darlingnuel:
Bone her too. Deprive her of that attention.

fancy4eve:
so wat happens 2 marriage

Divay22:
He doesn't


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Flashylily:
Hate the way he treats me at times. He went for nysc,since the last two weeks, he never called me unless he sees my missed call. When ever I complain of this call,he either complain of airtime or battery issue. The current problem is that I gave him two missed calls yesterday night,he didn't even bother returning it and I also saw him online yet no message not until I texted him and he replied. I didn't complain but I really gave him cold attitude which he observed.

DeadRat:




I Broke Their Hearts



I Needed To Focus Of A Greater Me, for A Greater Tomorrow and Better Women

Flashylily:
thanks but all the same,I just feel like he is not trying at all and I wouldn't mind forgetting him cause I don't really like seeing my self being hurt. I'm not the kind of girl that even send a guy. Its just happening for the first time cause I'm used to him. From the onset of the relationship he doesn't really call which he explained to me but the good thing about it then was that we work together and he is all over me at work. He spoilt me with love there that even make me forget calls. When his call up letter came, I was happy and unhappy at the same time. He told me to wait for him,all those stories. Now he is out if Lagos, him not calling is not helping that waiting. I tried very much calling him often in a bid to make sure I don't fall to guys that are all over me . I work in a hotel part time and I know the number of guys that ask me out. Maybe I'm disturbing him,I won't again. I won't call or text him again. I'm a very busy person self so that time I use in calling him,I will invest it in something better. I won't end the relationship neither will I disturb him again

vuc1:
We hardly fight or argue. She's too respectful, loyal and humble. She loves me too much and it scares me whether that is normal. A typical naija babe is opposite of what she is. I feel it's all a scam.

LosVikingos:
I'm a proud single though, hustling for a better future...

Even though I don't care been single for life sha

So if I can ever find a girl that can show me why relationship is better than being single, I will definitely not let her go.

A woman that will be my mind from another body,

That will understand me do and be truthful to me.

But I doubt if I will ever find a woman that will perfect me cause what I hate most in a relationship is lie.

And people today are barely truthful (both genders)

I'm just like an old era being living in a modern life.

I find it very hard to forgive liers because I won't lie.

I am an advocate of peace and freedom.

Anything wahala I don't want it

Ellabae:
Not in a relationship currently because I feel the guys will not understand nd love me the way it should be. . Am also scared of cheating nd I hate sharing.

Drabeey:
she's not so pretty, yet she's all over me. acting all up everytime!

Kelvinbabyface1:
Hello guys,

I travelled out of the country to Boston for a course about a year ago. As a smart guy, i discharged all my Naija female packages and ventured into the 'New world' a free man. However, to cut the long story short, i met a lady of Jamaican descent that i fell in love with. It was love at first sight, and we supposedly bonded. She invited me to her church, introduced him to her family, and even suggested they get married weeks after meeting, supposedly to make us to be together without sin. As a Naija guy in a Trump infected society, i gladly agreed. To me, this was too good to be true, and i felt on top of the world. However, like they say, if its too good to be true, it probably isn't. The first signs that something was wrong was when i realised her mother requested for a ring of high value to give her. The ring i brought was, according to the girls mother, not of quality value, and enquired how i got it.Na so the girl just start to de para for me o.. Back to back nagging... i venture into an expensive ring.And this was the first red flag. Next, girl agreed to still go ahead with the marriage, but started using foul language with me o, which i tried to caution her against using on several occasions. Within this period, the girl got pregnant, and since we were gonna get marriage soon, it didn't matter. However, her behaviour became irritating day by day, always trying to dictate to me o and all. Then it happened one day... We had a big argument and she said she was done. This was a day to our engagement, but she said we were gonna end the relationship. After intervention from the mother and grandmother, she changed her mind.

Overtime, the crazy back and forths continued... She's done, pastor and family come between them and she changes her mind. All the while, i had started doubting her mental stability, and was concerned that her unstable nature could just lead to a divorce anytime, which was bad.. Eventually, we had a terrible argument, where she called the corps on me.. thank God I'm legal with my Student visa!!! she promised to make sure i pay for child support even though we are not married. She also promised to make sure she deports me back, and make my life miserable. Mind u, the girl is in the US Navy and studied Law. This argument was the straw that broke the camels back, i just had to end it,especially with later threats of her killing me. Now, I'm concerned about her threats, and the prospect of paying child support till the baby is 18. What do you advise him to do biko?

MichaelBukamzy:
My woman is too shy. Not good at interactions at all.our phone calls always bored with her "yes","no" and haha replies. But she loves me ooo

olugabbie:
I told my babe that i am not against her having male friends(majorly toosters). But that i am against her paying them visit. But she said i am overprotecting her and that she hates it. She even vow never to end her friendship with a particular man. Eventhough i never asked her to. She paid him a visit and i told her to never try it again. Right now its as if she doesn't care if we break up becos of dz issue. Ladies in the house. Please am i overprotecting her? What should i do?

Ellabae:
Not in a relationship currently because I feel the guys will not understand nd love me the way it should be. . Am also scared of cheating nd I hate sharing.

whiteeyes:
The man is a jerk..very insensitive. Doesn't care whether I'm happy or not. I'm actually jetting out of it!!!

vuc1:

I've tried that many times she doesn't complain. I try to pick up quarrel she ends up apologizing. She cares but sometimes she acts like a baby. Any small thing she'll say I hurt her. She tries to please me but I want her to be herself. I feel she's not showing me her true self.

BandAid:



Must everyone get married? Nigerians and their conventional lifestyles. This is 21st century.

gen2lpat:


You are just being a sissy. Man up dude. Make your stand. If she can freely visit a man when you don't approve of it then maybe there are several others you don't know.

Cupie22:

Funny Indeed

But why did u date when she is not up to the beauty you wanted
laughs in spanish

BossLaifay:
Everything. Lol

aaronson:
Do not lose that girl bro. She is the one. she acting like a baby because she feels vulnerable for you and you only.

Congratulations, You have found her.

JohnVianney:


I've finally seen someone that reasons exactly like me.....no homo abeg.
You just brought out what's been in my head and laid it out perfectly for all to understand.
I throwey cap for you.

Aremu01:
My baby also isn't so good at talking.... And me that I make effort to make conversations, she says I talk too much. She's an introvert.... So I understand....

samso247:
My Gf nags a lot. She has temper issues, the last time she caught me cheating, she smashed my phone and the next week she bought a new one. Calling all my friends to come and plead with me to accept her back . I dont know if this is Love or Obsession. Cos she said if she doesn't have me, she will kil herself and her blood will be on my hands. I love her sha, but just hate her anger management

Psoul:


Then send her packing to avoid heartbreak.
A man u share the same predicament just filled for divorce in Zimbabwe.