Mzansian:





Lol, I doubt there are more loose women out there than there are men but believe what you wanna ...you know the truth though.

XhosaNostra:


She already cheated. I'm not saying she should cheat again. All I'm saying is, if the husband cheats on her in the future, that'll be the equalizer

Mzansian:





Lol, I doubt there are more loose women out there than there are men but believe what you wanna ...you know the truth though.

Grayjoy:
Sorry I had some paper work I was tryn to attend to.
Then I had dis grl Abigail dat I loved so much, just my kind of woman, we dated 4 abt a year den she slept with sum1 I knw den, with one stupid excuse like dat, b4 then, I thought I could 4give a cheating lover, but I couldn't cope with it, I felt terrible, inshort my ego was beaten down to ground level, so quietly d relatnshp ended, I was dating another lady (she was d one I made reference to b4). When we were dating, Abigail came back with all d sorry, so it was like I was double dating, so when d oda lady caught me, She wanted to 4give but whenever she sees me with another lady, she will be like, "so u have started again" "u are in love someone else ryt", different talks dat made me to clearly understand dat she can't truly trusth me agn, i can't deal with u wen u don't trusth me, so we broke up.
NB: I can't say everything here o. Plenty eyes are reading.

XhosaNostra:


No, I understand. Thanks for sharing & for the honesty.

Grayjoy:
Lmao, please don't tell me dat u are part of the fellowship of "all men cheat"

Grayjoy:
Honesty? In what?

Mzansian:




Far from it , but I do believe a lot of men cheat lol.

XhosaNostra:


Your story.

Grayjoy:
Same as women, those men don't cheat with animals ryt?

Grayjoy:
You mean me being honest by telling you the story or telling u why all d break ups happened?

Mzansian:





Usually the women they cheat with aren't tied up to anyone , they are very single.....therefore not hurting anyone they know. With the case of men , they are usually married or " in a committed relationship " .

Grayjoy:
my mind and sense of reasoning agrees with u, but me i won't agree, ur last line almost shot me in d foot.

XhosaNostra:


The breakups are really not that important. It's the transparency I find refreshing.

Grayjoy:
I like being honest, although I have my faults, am tryn to deal with it, I don't appreciate cheating, although I was inolved in it b4.

Mzansian:


Lol, like I said before......you know the truth.

XhosaNostra:

...

Grayjoy:
We all do right?

Mzansian:



You mean know the truth ?

Grayjoy:
yeah, I mean we all know the truth?
But do u believe there many guys dat don't cheat?

Mzansian:





Ok. In a way I do , because I've known some guys whom I've never seen cheating or them being accused of it.

Grayjoy:
I know guys dat don't cheat actually, have u encountered any lover dat cheated on you?

Mzansian:




Lol, can't really say I've really experienced that. I once had a bf in high school , and I never knew he had another GF while I was dating him I only found out 3 years after our break up...so I don't know if that counts . Besides that , nothing comes to mind .

Grayjoy:
3yrs after??
Well dat won't hurt anymore or did it?

Mzansian:




Lol, nope it didn't hurt . Was just shocked that it happened and I didnt even suspect a thing , but then again i was young and it was nothing serious.

Grayjoy:
Teenage love, funny love story, but girlz learn alot 4rm dat. So can u now permit me to say dat u haven't encountered a cheating partner b4. Can u 4gv a cheat wholeheartedly?

Mzansian:





I personally can't say I learnt much from it. If I have encountered one then I didn't know about it lol. No I can't, I take betrayal very seriously . I would be very paranoid and resentful. Loyalty before anything with me , once I doubt that then I can't take you seriously .

Grayjoy:
That is u find it really difficult to forgive a cheat and forget about it ryt? I assume u are a South African.