what is open relationship? beats me,

How can you say you love each other when you're both fine with knowing the other is sleeping with other people. There's no love in that!Open relationship my foot!!
Although I do applaud your openness and honesty with each other cos other people would just start an affair instead of being upfront but puh-leese, open relationship is not the way to go, You just need to inject some excitement into the relationship.

what if she goes out of the open door and never returns? think about it if indeed you truely love her.you never can tell the outcome of your actions until its too late.by the way whose idea it was to get in to this?

i dont understand this open relationship matta

for me i think both of u r just smthing out of his earth, is beta u guys depart and com to reality uuuh?

@bawolomo and viladiva. i think both of u are crazy. for u to support that stupid act, their must be something wrong with u.bcs will smith did it, monique too did it, that made it a good idea. you are all mad.

One person will over-do and there goes your relationship out the window. Well its not a bad idea. You may consider polygamy too

Go ahead with the open relationship, we life once and beside one toto dey kill the jomo.

u both r not sane, u urself no get pride as a typical 9ja dude 2 dey post dis topic, i'm sure u'll do same when u get married, giving ur wife free ticket to bang around, RUBBISH!!!

olax44:

@bawolomo and viladiva. i think both of u are crazy. for u to support that silly act, their must be something wrong with u.bcs will smith did it, monique too did it, that made it a good idea. you are all mad.

were your forefathers mad when they practiced polygamy?   

monogamy isn't the only marital system that can exist dummy.

phizman:

u both r not sane, u urself no get pride as a typical 9ja dude 2 dey post dis topic, i'm sure u'll do same when u get married, giving your wife free ticket to bang around, RUBBISH!!!

who knows he could be into the wife swapping thing.

I'm not sure if I could do the whole open relationship thing. Technically human beings weren't meant to be with one individual for long periods of time. It unnatural as a human being to even be with someone for so long, we were designed like that [genetically speaking]. The whole idea of being with someone forever is a man made idea. We've [human beings] instilled in ourselves this idea of being together forever. Anyway to the OP, if it works for you guys then go for it. To each his own.

what is the meaning of open relatioship if i where ur g/f i will just tell u to walk out of my life cos is an indirect way of saying u are breaking off, anyway go ahead with ur opn relationship and produce alot of AIDS, wish u well in ur search for AIDS

trash,

[size=15pt]poster
is it not better dat u guys go ur seperate ways instead of engaging in d silly open shit.[/size]

bawomolo------just ignore the morons---incapable of thinking for them selves---dont u know that most people on this forum know little more than what their parents and pastors have told them

I'm not sure if I got the message fully. But, from the little I got, I think this is rather absurd.

she is ur oxygen, very soon she will be ur Carbondioxide

You know what, everything must come to an end, therefore its ok you can end this relationship nothing wrong with that

Dude, while I'm not judging you or anything like that,i just want to let you know that it's quite normal to be in a long term relationship and feel the urge to sleep with someone else.You're only human, what wouldn't be human however is what you are suggesting.You should be extremely wary of someone who would suggest that you have an ''open'' relationship in the name of trying to salvage a relationship, if i were your girlfriend,and you told me you had the urge to sleep with other women,I'd break up with you if we both couldn't find common ground and let you go shag out your life, an open relationsip is an excuse to be selfish, an 'éat your cake and have it all attitude, it's a pathetic excuse to on the part of both parties involved to avoid being fully committed to one person.I can bet you that if you go into this,your relationship with her won't last long.If you can't stick to your woman after five years in a relationship and want to go tasting other honey combs now,what makes you think you will be able to stick with her during marriage wwhatare you going to do? have an open marriage Is that what you want your kids to learn? Life isn't all about you and what you need you know, it's also about doing the right thing, so dude? do the right thing and stop being selfish, both of you!

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vivaladiva:

bawomolo------just ignore the morons---incapable of thinking for them selves---dont u know that most people on this forum know little more than what their parents and pastors have told them

thank you.

I don't know where all these AIDS and selfish talk came from

Take this. It's from Steve Harveys book:Act like a lady think like a man.

"If a man goes along with an “open relationship” or
he offers it, he’s doing so because you are not in his longterm
plans. He does not see a future with you. Both of
you can stop all this “We wanted some spice in the relationship”
talk. When a man loves you, he’s not trying to
share you with anybody—period. When you find that
guy who’s willing, I will show you the guy who’s not in
love with you. We’re just not cut out that way".

Based on the above i won't have an open relationship

Are retarded What is wrong with you, if both of you want to galavant like dat why don't you just break up, WTH? You always practive "safe sex" abeg go and sit down somewhere my friend!!!!mscheeewwwwwww! What is this world turning into? There's absolutely no love in your relationship stop fooling yourselves, its LUST!

Open relationship! Where do you guys get all these nonsense from? To say this means you guys are no more in love and you keep contradicting yourself. Im sure if you had been married you would have come up with open marriage.

This is just the beginning, the next thing you will be chasiing men and you gf will b chasing women. Then u guys will finally end up changing your sexes.

Cut it off

Love ur honesty but fink ur relationship is just based on s3x!
U could pick anoda hubby or kiss each other goodbye cos thats what this open thingy is gon lead to.
Or simply stop seeing each other for a while.
All the best newayz.

I suggestd it. . . indirectly! he took to ma suggestion. . .buh argh! 1 8 2 f!nk offit! uhmnn!

Itz totally Absurd,

@ poster, pls do what you want to do, abeg: very good idea; indeed.

@poster
open gbukwee nu onwe unu there.

@topic. Whilst someone who cheats on his/her partner may still love him/her, I don't believe there's any class of love between people who have no problem with an open relationship. They might get along great and all but it stops short of true love. Considering it now is fine since there is mutual agreement but if I know anything, this will be the beginning of the end.