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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by streamsofjoy(f): 10:34am On Apr 01, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


After reading this balderdash you penned down, I couldn't but help to shake my head in disaffirmation. You're a total DISGRACE to Man. You simply portray no sense of emulation. What's these?
Advising someone to go get a trashy 'self acclaimed' Camry car to woo and impress ladies?
Argh! You nauseate me!
You're just a total show-off. Men like you seem to be bland and drab concerning the happenings of the society. You simply have nothing to show forth. If 'Women' are useless and cheap as mentioned, I suppose your mother must have been dealt with sexually countless times with a vast number of men. Little wonder, the stupidity lingers on. I implore you to see and respect women. We are not all that it seems. I'm not here to preach, nor do I comment on threads, but this? No, I will not pass. I hope you'll be sent to the purgatory to be cleansed off your obnoxious and stench-filled aura. It's highly contagious!
Having said these, I come to conclude that you're a bad example to other men.
Mind your comments!

Bless u dear!

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by streamsofjoy(f): 10:43am On Apr 01, 2018
babajeje123:

I totally disagree with you. My wife is some months older and we have been married for 6 years. It has never been an issue that she is older. Numerically she might be, but I'm the head, the alpha and omega of my home. I really don't know why people are some much concerned about outlook. Let me leave you with the word of a wise king 'Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised'.

Hmmm. I agree with u wholesale. The problem we have in the world today is that men dnt look for 'virtuousness' in a wife all they seek is beauty so that they can show off

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by streamsofjoy(f): 10:46am On Apr 01, 2018
babajeje123:

Let me share a bit of my love life with you. I didn't know my wife's age when I proposed to her. But she knew! After a lot of dragging forth and back, she asked for how I would feel if if I knew she was older and I told her age irrelevant in marriage. And yes it is. We got married and we've had slot of misunderstanding and none of them was as a serious of age difference.
You need to ask yourself this pertinent question, do I want to spend the rest of my life with this lady? Your sincere answer should tell you what you should do.
And please, forget those who saying your wife will be older than your friends' wives bla bla bla. Only a fool compares their spouse with someone else's.

I love u sir!

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:55am On Apr 01, 2018
Dotman2210:

Chai see finishing... You took this guy to the cleaners

That's his place of abode. The 'Purgatory'.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by streamsofjoy(f): 10:59am On Apr 01, 2018
Flowers95:
I doubt.

U probably are holding on tight to ur opinion because u have had same experience. U dnt want to believe he's having it good with his older woman. Dnt u think people are different?? The fact that ur wife whom u are 10years older that is already looking like ur mother does not mean it's the same with all women Okaaaaaay?.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:01am On Apr 01, 2018
boiz2men:

You didn't answer the question my dear.
Let's assume you don't care about their piece of trash.

Who has more chances of getting your attention



I'm not supporting that guy in any way but he didn't say anything short of the truth. He may have said it in a bitter way so as to hurt. But unfortunately, it's the naked truth. The fact that you deliberately failed to answer the question gives credence to that guys statement.

Yes, as much as explicit he was, he went too over-board.
I'll advise he retract his statement. He should just had advised, that was what was expected of him. Now shaming ladies, especially the ones he has frolicked around with? That's a NO NO.

No one catches my attention, for I don't seek attention. I'm too busy with real life activities than waiting on a guy who'll want to impress me with his glorified 'baggage'.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:04am On Apr 01, 2018
streamsofjoy:


Bless u dear!

Thanks ma'am!
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:09am On Apr 01, 2018
boiz2men:


You know in your inner deep it does. You are just being careful about your response so you don't shoot yourself in the foot.

That guys point is this...

"it's easier to woo a lady when you are in a car"


Not every woman.
Only a gullible one will fall for such

Personally, I detest guys who come along with cars to woo me. They just stop on the way and expect me to do what? Follow them to their place of abode and get layed?

I feel totally embarrassed in situations like that.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:10am On Apr 01, 2018
CsRockefeller:


I could make you blush but still not get a chance to dine with you, but blush anyways, its free.

Lol!
That was a play upon words. Well, thanks for the little time you brought forth to be friends. I appreciate.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by missyblissy: 11:14am On Apr 01, 2018
Op age is nothing but a number. It is the mutual respect, understanding and love that matters. Aan remains a man irrespective of his age in marriage. If your wife is older and gives time the respect as the man of the house, oga marry her. If she doesn't respect you as the man in the relationship and brings up. Seniority complex whoever you argue. Oga run away.

Unless you wan turn to house boy after marriage
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:15am On Apr 01, 2018
Aboguede:

200% correct.

The truth is that the so-called Mr. Camry is a sadist and he is suffering from low self-esteem so I can boldly say that he lacks confidence as a man infact he is just a low life.

Any female with a lady thing is sure a woman but you can the kind of ladies this sadist does this to they are mostly the lowest class of ladies in Nigeria the onse that even okada operators don't call twice.



Exactly Sir.
The calibre of ladies he frolicks around with has made him to generalise all 'women' as sluts. For him to have made such derogatory comment, He is as classless as the 'sluts' he sleeps with. No real 'guy' will kiss and tell.



Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Flowers95: 11:18am On Apr 01, 2018
streamsofjoy:


U probably are holding on tight to ur opinion because u have had same experience. U dnt want to believe he's having it good with his older woman. Dnt u think people are different?? The fact that ur wife whom u are 10years older that is already looking like ur mother does not mean it's the same with all women Okaaaaaay?.
hi dear, I’m a woman not a man. You don’t have to agree with me, that’s totally fine.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:19am On Apr 01, 2018
Chochovini:
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I personally don‘t quote ladies much but I think I like the way you addressed this issue. I will henceforth look forward to reading your comments, that‘s if you don‘t seldom post. I like you already.

Gracias!
It's wonderful to know you appreciate my insight into this issue. Personally, I do not comment on threads not worthy of my advice. Too many insensitive people on here.

Once again, I appreciate. Bliss!
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Tiimy(m): 11:29am On Apr 01, 2018
Memories12411:
No one will tell you that it matters because there's nothing to hold on to in terms of religion and traditions. But let me be sincere with you "it matters". Women get older earlier than men because of the nature of their bodies. After some years into the marriage you will begin to see people giving her unnecessary respect thinking she's your elder sister or mum. How will you feel?. When your friends marry younger women your wife will not be comfortable with the relationship because she will be the older one and inferiority complex will set in. Like wise when you you are with her friends and their husbands you will be treated like a small boy because you are the same boy her friends know. Again, your family will be telling her to her face that you married an old woman. Finally, the two of you at home. Will she respect you when she knows she is older? I'm not saying it doesn't or it can't happen but if you can stand what comes out of it you can go ahead. I stand to be corrected.
that's Nigerian mentality, its not dsame in foreign countries cos in Nigeria even if u marry a younger woman nd she don't look afta her body esp after childbirth, she wil get too fat and look older even if u re older dan her, but wen u understand nd respect each other nd d woman is mentally matured too u might even hav lesser problems compared to d ones dat re married based on age
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by omoharry(f): 11:29am On Apr 01, 2018
Kingsteve:


Can you please tell us something new?
Haven't you repeated this same bullsh!t story on different threads?
E be like this Camry muscle wey you manage buy, we no go hear word again. Lol

I wonder what your next story will be like when you manage to upgrade your Camry muscle to a luxury brand.
Wahala go dey...
dont mind him. this is what happens when a man has always struggled all and experience poverty all through his life this is definitely how he will behave when he finally makes a bit of money to buy a tokunbo car to make him feel he has finally arrived and accomplished all in his life when in the true since he is just a one eye man acting as a king in the land of the blind. he is very poor at heart.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Fourwinds: 12:02pm On Apr 01, 2018
Bernice4ozodo:
I bliv there re sum decent gals out there, n I 1 of dem,t all depends on we(gals) choose to do with our lives
then next time tell us you are speaking for yourself.... some girl s are damn very very stupid....


they hardly see beyond their nose
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Apr 01, 2018
Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over every tying else





so it means u don't respect ur mom
bcuz we both know she bends down to piss including ur sisters,and even if u end up with a virgin, u don't have value for women
guys like u na material girls fit ona

Camry Camry Camry
wen u finally settle down with a good woman u will start blaming her for infertility
wen all ur God given sperms dun go down toilet
common sense is not common at all
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by streamsofjoy(f): 12:19pm On Apr 01, 2018
Flowers95:
hi dear, I’m a woman not a man. You don’t have to agree with me, that’s totally fine.

Either ways na. But I hear u- I dnt have to agree with u
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by lavenjcrown(m): 12:19pm On Apr 01, 2018
seriously, i don't see anything wrong over that, one thing i just believe is the experience he or she must have. when i said experience, i mean live experience that's all.
pander1234:
please i need your sincere advice on this
my current girlfriend i have dated for over 2 years now we have agree to take it further (marriage) but my concern is that she is the same age as me and infact her birthday comes before mine. so i want to know if marrying someone that has same age with you is bad or not

please no insult just your sincere advice
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by ArinzeRaph: 12:20pm On Apr 01, 2018
Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else
one b!tch don do you mmanya
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Chochovini: 12:26pm On Apr 01, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Gracias!
It's wonderful to know you appreciate my insight into this issue. Personally, I do not comment on threads not worthy of my advice. Too many insensitive people on here.

Once again, I appreciate. Bliss!
.
Oh! Just seeing this. However, I want to appreciate your kind feedback. Other ladies would have been so sassy in response especially when someone tells them he liked them on a social media as this. Maybe you are not the proud type afterall, I presumed. Maybe you are one gift God has sent me this Easter via NL who knows? Lols!

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by humilitypays(m): 12:35pm On Apr 01, 2018
pussyAvenger:
Then you must be ugly as Bleep...Oh lacks every iota of masculine coordination...


Team Shugarlord!!
the more handsome and successful u are as a guy, the more ladies run away from u and form hard to get for u for fear of ending up being heartbroken because they see u as too good for them, except the few who just try out of let me try. Don't worry, time and experience will teach u some lessons about life; money don't always guarantee women unless u are so idle and spend your time driving around town to woo every girl u see.

unless u are talking about cheap love peddlers who pull down their pant for any guy that flashes them money, thats not my type..they even makenme feel like vomitting, God forgive me i am not judging.

for me, I don't even greet people unless u are an elder.

my point is, your mentor is fabricating his stories based on his imaginations but in reality, its not always that easy thats why most musicians and celebrities end up dating same ladies they meet in clubs and hotels cos its usually hard for them to get normal ladies with good morals...have u wondered why Davido is so in love with Chioma Chioma is the first normal girl he is meeting probably, who doesnt hang around night clubs sharing to all male celebrities that bid higher.

time will make u understand cos i know u must be below 25yrs and probably a student lol

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by BIXYBABE: 12:41pm On Apr 01, 2018
when you son Bleep am finish u come to NL..........wen u wan toast am u no come
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by humilitypays(m): 12:44pm On Apr 01, 2018
Imapearl:






so it means u don't respect ur mom
bcuz we both know she bends down to piss including ur sisters,and even if u end up with a virgin, u don't have value for women
guys like u na material girls fit ona

Camry Camry Camry
wen u finally settle down with a good woman u will start blaming her for infertility
wen all ur God given sperms dun go down toilet
common sense is not common at all
Dont bother yourself with that guy, his stories are fake, fabricated. Believe me, he has been turned down by so many ladies to the extent he is feeling its because he doesnt have a car thats why ladies are turning him down so he starts to imagine if he has a car what he would do to ladies for turning him down when he has no car.

believe me, he is just writing nonsense from his imagination, bother not about him

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by rossi5(f): 1:06pm On Apr 01, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


After reading this balderdash you penned down, I couldn't but help to shake my head in disaffirmation. You're a total DISGRACE to Man. You simply portray no sense of emulation. What's these?
Advising someone to go get a trashy 'self acclaimed' Camry car to woo and impress ladies?
Argh! You nauseate me!
You're just a total show-off. Men like you seem to be bland and drab concerning the happenings of the society. You simply have nothing to show forth. If 'Women' are useless and cheap as mentioned, I suppose your mother must have been dealt with sexually countless times with a vast number of men. Little wonder, the stupidity lingers on. I implore you to see and respect women. We are not all that it seems. I'm not here to preach, nor do I comment on threads, but this? No, I will not pass. I hope you'll be sent to the purgatory to be cleansed off your obnoxious and stench-filled aura. It's highly contagious!
Having said these, I come to conclude that you're a bad example to other men.
Mind your comments!
thank you mama.happy Easter

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by osaeti(f): 1:22pm On Apr 01, 2018
Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else



That is how your life remain 1mb
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MRAKBEE(m): 2:17pm On Apr 01, 2018
pander1234:
please i need your sincere advice on this
my current girlfriend i have dated for over 2 years now we have agree to take it further (marriage) but my concern is that she is the same age as me and infact her birthday comes before mine. so i want to know if marrying someone that has same age with you is bad or not

please no insult just your sincere advice
So u dated a girl for 2 years but no goals were set.
Moreover you are asking if its good to marry her in the light of her age. Didn't u know her age when u started dating?
Can her age really stop u from marrying you?
Or is it now that your eyes have opened?
Its a matter of choice though. go for love and leave sentiments..if u love her then stick with her..
Im married to someone who is three months older than and we are blessed with three kids.. Its bn love and understanding all the way. It's love that wud take us there.. I'm not afraid of the future
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:59pm On Apr 01, 2018
Chochovini:
.
Oh! Just seeing this. However, I want to appreciate your kind feedback. Other ladies would have been so sassy in response especially when someone tells them he liked them on a social media as this. Maybe you are not the proud type afterall, I presumed. Maybe you are one gift God has sent me this Easter via NL who knows? Lols!

smiley
Perhaps, I'm truly your Easter's sent hamper. Manage with love. You can't fully judge from afar though. I do not reply all mentions, I simply discard the minuscule ones. This was worth replying. I appreciate those who appreciate me. Bless you!
Enjoy the rest of your day. I'm Victoria by the way.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by stainlesslamon1(m): 4:05pm On Apr 01, 2018
Age doesn't matter when it comes to marriage � rather maturity of what you have upstairs matter alot.

Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CarlosTheJackal: 4:48pm On Apr 01, 2018
i love ladies that are matured because i feel more relaxed with them. I won't mind marrying the one older than me.



For those thinking that she will old faster should remember that Love dont care about the appearance rather the heart
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by veave(f): 4:52pm On Apr 01, 2018
Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else


You have complex issues bro. See a psych..

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by boiz2men(m): 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2018
shaybebaby:

Define genuine?


Lol.. I meant if what he said actually happened.

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