he cheated, once a cheater, always a cheater ( i know i used to be one).

cheating n thinking i sldnt get my own turn
plus i met a brand new lover, n i just jumped ships ojare

if all men r cheats y wld i want to be stuck with one 4 the rst of my life

wen i can always get a brand new cheat

am in the process of dropping my own guy,pls help me reason this one he just relocated to town says he doesnt want me to come visit him in his hotel because he wants to marry me so he only visits me 2 mnths down the line i cant take not knowing where he lives so am like we r not going further until i know where u live but evrybody around me were just like give him some time this is like 5mnths now though i've not been bugging him but i dont think i can continue for all i knw he may be a ghost plus I've never met any of his frends so am thinking this guy is married always saying he does not have frends.I have become very uncomfortable with the whole thing i like him alot but am feeling very foolish like he is just toying with me.

andromida:

am in the process of dropping my own guy,pls help me reason this one he just relocated to town says he doesnt want me to come visit him in his hotel because he wants to marry me so he only visits me 2 mnths down the line i cant take not knowing where he lives so am like we r not going further until i know where u live but evrybody around me were just like give him some time this is like 5mnths now though i've not been bugging him but i dont think i can continue for all i knw he may be a ghost plus I've never met any of his frends so am thinking this guy is married always saying he does not have frends.I have become very uncomfortable with the whole thing i like him alot but am feeling very foolish like he is just toying with me.

him be toying with you, drop him, how can you marry someone that you know nothing about,

blakbarbie:

he cheated, once a cheater, always a cheater ( i know i used to be one).

so technically u are still a cheat and no guy shld trust ur sorry azz, right?

.

Dortmund allowed pressure a lot and they paid for it..too bad

Broke it off 3 weeks ago....my ex is tooooo self centered.moved on.

Lynpetra, how far naw? Happy Sunday? I requested somthin from u on the other thread but never met ur reply. Am still waiting for u. U know say i don dey trip for u go far. I never trip for nairaland babe, but u don dey konji me so tey i no know myself again. Make we rub minds outside nairaland naw abeg. I'll be a good replacer in relation to ur post above. Am happy he's no more cos am here. Am waiting dear!

German1234:


Hehe, no this one I was learning for is neeeew. The new guy and I are not in a relationship, yet

But after knowing two igbo guys theres something they have very much in common. And thats their way of compromising, It doesnt excist. It is HIS way or the highway, I am hoping that I can transform this new igbo to maybe understand the western way of compromising, if he'll allow me to

Hope you ended things well with the first guy and told him why. I wonder how he took such a reason

FactorChic: He was cheating, actually he was getting married to the other girl, I found out when the girl confronted me, I asked him and he denied it, then I went further with the investigation and everything, he later admitted that I was right. I called it quits, he told me not to leave because he still loved me, he said he can get married to her and we can still continue our relationship, if I had a gun at that moment, i'd shoot him for that statement. Well, I dump his ass and believe me, I didnt shed a tear over him, funny part is, the other girl dumped him too

hahahaha, sharp guy

aysometin: I ended my 4-year relationship because he had been sleeping with my best friend for 6 months, and u know what my best friend was living with me at that time.I almost died when i found out, its over though because its almost a year and i have started seeing life from a different perspective but believe me its hard to fall in love again, i guess i need help.

sorry

dapsins69: y'all have drop all lot of notes.my gf is this, my boyfriend is that. most people have lied that they did the breaking up but they didnt, lol, we give u the chance to make your selves happy.
@ topic, had a girlfriend once, loved her, really loved her, then she became jealous, over protective, time demanding, and all the rest compound sentences you could use to describe their likes, you know what am saying. i had wanted to break up with her but i just could, twas real love, i didnt want to be the one that bleeped up, so i set in a series of motins that assit her to break up, she did physically, but emotional and spiritually i had already left her, a long time ago, i still loved her then, infact i still loved her naw, wo wouldnt loved that sweet juciy whole, twas sweet while it lasted, but naw i aint fallen in no fucking luv, am a player till i quench,
@ ladies, dnt go deceiveing yourself, for every break up you think you did, you were made to do it,
@ guy, praaah, continue fucking them till they puuuu puuuu puuu puuuu ! lol

nice one

Flawless: Mine left me cos I don't have stay in the country, apparently he wants someone that would legalise his stay. He and his mum cooked up stories abt how I gave him bad luck and how some pastors prayed about it and said we aint meant to be. It is quite sad but am glad that the truth came out,

sorry,but that was 4yrs ago,I hope you are now married with kids?

FactorChic: He was cheating, actually he was getting married to the other girl, I found out when the girl confronted me, I asked him and he denied it, then I went further with the investigation and everything, he later admitted that I was right. I called it quits, he told me not to leave because he still loved me, he said he can get married to her and we can still continue our relationship, if I had a gun at that moment, i'd shoot him for that statement. Well, I dump his ass and believe me, I didnt shed a tear over him, funny part is, the other girl dumped him too

Oh, so the other lady didn't marry him too ?

What a silly man !

PTBNaija: I didn't feel like he cared about me. It's one thing to say that you love someone, but when your actions seem to relay something different, it's not okay. And after dealing with that for months, I felt it was just time to move on.

Did you read what your profile picture says ?

Its all about you ?

When you make a person happy, you receive happiness in return..

He lied to me. he never open up who he is to me n i later get to knw wich i called it of

samparian:
I ended my relationship with her cause we were not meant to be.
We even got engaged on her birthday. I threw her a lavish party which stunned her and her family. Then things started getting bad for me financially after our engagement.
Nothing i did ever worked out. I became broke and later heard she was cheating on me with her old boyfriend. I saw his many text messages on her phone and confronted her. she asked for forgiveness and i forgave her.
men, i really loved her.
I finally broke off our engaement when my prayer team told me she was the cause of my financial troubles and if i went on to marry her, bad things will happen to my family.
i initially dieagreed with them, till i became really broke that i didnt have 100k to call my own.
imagine this, , barely 4 months after i broke up with her, i became a millionaire.
I'm still searching for my real wife now.

Waooow!!!!

blakbarbie:
he cheated, once a cheater, always a cheater ( i know i used to be one).

then u still a cheater from your comment tho

darqly:
Well, she wanted a commitment after 3 months and I was like wait for abit, lets give it one year and see. Then she comes over to my family house and well, my mum disapproved. Then I was put in the middle, "If you luv me, you'll or you won't, " kind of situation. I really can't handle those sort of choices or lets say I refused to be drawn into it. I know I love this girl, she's my friend too, and she's so nice to be around. Now she doesn't want to even speak to me anymore, can't blame her too much though.

How did it go for you over time, cos I am in similar situation?

Daniwes:

How did it go for you over time, cos I am in similar situation?

Wow! Just seeing this 6mths later Well it ended in tears, for all parties involved. She moved on, married. I met someone else years later, married. We still chat occasionally and remain cordial, we were both immature and handled it poorly TBH. One thing I will reiterate though is, Family is important. Their fears may often be unfounded but it's not usually from a malicious or hurtful place, they genuinely care about the choice you're about to make. In the end, the honest truth? It's your LIFE and it's your CHOICE. I wish you all the best.

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