Toks2008:
Lalasticlala i guess this makes sense.

LaCruzz:
lol @dump him, as if the guy na trash, you think it's easy to let go of someone you deeply love?Okay about the premarital sex, you're right, but dumping a guy because he refused to say anything about marriage doesn't make sense to me sha, what if he's trying to know you more?you think it's easy to plan the future with someone you hardly know, even people that has been dating over 3yrs are not planning to get married talkless of 1yr,a lady must be patient with her man instead of rushing him, apart from trying to know her better... What if the guy is not financially stable, even mentally too, you think marriage would be the first thing on his mind, na marriage go put food on his table?Marriage is not for kids, it's for people who are ready in every aspect,, So dumping a guy does not make any sense to me, patience is golden

kimbraa:
Wrong advice if you ask me.

Do you think it's so easy to dump someone after a year? So after they've tested the water for a year, they should move on to another one and the circle will continue 'till they get the right one?

LaCruzz:
lol @dump him, as if the guy na trash, you think it's easy to let go of someone you deeply love?Okay about the premarital sex, you're right, but dumping a guy because he refused to say anything about marriage doesn't make sense to me sha, what if he's trying to know you more?you think it's easy to plan the future with someone you hardly know, even people that has been dating over 3yrs are not planning to get married talkless of 1yr,a lady must be patient with her man instead of rushing him, apart from trying to know her better... What if the guy is not financially stable, even mentally too, you think marriage would be the first thing on his mind, na marriage go put food on his table?Marriage is not for kids, it's for people who are ready in every aspect,, So dumping a guy does not make any sense to me, patience is golden

Toks2008:


Which water are you testing? This indomie generation wont kee me with laughter. Biko explain..

I know this advise will not make sense to some ladies who just want to fool themselves playing their lives away with randy guys in the name of dating. The advise will make sense to ladies who understands the idea of sexual decency,it will also make sense to some virgins but not to some group of ladies who are deep into sexual recklessness.

trust me sis,its easy to dump a guy who have not had s.x with you but will be extremely difficult to leave a guy who have had his way with you countless times so i understand you.

dingbang:
Some ladies dont give a Bleep about the sex too...

kimbraa:
You failed to realise that in a bid to sound morally upright, you ended up entangling yourself in the web of immorality you were kicking against. Will dumping men after a year get them married? Is it easy to go from one man to the other in a no sex relationship? Try to be realistic. How do you do no-sex, claim to love the man and in no time, you're dumping him for another?

Someone gave me this your advice when I broke up with my ex; my bf came around, been 2yrs now, he's a good guy, supports my dream, inspires me, but I know we're not ready for marriage. Save the morality message, I'll gladly give him myself and wait than any other man that comes for marriage. Should I now dump him because Toks thinks I'm wasting my time? Heck no! I'm happy where I am.

izzou:


I pity the single lady that will take your advice

She'll end up dating 7 guys in 7 years without anything to show for it.

Let people define their relationships. The important thing is to live happily ever after. That's what matters most

Toks2008:


I dont expect guys to like this advise anyways so o understand you.

How can you advise a lady to dump a guy after a year, simply because he isn't talking about marriage?

What do you guys think marriage is? A shopping mall where you can just pick items and drop at will?

There are people who have done introductions and still broke up. There are people who their boyfriends have proposed to, and six years down the line, oga never still marry am

I'm not dragging your advice with you oh. But I feel so sorry for any single lady that will take it

Ten years from today, she'll find out she has dated 15 men and she's still single

Let everyone define their relationships. I might be convinced that she's my wife in six months, and you might be convinced she's your wife after two years

Marriage no be competition

Toks2008:


I think you are trying to make yourself happy here. Do what you like sis..after all it is your life.

My advise is for ladies who have not crossed the line. If i have a daughter today who is growing up into a woman this is the advise i will give her.

So once again i understand where you are coming from..you cant just break away from a guy who have had you over and over again..

kimbraa:
You'll be surprised that for 1yr into this relationship, we didn't have canal knowledge of ourselves. Sex wasn't involved. You don't understand shìt! And I'm happy.

ikhileomotayo:
This yeye op just wants our ladies to keep increasing in bodycounts with this his 1 year dumping rubbish

Toks2008:


Are you sure you know the meaning of body count?

ikhileomotayo:


No I don't

Toks2008:


Good to know you admit.

Body count is the number of men a lady has slept with so on the contrary, my advise will reduce the number of body counts of a lady to the barest minimum.