Its over 3months we broke up, and all of a sudden, she came out of the dark and claimed that she's pregnant for me.

I'm finding it hard to believe and at the same time, I'm so confused. She was the same girl who is always conscious about getting pregnant, and not willing to ruin her future with it.

What should i do? . A DNA test is the only solution here, but that would be after 9months. Should i provide for her till she puts to bed?.

Lalasticlala

Did you use protection ?

Lalas247:
Did you use protection ?

Yes i did. But maybe , we might have done it sometimes raw, can't possibly remember if we did.

OfficialDad:


Yes i did. But maybe , we might have done it sometimes raw, can't possibly remember if we did.

Well so there you have it ... most ladies don’t find out till roughly about 3months ...
so how many children do u have now

The use of condom x d beginning of wisdom....

OfficialDad:
Its over 3months we broke up, and all of a sudden, she came out of the dark and claimed that she's pregnant for me.

I'm finding it hard to believe and at the same time, I'm so confused. She was the same girl who is always conscious about getting pregnant, and not willing to ruin her future with it.

What should i do? . A DNA test is the only solution here, but that would be after 9months. Should i provide for her till she puts to bed?.

There's nothing to do, just be ready to marry her and accept ur kid... If it's yours though

Lalas247:


Well so there you have it ... most ladies don’t find out till roughly about 3months ...
so how many children do u have now

She can't possibly be pregnant for me. Before we broke up, her test reads negative.

About 3kids so far, and I'm taking care of them all including their mum.

Lol, happened to a friend of my, but it turns out the girl just wanted to extort money from the guy after they broke up.
My guy drop like 50k only to find out the girl wasn't pregnant.

OfficialDad:


She can't possibly be pregnant for me. Before we broke up, her test reads negative.

About 3kids so far, and I'm taking care of them all including their mum.

Sometimes it will show negative .... it does happen .. but she should know if she checks the date of her last period vs last sex with you..


3 kids u try sha as long as they are well looked after .. ride on

harbjar:

There's nothing to do, just be ready to marry her and accept ur kid... If it's your though

Brow, that baby is not mine. Before we broke up, she did a test, and it was negative.

Headlesschicken:
The use of condom x d beginning of wisdom....

Some guys say they are allergic to it (latex)

Lalas247:

Sometimes it will show negative .... it does happen .. but she should know if she checks the date of her last period vs last sex with you..


3 kids u try sha as long as they are well looked after .. ride on

After our last sex, she did a test and it was negative. So, how can she possibly be pregnant for me?.

Yeah, they're all fine.

charliboy654:
Lol, happened to a friend of my, but it turns out the girl just wanted to extort money from the guy after they broke up.
My guy drop like 50k only to find out the girl wasn't pregnant.

Exactly. She's trying to pull this scam on me. Her demands lately is exposing her.

OfficialDad:


After our last sex, she did a test and it was negative. So, how can she possibly be pregnant for me?.

Yeah, they're all fine.

Can take up to 6 weeks before it’s starts .. so if you did a test straight away then It defo won’t show up positive
Anyway how much is DNA ... just get it done if you are convinced it’s not yours ..

Lalas247:

Can take up to 6 weeks before it’s starts .. so if you did a test straight away then It defo won’t show up positive
Anyway how much is DNA ... just get it done if you are convinced it’s not yours ..

But she might have done it with someone else since we broke up. Because I'm not convinced a little bit with her story. Like someone suggested above, she might be trying to scam me.

OfficialDad:


But she might have done it with someone else since we broke up. Because I'm not convinced a little bit with her story. Like someone suggested above, she might be trying to scam me.

Nothing can be disqualified at the moment so adopt a wait and see approach.

Also, offer her some good sum for abortion, if she accepts, she just wanted money from you, if she doesn't tell her you will do a DNA test when she gives birth, if na lie she dey lie, she will have a 'miscarriage' along the way.

But prepare your mind just in case, the possibility of this being real is there.

Seriously, three kids from three baby mama's.? Those are illegitimate children.As your Monika, so expect more.

megareal:
Nothing can be disqualified at the moment so adopt a wait and see approach.

Also, offer her some good sum for abortion, if she accepts, she just wanted money from you, if she doesn't tell her you will do a DNA test when she gives birth, if na lie she dey lie, she will have a 'miscarriage' along the way.

But prepare your mind just in case, the possibility of this being real is there.

She actually suggested abortion. She's the type that is practically against pregnancy standing as an obstacle to her future career and goals. I was surprised to hear this from her.

So i agreed to pay her for abortion, and go with her, then she refused abortion. We discussed about DNA test, and she was so strong on the fact that the pregnancy belongs to me.

tee59:
Seriously, three kids from three baby mama's.? Those are illegitimate children.As your Monika, so expect more.

No, they're not illegitimate. They're well feed, look after and protected more than the legitimate one's. Their mum are under proper welfare plan.

After three months, she came back that she is pregnant, e be like say that girl tear eyes pass u, tell her to go to hell with her bastard child, how is it possible after three months

OfficialDad:


She actually suggested abortion. She's the type that is practically against pregnancy standing as an obstacle to her future career and goals. I was surprised to hear this from her.

So i agreed to pay her for abortion, and go with her, then she refused abortion. We discussed about DNA test, and she was so strong on the fact that the pregnancy belongs to me.

@the bolded, you goofed. There is no way she will let you accompany her for a fake abortion.

It doesn't matter her assertions, only a DNA test can offer proof.

Re offer more money for abortion (minus you accompanying) and see if she will take it.

Hector09:
After three months, she came back that she is pregnant, e be like say that girl tear eyes pass u, tell her to go to hell with her bastard child, how is it possible after three months

Exactly what i was thinking. After three months, she claimed to be pregnant for me. How is that possible?.

Hahahha...

OfficialDad:


No, they're not illegitimate. They're well feed, look after and protected more than the legitimate one's. Their mum are under proper welfare plan.

Official babymamas and official babydaddy...Tuale

megareal:

@the bolded, you goofed. There is no way she will let you accompany her for a fake abortion.

It doesn't matter her assertions, only a DNA test can offer proof.

Re offer more money for abortion (minus you accompanying) and see if she will take it.

@bolded , I admit that i goofed and fvcked up. But since she's scared of the fact that i wanted to go with her for the abortion, then she's not pregnant for me. Don't you think so?

austyn0:
Official babymamas and official babydaddy...Tuale

Brow. I greet. What's your contribution to the issue at hand.

Cutehector:
Hahahha...

contribute to the matter brow.

OfficialDad:


contribute to the matter brow.

lol.. Why I go contribute.. Babe wey just Bleep yesterday...

OfficialDad:


Exactly what i was thinking. After three months, she claimed to be pregnant for me. How is that possible?.

so whats ur plan

Cutehector:
lol.. Why I go contribute.. Babe wey just Bleep yesterday...

Lol. No mind her. She don see maga. 3months after breakup, she's now Mary, and got preggy by holy spirit.

Hector09:
so whats ur plan

Brow, I'm out of plan. Do you have any?. I suggested abortion for her, she agreed, so i said i was going with her, then she refused the abortion idea totally.