antidisestablis:
Hello guys, I hope you are doing good, also i want to appreciate everyone that contributed to my last thread I created last year. https://www.nairaland.com/3803311/dont-trust-anymore

Pls read through the thread .
It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.

To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.

Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.

I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.

My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.

I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all

marry her!

Why are you wasting your time with her? Organized boys to fok the hell out of her,useless the biiitch and dump her period

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WinningSun:


this same line is what glo has been sending to me

Buy Nigerian to grow and harvest the Naira.............

hmmmm

Mumu should be your middle name, when God reveal to you who your fiancee was, you have caught her not once but twice cheating on you and you are still here asking mumu advise on what to do.... You should try for once and act like a real man.

The greatest excuse that will cause a GREAT mistake in your life is what you just mentioned: "every one has known her".
If you choose to go ahead with the marriage, when frustration, heart attack, and grave sorrow beholds you,'everyone' will see your pain, but no one can carry tje pain for you.

Flee for your life while you still can!

Firstly, decide in your heart and mind to call it off now.
Secondly, inform your parents.
Thirdly, inform her of your decision( do not meet with her), and subsequently inform her family.

Brother, flee to the hills lest you be consumed by the raging pain, sorrow and death that will flow from her loins into the plains of your would-be married life with her.
Flee, brother flee!

antidisestablis:

Thanks very much once again my guy, I have made up mind this time to break it off and d only person that might want to stop me is my sis which I respect so much. I have told her everything,she was so shock with all my findings. She has told me to dump her ass without looking back.
The major challenges is that everyone has known her with me, the two families, the Church of God and my place of work. I know I will overcome it.

My advise though... Let the intro date remain but tell her its over on same day infront of everybody. I mean before the family commence the talk talk. Trust me she will regret forever.


A cheat will remain a cheat... No mistake in cheating.

antidisestablis:

Thanks very much once again my guy, I have made up mind this time to break it off and d only person that might want to stop me is my sis which I respect so much. I have told her everything,she was so shock with all my findings. She has told me to dump her ass without looking back.
The major challenges is that everyone has known her with me, the two families, the Church of God and my place of work. I know I will overcome it.

I sent you a mail bro. Please can you respond? It's important

Bro marriage is a life long commitment "watch b4 u leap"

this one really weak me

A cheat is always a cheat bro! Same thing happened to me tonight. Caught her cheating and forgave her. She pleaded with heaven and earth. Tonight I caught her again with lot o evidences.
I will act like I have forgiven her as keep fucking her to my fill and dump her ass when am tired. No more benefits for her.

Why complain when you know your fiancee is a cheat? You already know what's good for you!

Or What advice do you need from me

My friend, love is indeed wicked and you have to learn to deal with it.
I have learnt from several experience that once a cheat is always a cheat.
To find a girl/partner that is 50% faithful is like asking a needle to pass through the eye of a needle.
If you truly love her, stay and deal with it, else look for someone else.
You have to do some tradeoff in your relationship. Look for the character you can work with in her, if there is none, then walk away.
As for cheating, it's always going to be there.
And please if you want to stay sane, never go through your partner's phone.
Work on yourself, give her a good reason to get jealous and to want you by becoming successful or more successful.

After all these, if you still need further advice, then consult your village witchcraft association. You had revelation in dream and confirmed by physical evidence.

Are you truly a man?

My candid advice for you now is to drop her now for the adage that says ones beaten twice shy is a fact to really consider .A relationship without trust us like house without solid foundation, is like living in a fool's paradise. Run for your dear life before is too late

If you do not leave her and marry her, u will die before your time or you end up in divorce. Whether the whole world know u with her, does it matter. Up to you.

antidisestablis:
Hello guys, I hope you are doing good, also i want to appreciate everyone that contributed to my last thread I created last year. https://www.nairaland.com/3803311/dont-trust-anymore

Pls read through the thread .
It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.

To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.

Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.

I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.

My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.

I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all

My brother, I must be very hard on you.......pardon me if I'm rude......you will be the most STUPID man if you tie yourself in that 'shallow of love' you called relationship.
Because, there's nothing worse than being stupid!!

antidisestablis:
Hello guys, I hope you are doing good, also i want to appreciate everyone that contributed to my last thread I created last year. https://www.nairaland.com/3803311/dont-trust-anymore

Pls read through the thread .
It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.

To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.

Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.

I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.

My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.

I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all

If you love her don't end it because you have no idea if her ex used charms on her that keeps drawing her back, I know many adodun charms like that, anyway Do you still want her back? I will help you separate her from her ex permanently.

I could feel how sad you will be over this discovery, to break up, take your time to look out for her mistake, especially lies, because she will definitely be telling lies, pick it up and tell her you are not interested again, if she tell people in your church, you can talk of your discovery one on one to matured one in the church, else always refer the immature to go ask her more things she is doing to you. I advise you based on your story that everybody knows two of you will soon married. Above all collect with wisdom everything that pertain to you from her. Your pictures, your ATM, your shares certificate, cloth. Don't say I never mention this oh.

nice advise

Acidosis:


I understand how you feel bro. Walking away is not going to be difficult, just get something to distract yourself for a while. About the two families, allow her convey the message to her family, I'm sure your family will get the message.

When it comes to deciding who you want to spend the rest of your life with, you've got to be selfish. You're in this alone and can't afford to make a mistake. Nothing is more disgusting than seeing two male adults struggle over a woman. If she wants her ex, don't fight it, choose to be the "loser".

What advice do you need again, u know the right thing to do ... Go ahead and marry her and watch how you going to raise another man child

Guy, it’s very good you’ve decided to move on with your life. I must confess it’s not easy making a decision like this but it is far better to go through the heartbreak now than when you are married to her. I crossed the same bridge some years back when a lady I dated for close to to 5 years found it difficult to close her legs to other guys. I really loved this girl and wanted to marry and was hoping she would change but it kind of got worse cos she thought I couldn’t live without her. Guess what, I made up my mind and went through the heartbreak and today I’m better off with a lovely wife and three cute kids. So brace yourself up and move on, this applies to both sexes, if a relationship is not working don’t kill yourselves in it. Something better awaits ahead. Cheers.

common amon the ladies they cheats alot and once you catch her dont ever trust her again

antidisestablis:

Thanks very much once again my guy, I have made up mind this time to break it off and d only person that might want to stop me is my sis which I respect so much. I have told her everything,she was so shock with all my findings. She has told me to dump her ass without looking back.
The major challenges is that everyone has known her with me, the two families, the Church of God and my place of work. I know I will overcome it.

Forget about people knowing her with you...your happiness is at stake here...none of these people you mentioned above will be there with you if you go ahead and marry her. Just know one thing, there are lots of nice girls in the world and you will get someone better than she is in the nearest future

You can't sincerely love a wife you don't trust and Marriage cannot thrive in its absence either.
Please save yourself the pain of training someone's child in the future.

mistake most guys do,she will change but after marriage you will regret the rest of your life,never you take a second chance on issue like this,a woman that cheat will always continue to cheat.

She will always cheat break up with her ASAP

antidisestablis:

Thanks very much once again my guy, I have made up mind this time to break it off and d only person that might want to stop me is my sis which I respect so much. I have told her everything,she was so shock with all my findings. She has told me to dump her ass without looking back.
The major challenges is that everyone has known her with me, the two families, the Church of God and my place of work. I know I will overcome it.

Yea.. Dump her will be d best u can do. I hate when u are making a marriage plan wit a Lady n she is still chose to fvck around Wit her so calling ex.. If d relationship wit her ex was OK, y would dey broke in d first place.. I realized when u are in a relationship, it seem no girls anymore but once u are off d hook, it like show dem dey like dis... Bro, dump her ass asap.

if u marry her hope you have prepared to nurses bastard children

just bone her ladies full everywhere.