Jodha:
If yhu can wait till trad marriage... Y can't yhu wait till the white wedding....

To wear the wedding gown...d bride should be pure and undefiled ...

tosyne2much:
No mind them jawe baba

The day you pay bride price is the day you're married... All these church whatever na copy copy

Na traditional marriage and court marriage be the koko

TheUpsetGirl1:

court marriage is very dangerous

tosyne2much:
Tell me why it's dangerous

TheUpsetGirl1:


okay go ahead.... don't come here and start crying later

tosyne2much:
I'm not denying the fact that court marriage is risky... I just want to hear your views

TheUpsetGirl1:
I'm just confused.
is there anything wrong in having sex after traditional marriage?
The weird thing is some people especially ladies usually say stuffs like; wait till after wedding, honeymoon.

so is the traditional marriage not a marriage?
if you think it's useless why did you agree to traditional marriage in the first place?

After spending a lot of money in paying for bride price and the marriage ,you still refuse to have sex.
If you were to be in that man's shoes, won't you leave?

Some ladies also forget that wedding is supposed to be footed by the parents of the bride, when Africans want to copy things they only copy the part they think is favourable to them and leave the other part.
Just as the wedding system was copied, in the countries it was copied from the parents of the bride foot the wedding but in Africa the man is expected to foot the traditional marriage and the wedding, isn't that insane?


to my question; what's Wrong with sex after traditional marriage??

Acidosis:


If you can give your man sex because he spent N700k on aso ebi, groundnuts, palm oil, goats, etc., then should as well give him sex when he buys you an iPhone.
Religious factors are the major reasons women deny men sex. So a woman can decide to wait until she meets her religious obligations. It is her choice.

However, what I'm saying to ignorant minds like yours is this: that thing you call traditional marriage is a total waste of time, because it is not recognized. If I spend 700k on your bride price today, I can wake up tomorrow denying ever meeting you. You don't have any proof apart from the unrecognized photoshop pictures and empty bottles of ogogoro and goats.