depends on mutual love, if its there, then why not,

Very True

nah i got a posh girl friend and she does everything for me,i don't need 2 spend on her coz she's fcking full loaded with dough

Mr Black:Hello Nairalander's,I am about to take a decision and would really appreciate your candid opinions on this Issue. I am a young man who happens to be a student, but work during the holidays. I have a girlfriend based in the US whom i have been dating for 5 years. She has only resided in the US for 1 1/2 years and intends to come visit but cannot afford to buy her air fare ticket.I was able to save some money from my last vacation job and if i have to get her air ticket, then i will be left with only 25% of my savings which will still be spent upon her arrival and stay with me. I am not too comfortable with the long period we have stayed apart and believe this is an opportunity for us to define our relationship. I do intend to ENGAGE her when she arrives and then plan for marriage towards the end of next year when i must have graduated from school.Now the Question is, if you were in my shoes, would you spend almost all of your savings for your girlfriend? And if you must know i really care about her and love her a lot. Keep your honest comments coming.

Guy go for it! Your gf is worth every penny and more. I did the same, and guess what. I am happily married today. Don't say I didn't tell ya!

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Mr Black:Hello Nairalander's,I am about to take a decision and would really appreciate your candid opinions on this Issue. I am a young man who happens to be a student, but work during the holidays. I have a girlfriend based in the US whom i have been dating for 5 years. She has only resided in the US for 1 1/2 years and intends to come visit but cannot afford to buy her air fare ticket.I was able to save some money from my last vacation job and if i have to get her air ticket, then i will be left with only 25% of my savings which will still be spent upon her arrival and stay with me. I am not too comfortable with the long period we have stayed apart and believe this is an opportunity for us to define our relationship. I do intend to ENGAGE her when she arrives and then plan for marriage towards the end of next year when i must have graduated from school.Now the Question is, if you were in my shoes, would you spend almost all of your savings for your girlfriend? And if you must know i really care about her and love her a lot. Keep your honest comments coming.

Guy go for it! Your gf is worth every penny and more. I did the same, and guess what. I am happily married today. Don't say I didn't tell ya!

Quite alot of different opinions. Thanks to all Nairalander's for your different comments. Its good to know that we all have different views on this issue.

Na she I de work for?

Money can not buy you happiness, Just a financial peace but i seems to convince by your post, Your girlfriend seems to be your happiness why not offer her a chance, If you want your dreams to come true do not oversleep. No dreams comes true until you wake and go to work. Don't ask the NL there Opinion. Use your 6

Though its' the responsibility of a man to take care of the woman but if they really love each other the woman should also share her part, give and take should be the case