughing in wedding pictures,there would surely be problem in the marriage,they would never post divorce pictures online. any guy who is proud of himself would never treat a hoe like a queen,that's the reason why guys treat their wife or girlfriend like shit these days,it's always about the woman showing signs of cheating or the guy hears about the past philandering of someone he's been treating with respect and that is what any sensible guy can never forgive and since we all know philandering is addictive,they continue after marriage,other shortcomings are very much forgivable except cheating. people marry everyday and guys send their wives packing everyday also. if the woman already has a child,she never gets appealing to any guy again except guys that are willing to settle for less(except if the girl is a multimillionaire or high profile celebrity and even with that many guys would still use and dump her and that's why Juliet Ibrahim is thankful because Iceberg is willing to marry her,it's because she has a child already,she feels lucky) but men remarry all the time,men marry second,third,fourth....wife,men can even remain single again and bring in different girls and society wouldn't say anything but that can never be said about women. women should stop the comparison. if you feel like your guy or husband is cheating and cant forgive him,dump his ass but cheating as revenge or flexing doesn't make it any better,you turn to a prostitute and every guy would want to use you and dump you,if I hear a girl is promiscuous,all that comes to my mind is having my own share and never thinking of marrying her,lai lai. a cheating wife is very deadly because women are very easy to convince because women get controlled,that's why no sensible guy can forgive a cheating wife. its not good for husbands to cheat as well,it's very bad but a cheating husband is still not as bad because the husband's girlfriend would never control the man,because he's the man and has the control,no woman outside can tell a man to kill his wife,infact a man could send his girlfriends packing at any time if he thinks about his wife at home,a cheating man in most cases still very much love the wife but some circumstances lead to the cheating but women have fragile hearts and a cheating woman has already lost the love she has for her man. cheating is what no sensible man can ever forgive except they're lying to you.

majamajic:
really ?

raise the substitute board. ....... tell him its time for a reserve player to come in..

back to the topic... this night before sleep ask him abt his plans that someone wants to seek your hands according to your parents/siblings. ..so if u don't get a cool reply ...tomorrow morning tell him u will going home to answer your parents during the weekend. .if no moves....then appear with the ring next week from home ...let him fin solutions.

Divay22:
Some babe gat heart.. Like real heart not the ones of chicken..
Back upboyfriend, so the way you backup your files you're also backing up your relationship...

Huee:

She didn't place her hope on one guy, probably she didn't expect the backup boyfriend to turn out serious.

Artistree:

Deception, not deceptiveness.

gloria34:
my dear, what u did was wrong, but I can't say I blame u with d way some guys behave, d deed has been done, if u love d guy that propose and u are sure he'll make a good husband and father, my babe, marry him o. maybe d guy u are hoping on has a 'side chick' u don't know.

Azam101:
Talking from experience olosho

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/
Back up boyfriend? Na your pussy go tell you.

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

aigboeben:

Anyone cheating in a relationship can't see the future clearly. So she can't really tell if he's going to be a good husband. Would you do same daughter of Zion?