kandi006:


Those were my stupid naive old days dear, ain't doing that shit for any man anymore.. let's all be having sense together now

Toks2008:
I guess this makes sense.

NoToPile:
Lool, I cant believe I agree with toks2008

What works and will still be the best is the old school method, thats part of what toks is saying. Not a popular opinion and 90percent wont even agree with you

Someone will come and squeeze 3 years out of the life of a lady.

I even wonder if some people see dating as a hobby or something.

pocohantas:


Lmao, Always remember... "A man knows who he wants and when he wants her".

Shugavee:
rather people who agree with this,, don’t know the efforts put in growing a loving relationship thinking it’s easy to let it go just like that, do u think it’s easy getting a lady or man who gets you, n loves you. U all should stop encouraging women to date to marry!! That’s what put a lot of women in problems they r now.

Shugavee:
n why do u think relationships r only about sex? R u a baby?

mhizbel:

I am not too rigid neither am I boring. It's just that I have my own principles... yes, I can compromise a little bit but no, I can't compromise.

Toks2008:


Lefu it's been a while..
How u dey?

lefulefu:

toks toks
longest time
still creating ur controversal threads wey dey piss off babes
merry christmas in advance

Fourwinds:
so your purpose of dating is not to marry? Kai...I can see why many of you are getting this dating wrong.. Let me tell you, for everything I intend doing, there must be a reason.... While in there and there is no success or achievement, na to close shop be that.... I date because of marriage... Else I make I deal fucck for money .. Meaning relationship defined

ArmedRobber:
so you mean happiness ,companionship and love is limited to opposite sex . dating is no big deal if you re not ready for marriage .you can get happiness ,companionship love without dating a guy. marriage is not by force the point is dont commit yourself to relationship with a guy that does include you in his future plans.

ArmedRobber:
so what is the essence of growing a relationship with opposite sex without no seriousness abt settling down.
if you dont date to marry what is the reason for dating in the first place.

Shugavee:
we all want to be married to our spouse but for the right reasons not cause we wanna marry..

Fourwinds:
Okokobiokor....are you confusing me...you want to get married to your partner but you don't want to marry Kai....another Okokobiokor

Shugavee:
and u think every guy will conclude just in a year. Yeah maybe u would but not every guy. Everybody n their timing.... and yes there is a kinda love only the opposite sex can give to you, except ofcourse u r gay .

Toks2008:


Which water are you testing? This indomie generation wont kee me with laughter. Biko explain..

If a lady falls in love with a man and the guy is ready to start sleeping with you then he should as well be ready to marry you as long as he has a roof over his head and struggling and the girls parent should encourage both parties to do a wedding they are capable of and whenever the money comes they can do a bigger and more expensive wedding.

I know this advise will not make sense to some ladies who just want to fool themselves playing their lives away with randy guys in the name of dating. The advise will make sense to ladies who understand the idea of sexual decency,it will also make sense to some virgins but not to some group of ladies who are deep into sexual recklessness.

trust me sis,its easy to dump a guy who have not had s.x with you but will be extremely difficult to leave a guy who have had his way with you countless times so i understand you.

lefulefu:

ok i get u .u might lower ur rules for the guy u love and whose really worth it

Hisduchess:
may God bless you @op.till tomorrow I still prefer the old method of our parents or will I say dating within a short period and getting married. dating for long periods is simply a waste of time and emotions. you see why there are plenty of infidelity in marriage, its because by the time a lady gets married she has tasted all manner of d**ks and the man has tasted all manner of puna.the effect is often on the woman cos she will often end up comparing the di*k of her husband to the different men she had slept with,if the man no measure up like tunde,ekene or Ibrahim,she will start going out to go chop from dem exes. @op I support ur yarn,plenty people no go like am but I support u 100%

mhizbel:

My dear you get strength o... I make sure I define my relationship from the very beginning. Oga I wee not cook for sombori who is not my husband, I wee not wash or clean anything. The least I can do is to give him some assistance while he's at it.
In fact, I wee not even go visit him at his place till the relationship is very defined and preparations are already kicking off.

Mariangeles:
Stop acting like you know me !

You know absolute NOTHING about me !

Elder0001:

Elder0001:


Your words show you're really desperate to get married.

Being desperate reduces your dignity and self respect.


Just an advice

AnonymousBee:

Hshahahahaha. A gigolo is talking about dignity and self respect.
When people are talking about relationships, stay aside please.

1234IKECHhukwu:
Since u have refused to do all this re u then married,useless & wapt mentality.

mhizbel:

Thank you sir, but marriage is not yet in my agenda.

Shugavee:
and u think every guy will conclude just in a year. Yeah maybe u would but not every guy. Everybody n their timing.... and yes there is a kinda love only the opposite sex can give to you, except ofcourse u r gay .

Valerie47:

majekdom2:
another lady who has got a brain. Many relationships have gone bad, many have ended up in the hands of monsters because they want to marry. Imagine a girl loosing faith in her relationship because her friends are getting married, she couldn’t respect her man because she can see her friends doing honeymoon in Dubai. The sad part is it wasn’t like she had the resources to contribute . It’s a Nigerian thing anyways.

kandi006:


This your story sounds one sided sir, I don’t think any lady in her right frame of mind will suddenly start disrespecting her “man” because her friends were getting married and having their honey moon in Dubai as you said, she must have seen a level of unseriousness in the man and wanted to know where the relationship was leading to after so many years.. again, it still about intentions.. it’s only time wasters like you perhaps that are literally angered by this particular post

Hisduchess:
may God bless you @op.till tomorrow I still prefer the old method of our parents or will I say dating within a short period and getting married. dating for long periods is simply a waste of time and emotions. you see why there are plenty of infidelity in marriage, its because by the time a lady gets married she has tasted all manner of d**ks and the man has tasted all manner of puna.the effect is often on the woman cos she will often end up comparing the di*k of her husband to the different men she had slept with,if the man no measure up like tunde,ekene or Ibrahim,she will start going out to go chop from dem exes. @op I support ur yarn,plenty people no go like am but I support u 100%