she was over bearingly too possesive

@ spoilt
Thanx 4 your concern, from what i hear they are not together anymore and the girl still calls to beg me, told her i have forgiven her but she still wants to be friends which is impossible.That was supposed to be my Husband but i guess God disposes.I guess it was a case of infatuation because her boyfriend is abroad, but imagine spoiling a lovely relationship because you needed some good loving.

j- girl i'm not a chauvinist, is crime to have a big D*ck?

I guess he got into a quickie r/ship then he avoided communicating and when he lost his job, he then remembered me and came back but i was mad at him   by then after I had   my eyes out and he blamed the lack of communication on busy schedule at work. Before then, he was always planning marraige by mouth and wanted a forever courtship and I aint getting younger.

2. His family weren't really cooperating, guess they had inferiority complex, and wanted someone from their state. They weren't worth it too, was going to manage them  

bashar83:

B4 giving we were playing around and she decided to call me her just a friend's name.ummmm!!!! still allowed her talked to her and gave her the ring anyway. hopin she will change. she then started to allow my calls go like 4-5 times before answering.this morning just got tired and called it quit. Dont get me wrong i love her still and trust her. but i just need a little regard.and beside we never had sex and we had an 18 mnth relationship, think i should take her back!!!!!

Bashar do u need her to bash your head in before u wake up?
Love is respectful and should be mutual.
You supposed girl calls u a suspicious male friend's name and u still give her a ring? Whats wrong with u man?
I understand if u still love her (and that'll fade away with time) but trust?! how?
And youre thinking of taking her back? Please count your losses and move on before they multiply.
Keep your head up pal, she definitely wasnt worth you.

he was such a pathological liar n a 2 face bastard

@ 1forall
i perfectly understand you man. But have you ever been in a relationship where the only person you do absolutely anything with is your partner. This is how this is/was. And the trust thing, well i don't know whee its from but its there.

@Topic

She was a B1TCH

onyeka_ng:

he was such a pathological liar n a 2 face bastard

Well thats why i say HELLO!!!

Mine? She was Unrepentant, told many lies, stole, had sex indescretely and upon all that,  She nearly killed me!!! She was a psycho with mental and emotional problems looking for someone to destroy. A massive accident waiting to happen, so i took the short cut out.

She refused to give me a Mouth Action, so,i kicked ass!!!

so many experiences. i wouldnt say we broke up but i would say we stoped communicating, he travelled out although he calls once in a while. i know one thing where ur heart is, dats is where ur treasure is.His execuses were always he has other plans than callin me every blessed day. I wish i could understand, unfortunately am not a Niger Wife. I cant wait for a love that is not sure. Abi wetin una talk my pple.

whitelexi:


Mine? She was Unrepentant, told many lies, stole, had sex indescretely and upon all that, She nearly killed me!!! She was a psycho with mental and emotional problems looking for someone to destroy. A massive accident waiting to happen, so i took the short cut out.

All these attributes, u sure must possess some of these attributes for u to have gone for her in the first place.

Next time, 'look b4 u leap'

She was the ideal girl, caring, truthful, nutty, stubborn, well behaved and honest all in a crazy kinda mix that I loved.

I was her dream come true, adorable, difficult to annoy, frank and understanding.

We did fit like gloves, and were destined to walk down the aisle together, or so I thought.

She woke up one day from a 4-year old dream and decided it was time to try something new.

Her reasons
Incompatibility
Differing view of our parents
Need to do other things with her life (for now) besides marriage .

What I think
She probably met Usher . Women can be like that, you know.

We parted ways cause i noticed he values his only sister so much more than anyone else including myself that what i said concerning her caused our quit.Can u imagine that!

The lady was all so unkempt,

She'd place her X string anywhere, even on my dad's desk!

She's Godawful lazy and wont even work up the nerve to clean her room not to talk of helping me out with my own chores.

Not like I want a slave of a lady but somebody with a sense of propriety and a very sharp nose for good hygiene.

Got to go!

brownbaby:

All these attributes, u sure must possess some of these attributes for u to have gone for her in the first place.

Next time, 'look before u leap'

I forgot to add that she pretended all the way until her true colors came out, they came out slowly and i began expressing my fears but she was good in the act, then on a good day, everything exploded. I had to run for my life

I STILL LOVE HIM.

A lot of people were jealous of our relationship. His (ugly) best friend whom he had known since kindergarten accused me and told all that I wanted to date him plus three of his friends were hitting on me too. (I guess it's a crime to be pretty and have brains too)

I called the whole thing off despite the fact that he still wanted to be with me because I didn't want his so called friends to think he was too weak for sticking up for me.

He stopped speaking to his friends when the truth came out and his best friend called his parent and told them to apologise to my boyfriend on his behalf but he could not tell them what he has done. He has also being going round to everyone that knows my boyfriend to help him beg his forgiveness.

Its pretty amazing that i'm replying this though what my ex did to me was painful i stilll was able to get over it and we are now ok as friends. she was actually having an affair with someone she introduced to me as her friend, hmm, bobo don turn mugu abi?. well i guess i just had to know cause i was more than faithful, i guess better luck next time wouldnt you say!!!

Well, she wanted a commitment after 3 months and I was like wait for abit, lets give it one year and see. Then she comes over to my family house and well, my mum disapproved. Then I was put in the middle, "If you luv me, you'll or you won't, " kind of situation. I really can't handle those sort of choices or lets say I refused to be drawn into it. I know I love this girl, she's my friend too, and she's so nice to be around. Now she doesn't want to even speak to me anymore, can't blame her too much though.

He not only cheated on me by dating my girlfriend,he also impregnated her, He denied everything.I later saw the txt messages he was sending to my friend.I felt useless,it was a terrible experience.
i had to break the chains,i had to walk away, Now,its a case of good riddance to bad rubbish.
Now,i'm doing perfectly fine,getting along without him.
Some men can be full of rubbish

@bashar83, open ur eye that girl is not for u, she is seriously damaging u at yr back, sorry be the one to tell u this, she is not feelin u any more. u deserve someone better my brother. and please, dont waste ur time wit her. there are alot of women that are still good, all u have to do is listen to what they are sayin. u will find ur match.

mine, went back to her 7 years relationship, though it pain but hey, what can i do. still friends though and keep in touch too

Wow! i have heard all u guys and feel it is dishearting 2 feel ppl pain, when of actual sense, this is the happening trend of girls going out not for luv but because of material benefit. My former girl left me after 5 motherf**king years, just because of material things. Well as a man, life must still go on. But i believe, if the fear of God is in everybodys mind & poverty is a bit eradicated then there will b a new tune 4rm ppl. thx

he was very selfish and i  didnt want to spend the rest of my life with someone who thought only about himself

he was neither here nor there, i just couldn't stand his unending eccesses anymore,
i mean the dishonesty, unseriousness and never growing up attitude so i quit

Because he told me blatantly, that he won,t marry me cos am too young to marry.
imagine

@aysometin, " that is supposed to be my husband" my dear, what is yours is yours but that man is not meant for you, he doesnt even deserve some close to u. somethings are design to happen that way so that u actually find ur true half not imitation.

Because I Got Fired. She Fired Me Period!!!

I Was Never Serious. Guess Y? I Had Fired Her Logically Long B4. She Did The Talking. I Was So Happy To Be Fired.

Ive Found True Love. Or So I Think.

Im In Love Now.

@jamensod & Labyrinth

for the serious minded babes It's not always about material things, it's also about

True Love
Trust
relationship
Communication
Understanding etc,

it's not perfection but most guys lack majority of these qualities

Honestly, am tired of men.

mine was a looser she was a sex freak nd f**ckes behind me nd d annoying part was she f**ct my cousin

nd still came back begging for me 2 keep her bi**h

Too bad

nd d mos annoying part was she was an angel at d same time a sex machine