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Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by mozele(m): 3:05am On Mar 09, 2018 |
tee59: if that were to be the case, there wouldnt have been a marriage to take place by september! |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Unlimited22: 3:13am On Mar 09, 2018 |
madridguy:Looks like you're actually quite sensible anytime you're not mindlessly defending Buhari. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Unlimited22: 3:20am On Mar 09, 2018 |
jbaby265:Ma'am y'all need to sit and talk. Something is bothering him, and like many an African man, he's hidden it so as not to appear weak. Could also be groom nerves. But you need to address this now, or it'll become a major issue in marriage. Ignore all the naysayers and communicate with your man and ensure you're still compatible. This is surmountable, no good thing comes without a price. We look forward to seeing pre-wedding pictures and a nice ceremony. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 4:36am On Mar 09, 2018 |
This is a tough one. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Fxwarrior: 4:37am On Mar 09, 2018 |
madridguy: That is if he considers the relationship as worthy. Na dis kind relationship wey no dey last 1 month into marriage. Better resolve it or dissolve yourself. Why ask God to dissolve you, abi na God put una together, blaming God fah? |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by leslier: 4:41am On Mar 09, 2018 |
better talk to yourselves this site |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Dammylois(f): 4:49am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Sit him down and talk cos you can't marry with the kind of attitude you both are having...if nothing is changing for the better let the relationship sink like Titanic o,its not marriage so backing off won't kill you |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Martin0(m): 5:06am On Mar 09, 2018 |
kennygee: your own na as e dey hot |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by vicardino(m): 6:08am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Haba, ask your pastor jbaby265: |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by harsysky(m): 6:17am On Mar 09, 2018 |
ladyF: this is the best advice so far. take it! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by zeelo2014: 6:27am On Mar 09, 2018 |
kennygee:Statements like this throws me off. So if they met in their 2nd year in school, he should marry her within 2years? Not everyone jumps around with different partners, some people chose the right person and go stable right from the beginning. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by kabillion(m): 6:28am On Mar 09, 2018 |
My brother u need a new boat. The one about to sink is frustrated. Don't sink with it |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 6:30am On Mar 09, 2018 |
zeelo2014: The right person for 6 years? There's a time to just get serious and ask yourself important questions o. If after 6 or 7 years, the guy is having this kind of attitude, the time has come to ask questions and evaluate the relationship. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by mrkunlex(m): 6:31am On Mar 09, 2018 |
I dnt have much to say.the advise i will just give you is to take it easy with him,dnt fight him,ask him what went wrong and by doing so there will be peace in your house again 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by madridguy(m): 6:33am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by madridguy(m): 6:34am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Unlimited22: |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 6:34am On Mar 09, 2018 |
AnodaIT: At OP please follow this person's advice. Forget these people saying 7years is too long. If you can't date a person for 7years how do you plan on being married to that person for life? All these fu:kboys and hopping girls giving advice, it is wonderful. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 6:38am On Mar 09, 2018 |
laivwire: Thank you jare. Some people think 7years na beans to just throway like Dat. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by patexcool(f): 6:45am On Mar 09, 2018 |
babe be careful and be strong to face any news cos i think d guy is on d run. better stil call him talk to him heart to heart he might tell u ur short coming. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Brugo(m): 6:49am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Like someone said, go and see a marriage counsellor. Stuff like this happens after proposals or when a relationship is about to culminate in marriage. Usually it is caused by the laxity of one party as regards the little things that spice up a relationship. When "good morning" begins to sound like a chore to you and you act like it is, there will be complaints from the person who cares more. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by beautifulrosa: 6:50am On Mar 09, 2018 |
wristbangle:Love ur write ups. Actually i love you but am married already. So.........ok bye! |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by wristbangle: 7:14am On Mar 09, 2018 |
beautifulrosa: Thanks for the compliment |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by HerXLNC(f): 7:16am On Mar 09, 2018 |
jbaby265: Your non challant attitude is a thing of worry simply because he loves you n he get hurt when u don't care about many things he felt shd be norm 7yrs relationship is not beans.... I feel it's ego that's killing both of you, sit him down and discuss this 1.how u can resolve quarrel in less than 24hrs 2.how you both should learn to say the unpalatable sorry 3.how the second person should not get angry when the first is angry.... Meaning both shd never get angry at d same time.... Beside the second person might start his/her anger when d first get over it 4. Never give an "I don't care attitude" it hurts badly Play this role of sitting him down he ll accord u more respect for this |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 7:16am On Mar 09, 2018 |
your courtship is too long,if you guys are married already it will happen as well. You guys should learn to manage each other. If you should leave him,the next guy could be worse off. I am giving this advice as a married man. Marriage is 1000% different from relationship,courtship or whatever. Work on yourself and encourage him to work on himself as well. Thanks |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 7:21am On Mar 09, 2018 |
tee59:he has seen everything seeable hes tired. #Notocourtship# #yestomarriage# |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by henryhemon(m): 7:29am On Mar 09, 2018 |
7 fucking years? You guys try sha. After 1 yr and I still luv you I will the Babe. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by saturnjay(m): 7:40am On Mar 09, 2018 |
The problem is you. Be submissive and this problem will go away...Marriage is between a fool and a smart one...it is up to you to choose whether yo want to be the fool or the smart one...obviously, your hubby isn't tying to be fool for you and you aren't trying to be a fool too, that's why you fight and quarrel always...it is a personality war...it is a character clash...it is a behavioral battle...It is up to you to decide |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by uyiekpenn(m): 7:52am On Mar 09, 2018 |
tee59:shut up your silly mouth there. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by wallymore(m): 8:01am On Mar 09, 2018 |
May be u are giving him a kind of problem u knw what I mean... u don't obey his wish and all that. U dated ur guy for 7 years u seems not to understand ur dude. NA WA FOR U O O O. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by PG83: 8:15am On Mar 09, 2018 |
You need God's help to save your relationship if it's his will for you two to be married, though 7yrs is quite much. You hv to ask urself, y u guys r hvg constant quarrels, what causes it, hv u guys talked it ova, y hvnt d marriage hapnd all dese yrs? Then, u can get a marriage counselor in ur church? |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by pedrilo: 8:16am On Mar 09, 2018 |
I read comments here telling this lady to quit. Most pipo bliv relationship is perfect and presents no challenge but dats a lie. U must be ready to manage it like ur managing a business. If u r nt ready to manage it pls stay single. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by eaemmanuel18: 8:26am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Your relationship is suffering from monotony. I will advice that if you guys have been cohabiting, stop it. Visit him 1 or 2 times in a month. Then, your relationship will be refreshed |
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