Harshirama:

Points like? The reason most of us here don't understand your own brand is cos you've not been explicit enough. If you're a socialist feminist then good for you.

so this how it is for me! I dont think men r the major reason for women's oppression or patriarchy itself!!! I feel women contribute greatly to the patriarchy system!! Most of them belive men r a free ticket to success!! Marrying a rich man is their no 1 agenda!! Even tho I personally want a finacially statable man, i feel women shouldn't see that as success!!! Women view themselves lesser that's why men agree with that!!! Women are always against themselves n thsts our major problem!! I belive women should work n hvf something doing even if their spouse is a millionaire!! Women need to try to add more relevance to the society!! But thankfully there is great improvement today

I belive marriage shouldn't be the focus of the female child alone but the male child as well

I belive male children need more home training from their parents,that's the main issue we have in our society, most men hv no home training

I also believe men suffer in the patriarchy society as well
E.g we want equal salaries but we women want to keep it to ourselves mean while men pay all the bills!! Men are some worth like financial slaves!! If women what equal salaries with men they should as well be ready to take up some responsibility not just men alone, it goes on n on


N so many more depending on the issues raised!!
Am at church, that's why it took a while

Shugavee:
so this how it is for me! I dont think men r the major reason for women's oppression or patriarchy itself!!! I feel women contribute greatly to the patriarchy system!! Most of them belive men r a free ticket to success!! Marrying a rich man is their no 1 agenda!! Even tho I personally want a finacially statable man, i feel women shouldn't see that as success!!! Women view themselves lesser that's why men agree with that!!! Women are always against themselves n thsts our major problem!! I belive women should work n hvf something doing even if their spouse is a millionaire!! Women need to try to add more relevance to the society!! But thankfully there is great improvement today

I belive marriage shouldn't be the focus of the female child alone but the male child as well

I belive male children need more home training from their parents,that's the main issue we have in our society, most men hv no home training

I also believe men suffer in the patriarchy society as well
E.g we want equal salaries but we women want to keep it to ourselves mean while men pay all the bills!! Men are some worth like financial slaves!! If women what equal salaries with men they should as well be ready to take up some responsibility not just men alone, it goes on n on


N so many more depending on the issues raised!!
Am at church, that's why it took a while

@ bolded

How do you manage to make so much blunders all the time.

Which marriages focus on the female or male child alone before? And what does that point have to do with feminism.?

Shugavee:
so this how it is for me! I dont think men r the major reason for women's oppression or patriarchy itself!!! I feel women contribute greatly to the patriarchy system!! Most of them belive men r a free ticket to success!! Marrying a rich man is their no 1 agenda!! Even tho I personally want a finacially statable man, i feel women shouldn't see that as success!!! Women view themselves lesser that's why men agree with that!!! Women are always against themselves n thsts our major problem!! I belive women should work n hvf something doing even if their spouse is a millionaire!! Women need to try to add more relevance to the society!! But thankfully there is great improvement today

I belive marriage shouldn't be the focus of the female child alone but the male child as well

I belive male children need more home training from their parents,that's the main issue we have in our society, most men hv no home training

I also believe men suffer in the patriarchy society as well
E.g we want equal salaries but we women want to keep it to ourselves mean while men pay all the bills!! Men are some worth like financial slaves!! If women what equal salaries with men they should as well be ready to take up some responsibility not just men alone, it goes on n on


N so many more depending on the issues raised!!
Am at church, that's why it took a while

You could have said all these since and I would have agreed with you. No p with your opinions .

Harshirama:

You could have said all these since and I would have agreed with you. No p with your opinions .

alright dear!! Happy sunday

I love men and praise them and believe a man should be respected, likewise a woman, both gender cannot do without each other and we need each other for the smooth running of things but then these feminists claiming that men are holding them back are still the same set that see themselves are sexual objects both on Instagram and music videos. whenever I watch mtvbase or sound city and watch as our girls parade themselves nakeed in a music video while the guy is all dressed up, the question that pop into my head is "who now is holding us back if not for us?



Women we are the ones holding ourselves back, until some of us stop seeing ourselves as object of sexual gratification, this shenanigans will continue.

Shugavee:
so this how it is for me! I dont think men r the major reason for women's oppression or patriarchy itself!!! I feel women contribute greatly to the patriarchy system!! Most of them belive men r a free ticket to success!! Marrying a rich man is their no 1 agenda!! Even tho I personally want a finacially statable man, i feel women shouldn't see that as success!!! Women view themselves lesser that's why men agree with that!!! Women are always against themselves n thsts our major problem!! I belive women should work n hvf something doing even if their spouse is a millionaire!! Women need to try to add more relevance to the society!! But thankfully there is great improvement today

I belive marriage shouldn't be the focus of the female child alone but the male child as well

I belive male children need more home training from their parents,that's the main issue we have in our society, most men hv no home training

I also believe men suffer in the patriarchy society as well
E.g we want equal salaries but we women want to keep it to ourselves mean while men pay all the bills!! Men are some worth like financial slaves!! If women what equal salaries with men they should as well be ready to take up some responsibility not just men alone, it goes on n on


N so many more depending on the issues raised!!
Am at church, that's why it took a while

Contradiction!!!

Shugavee:
lol I hv been a feminist since my sec days!! Started after reading my first feminist book "purple hibiscus" I know alot abt it!!! N i know exactly what i stand for!! But i am of no obligation to convince you to see reasons with my opinion!! Its social media u are allowed to agree disagree n condemn especially when u don't know the person ur talking to in particular!!!

I also read that purple hibiscus in secondary school, and I assure that book is not a feminist book, in as much as it is written by a feminist. Get your fact right.

Chikita66:
I also read that purple hibiscus in secondary school, and I assure that book is not a feminist book, in as much as it is written by a feminist. Get your fact right.

lol I even read it in university self as a feminist book!!! But why u think it's not a feminist book!!! Let me hear from u

Chikita66:
I also read that purple hibiscus in secondary school, and I assure that book is not a feminist book, in as much as it is written by a feminist. Get your fact right.

I don't feel like arguing that why I didn't quote her on that. I read purple hibiscus in secondary school too. And it's main theme was about religion bigotry.

And Shugavee ended up exposing her level of reasoning

makydebbie:
I don't feel like arguing that why I didn't quote her on that. I read purple hibiscus in secondary school too. And it's main theme was about religion bigotry.

Seriously that babe need to package her ignorance, I did literature in secondary school, so that novel was well explained by my teacher, its main focus is on religious extremists and fanatics.

makydebbie:
I don't feel like arguing that why I didn't quote her on that. I read purple hibiscus in secondary school too. And it's main theme was about religion bigotry.

You mean she has no idea of what she is talking about as usual

Shugavee:
lol I even read it in university self as a feminist book!!! But why u think it's not a feminist book!!! Let me hear from u

What made it a feminist book? because the woman poisoned her husband?

donstan18:
And Shugavee ended up exposing her level of reasoning

you will not go to church.
Be arguing.
Heaven is recording it.

OriakuAmara:
you will not go to church. Be arguing. Heaven is recording it.

They yaff ban our Oriaku
Lol.. Happy palm Sunday

Prechbills:




some will be shouting equal gender representation and equal gender responsibility but when it comes to equal financial responsibility 100% of them will deny feminism

:-D:-D:-D

Please anyone with the extract of that purple hibiscus book should please help a nigga with it

I need it to troll someone

donstan18:



They yaff ban our Oriaku

Lol.. Happy palm Sunday

Lolx they have banished me temporarily.
A whole oriaku.
I have seen chumtin.

Lala or whatever she call herself will hear whii from me

Chikita66:
Seriously that babe need to package her ignorance, I did literature in secondary school, so that novel was well explained by my teacher, its main focus is on religious extremists and fanatics.

u mean she is trying to scam the gullible ones?

Amarabae:
She is very stupid and dumb.
Yes there are men who invented stuffs but is that olodo trying to tell us that women invented nothing?
Education helps people to invent and create,
And education is one thing that was denied from many women back in those days in some cultures,
Even now in some places, some take training a girl in school as waste of resources.

She should shut up.

A world without men will be paradise.
Men invented war, bloodshed, killings, crimes, rape, homosexuality, etc.

Men are important in their own way,
So are women!

How can you say that even now a girl child training is seen as a waste of resources in some places when I have seen countless times when fathers train their daughters in school and send their sons to learn a trade or craft, even while in school, parents send more money to their female child when compared to the male child.

How is a world without men not violent when we women are our own worst enemy, men can live together in a room without back stabbing, fighting and snatching girlfriends but its opposite for women, lots of gossiping, fighting, quarrelling, etc which is why many girls prefer men as friends.

Did men also invent lesbianism? Also have you not heard of boys being sexually harassed and raped by girls?

Seriously stop being biased.

You feminists really amaze me, I listened to Beyonce flawless song where she was calling her fellow women "bitch", that's degrading, for someone that is fighting for her own gender.

Cc:OriakuAmara

A concept will never be understood the same way.

Chimamanda understanding of feminism may be totally different from your understanding.

If you read her "Dear Ijeawale "
You will understand how own type and view of feminism.

Accept people's perspective or move on

OriakuAmara:

Lolx they have banished me temporarily.
A whole oriaku.
I have seen chumtin.

Lala or whatever she call herself will hear whii from me

Lol , why won't they ban oriaku diya, when she's always insulting people upandan

You never chee chumchi, I wish the ban could end by 2099

Lala did nothing wrong, she just picked your errors and corrected it, nothing else but you had to insult her, which was wrong.

makydebbie:
I don't feel like arguing that why I didn't quote her on that. I read purple hibiscus in secondary school too. And it's main theme was about religion bigotry.

lol so there was no woman maltreatment in that book??, chiamanda brought two families, that of Mr Eugene n anuty ufeoma!! To depict a home operated by a man n a woman, how Kimbili and jaja changed after going to anuty ifeomas house!! Kimbili is the main character, so making a lady the protagonist already makes it a feminist book!!!! Most feminist writers reacted to the fact women are hardly made the protagonist in africian books!!! Eugene was made the antagonist!! Just Google feminism in purple hibiscus!

OriakuAmara:
A concept will never be understood the same way.

Chimamanda understanding of feminism may be totally different from your understanding.

If you read her "Dear Ijeawale "
You will understand how own type and view of feminism.

Accept people's perspective or move on

What is her concept? and why is it different from our understanding of feminism? and more importantly, how does it support yours?

Lala isn't a 'she'.
Lalasticklahlah is a man.

That said, there are ways you insult politely, none of the rules will apply ..........Oriaku, please learn the trick ......

Chikita66 b4 u argue with me please check google!!!

AntiBrutus:
Lala isn't a 'she'.
Lalasticklahlah is a man.

That said, there are ways you insult politely.
None of the rules will apply

Oriaku, please learn the trick

i don't mean lalasticlllala.
There is a Jezebel named Lala here

Chikita66:
Seriously that babe need to package her ignorance, I did literature in secondary school, so that novel was well explained by my teacher, its main focus is on religious extremists and fanatics.

Exactly sis. I even have the pdf on my phone and I read the book again early this year. It centers on colonialism, religion bigotry, domestic violence and the Nigerian government. I was also a literature student. It had nothing to do with feminism at all, it's more of domestic violence than feminism. Because Mr Eugene didn't punish his wife and Kambili alone, he also punished Jaja. So how is that unfairness to the women alone? Even his father wasn't left out of his religious fanaticism.

greiboy:
Please anyone with the extract of that purple hibiscus book should please help a nigga with it

I need it to troll someone

I've the pdf on my phone, I'll send it to you through whatsapp.

AntiBrutus:
Lala isn't a 'she'. Lalasticklahlah is a man.
That said, there are ways you insult politely. None of the rules will apply
Oriaku, please learn the trick

She meant Lala.s247

@Embolden, you are smart.

OriakuAmara:
i don't mean lalasticlllala.
There is a Jezebel named Lala here

Ahahn, she is one easy going chick. How did you guys get to that?

Anyway, stick to this account for now. There is something about alternates, they make you miss lots of juicy updates, so you react less. Oriaku, be nice to sisters kwanu. We need each other

makydebbie:
Exactly sis. I even have the pdf on my phone and I read the book again early thus year. It centers on colonialism, religion bigotry, domestic violence and the Nigerian government. I was also a literature student. It had nothing to do with feminism at all, it's more of domestic violence than feminism. Because Mr Eugene didn't punish his wife and Kambili alone, he also punished Jaja. So how is that unfairness to the women alone? Even his father wasn't left out of his religious fanatics.


I've the pdf on my phone, I'll send it to you through whatsapp.

there are other pdf files that illustrates purple hibiscus as a feminist book as well!!! It's called critizim!! So many people give their evaluation abt a narrative based on their understanding!!

Shugavee:
Chikita66 b4 u argue with me please check google!!!

You just picked the domestic violence part and left the rest, that's what feminists do.