sarahade:


Don't you study a girl before approaching her or you see her on the street next thing you are in love.

The problem is not from ladies alone most men spend money just yo entice and trick girls into sleeping with them. Spending money doesn't give you the right to have sex she didn't force or put a knife to your head

Okay then! When next you're waiting to board a public transport to the other side of town but have a tinted glass-private vehicle with two rough looking men inside willing to offer you a lift, quickly get on board-you hear. Honestly stop this self-centered smart game. If it looks too good to be true, then there has to be a motive behind such gesture.

pocohantas:


I think braintasking is subjective. I haven't been able to learn scrabble, no matter how hard I try

Then, till the close of ur casket, u wouldn't learn how to playing chess. Meaning ur brain is so weak.

Thegamingorca:



Me too. I understand that words have to be formed and all that but it's the rules that are binding that I never get

We are together jare. Take a seat by my side

this is a very outlandish advice.

are you trying to tell me that sex will always happen whenever a biatch comes visiting?

sarahade:
Mtcheew .
If a girl pays her friend a visit must they have sex or must sex be the only reason a lady visits a man. This lady is sick.

Blind argument. D problem I have wt some of yhu is, yhu keep fighting d truth.

Yes, nt all guys will do dat but as a girl to avoid story dat touches avoiding visit to a guy's house alone is wisest thing to do.

Why must it be his house whr d possibility of bin in room alone wth him?

I think u girls ar really d cause of ur own problems at times.

I read here one time whr a lady accused a guy of rape after sleeping over in d guy's house in d name of usin free wifi.

Yhu see fire n yhu keep goin into it bt wil cry out whn u get burnt...total foolishness.


I am a guy and I am saying dis nt bcus I can do such. I only knw myself I don't knw others bt we all have read plenty of such stories here.


Why his house? why not other places if u too have no hidden agenda.

Akpacha:
Then, till the close of ur casket, u wouldn't learn how to playing chess. Meaning ur brain is so weak.

LOL, I play chess. Not tiki-taka kinda chess...
But I haven't been able to play scrabble, maybe I haven't put in interest. Maybe my brain is actually so weak. I don't care biko

She has a point to some extent though jst her own opinion and mind-set besides no be only sex must carry girl go boi house now not all guyz tink backward...boiz na dey reason how dem wan take hammmer nor b Bleep go bring money nah

Not true. My girlfriend came to.my house for over 8 months and we never had sex until we were seriously involved.

ajog1:
Okay then! When next you're waiting to board a public transport to the other side of town but have a tinted glass-private vehicle with two rough looking men inside willing to offer you a lift, quickly get on board-you hear. Honestly stop this self-centered smart game. If it looks too good to be true, then there has to be a motive behind such gesture.

What are you saying

mimimile93:
My own problem is not about going to their houses it's about collecting gifts.

Ladies if you know you won't let them fvck please don't collect any thing from them..

Rape apologist spotted.

Potential rapist, maybe

Same way all the 9
80+ people who liked your posts and the 7 who shared it are all rape apologists, maybe even rapists as well. Potential or actual.




Anyone who supports this lady is nothing but a rape apologist, may also be a potential rapist or an actual rapists.


The lady is a rape apologist and victim blamer herself.

Judging from act and motives of our ladies outside now, no feelings and if there is nothing to tag feelings the ladies never developed thoughts of visiting. If u r visiting as a Lady, I believed something triggered the visitation. Lust for the guy indirectly and trying to hide in the open pretending not to have feelings . at times most of you try scare away the guy by trying to make demand for certain amount. If the guy isn't someone who will say know to ur request or demand and can't afford to let go considering his investment so far.

The problems lies with our ladies demonstrating ghost love while trying to swindle the little cash the guy possess because u want to prove smartness that u didn't acquire. Am sorry ...our ladies should help matters too.

sarahade:


What if she's taking her time to study you. Even if you guys have started dating must sex happen on first visit what if she's a virgin and doesn't want sex till marriage

Hhahaah. And it's only by going to his house alone u can study him abi?

So, yhu keep going to every guy's house dat asks u out to study them. Smh.

Continue abeg, yhu wil soon graduate from house study.

Saff:
but then they later cry that it’s the only thing a woman can offer on earth. The real question is what do you value? What do you chase more than anything on this earth? What do you truly want? If I come to your house, what is on your mind from the minute I walk in? If I offer everything else apart from this one thing, will you be content or still complain like a lost parrot?

Well I guess it’s typical innit

I once agreed to these terms with my ex and she was shocked bt I keep my words. She later got her self tipsy and started looking for wat wasn't missing later she told me she did it to know if i was really ok There. I told her she shudnt get it twisted ima beast

So a girl cannot visit me in peace again abi. Hmmm this is serious

faseblex:
In a post shared on Twitter, @lapebelle advised ladies not to visit the opposite sex at their houses if they don't want to have sex in order to avoid sexual harassment. Really?




More @:https://trendinghelm..com/2018/07/dont-go-to-their-house-if-you-dont-want.html

Not all guys madam. Not all guys but the truth is that, the advice would have saved a lot of stories that touch the heart. Most ladies actually go visit with a 50/50 mindset. So sisters, to be on a safe side, meet outside.

WALLAHI NO SENSE AMONG NIGERIA GIRLS AND LADIES

Common sense. A lot of them don't have self control so the best thing is to not even put yourself in that kind of situation.

Daeylar:



Rape apologist spotted.

Potential rapist, maybe

Same way all the 9
80+ people who liked your posts and the 7 who shared it are all rape apologists, maybe even rapists as well. Potential or actual.




Anyone who supports this lady is nothing but a rape apologist, may also be a potential rapist or an actual rapists.


The lady is a rape apologist and victim blamer herself.

If you buy her phone,

Pay her bills,

Got her gifts

And she still doesn't let you fvck.

Then rape is legal..

Ishilove:
Common sense. A lot of them don't have self control so the best thing is to not to even put yourself in that kind of situation.

Someone canno come around for Netflix without chill again?

She has a point though.

Ojuri20:


You've a silly mentality of woman and relationship. With your posts so far it's very obvious you've nothing to offer in a relationship except money, you're not bedmatic, ambitious, intelligent and you were never and will never be a good companion and you've refuse to adjust that mentality of yours tgat it is not all girls (African) that can be bought with money. Please and please admit the fact that you've problems and work on yourself.

African ladies are very cheap (the ones born from the 80s). You can even buy them upfront.

sexdoll:
this is a very outlandish advice.

are you trying to tell me that sex will always happen whenever a biatch comes visiting?

Not ALWAYS. I believe the tweet is directed at girls that for instance meet someone new where after a few dates (of wining and dining) are invited over and are eager to oblige.

oyb:


Someone canno come around for Netflix without chill again?

Ideally yes, but it would be better to not to put yourself at the mercy of a _horny man. Rape now, apologise later. It's the devil's handiwork.

faseblex:
In a post shared on Twitter, @lapebelle advised ladies not to visit the opposite sex at their houses if they don't want to have sex in order to avoid sexual harassment. Really?




More @:https://trendinghelm..com/2018/07/dont-go-to-their-house-if-you-dont-want.html

is not every one that is a sex maniac..some of these ladies feels pussy solves all problems. Tell those ladies going to Shiloh every year dem no get pussy? Them get..
Even money can't solve every problem.. if I invite you to my house I will definitely let you know the motives so that we have a mutual agreement.. me I don't hide my feelings.... Ladies should stop thinking the world revolves around noonish,ass n pussy.. no is not if it was so women will be ruling the world completely

yea, really, i second.

My advice to all ladies,there's no free lunch in this world.. if there's the percentage is around 1%.. the moment a guy start spending monies on you n u accept just know that at one point u will have to give pussy,if you are not ready just reject every lovely gesture he will be giving.. After all he is not your father.. I give sane advice to my sisters too..

Ishilove:

Ideally yes, but it would be better to not to put yourself at the mercy of a _horny man. Rape now, apologise later. It's the devil's handiwork.

True story!!

Saff:
but then they later cry that it’s the only thing a woman can offer on earth. The real question is what do you value? What do you chase more than anything on this earth? What do you truly want? If I come to your house, what is on your mind from the minute I walk in? If I offer everything else apart from this one thing, will you be content or still complain like a lost parrot?

Well I guess it’s typical innit

what exactly do you mean, "If I offer everything else apart from this one thing"
lemme tell you what is typical ,,when a gurl want to visit a man ,she goes like am going to meet my daddy ,because naija guy will make sure dstv sub is on,gen onstandby,,cupcake in da fridge or food is available ... bascially men provides absolute comfort ,so what other everything can a lady provide, asides aex
Even TF them go still collect,, we are daddies not boyfriends

she dey talk from many experience.

Why won't he when you are hot?

XhosaNostra:
Lol, sometimes you don't even have to be at their house, just be close enough, like next door!

One guy I was seated next to at a house party went absolutely bonkers on me. He was a neighbour of the family hosting the party. My crime? I talked to him! Somehow, in his mind, that made us a couple.
Anyway, long story short, a commotion broke out because we were leaving. At one point he was half-dragging me & half-carrying me to the house next door, his lair. They literally had to peel him off me.
Some guys are too unpredictable, don't even talk to them long enough to create the impression of interest in their minds. They will sweep you off your feet, literally.

Ishilove:

Ideally yes, but it would be better to not to put yourself at the mercy of a _horny man. Rape now, apologise later. It's the devil's handiwork.

I am just trolling. Home call na booty call. Esp since naija chicks are the mistresses of bizarre mating dances(why are you touching me, stop it)(later - the guy na Mumu without action)