@Yoba
i'm very available. once you get to know me better and i start touching you rightly at the right spots, you're bound to submit. but just because i respect you as a woman, i won't try any "hanky-panky" stuff until after 4 dates.

;d

Hello baby,we have some good contributions in there and some bad once.thanks for those nice once.
Anyway baby let me ask you this quetions

1. Are you sure this guy loves you and you are not the one that is forcing yourself on him b/c love must not be in one way but in two ways.
even if the guy hear anything about and if the love is there he need to ask you first as a man.

2. What do you think is the source of this problem.

3. Are you sure it is not b/c of his travelling?

4. what is the step you have taking after he introduce you as a cousin?

Anyway from my own point of view,please i have been in your shoe b/4 i know what it takes even as a man,ok
please try and be yourself and let him go on his way while you try and put off your mind off him and let life continue.

b/c if he dies you will continue your life but God forbid.

Hello baby,we have some good contributions in there and some bad once.thanks for those nice once.
Anyway baby let me ask you these questions

 1. Are you sure this guy loves you and you are not the one that is forcing yourself on him b/c love must not be in one way but in two ways.
even if the guy hear anything about and if the love is there he need to ask you first as a man.
 
 2. What do you think is the source of this problem.
 
 3. Are you sure it is not b/c of his travelling?

 4. what is the step you have taking after he introduce you as a cousin?  

 Anyway from my own point of view,please i have been in your shoe b/4 i know what it takes even as a man,ok
please try and be yourself and let him go on his way while you try and put off your mind off him and let life continue.

b/c if he dies  you will continue your life but God forbid.

@ Yinkfad

Interesting

as hard as i try to believe your stotry, something keeps telling me there is still something behind it that you are not letting out.

that means he had another girlfriend b4 he met u,thats why he cant tell people ur his shurrie

Baby gurl,i think you need to move ahead in life,that guy is just one of those dumb ass guys out there,he feels nothing for you,its so difficult i know but in the first instance you ought to have known that he is not a reliable guy since he started introducing you as a cousin.Worst still,he is out of the country,its so difficult to keep long distance relationship when you are in good terms not even when you are not.You need to opt out of that relationship or probably sit him down and discuss with him but i dont think that will work at this level.Goodluck.

If he is no longer interested in you forget about him. Afterall, life must surely continue.

CHINUE ACHEBE wrote a book and called it "THE gods are not to blame" YOUR ARE TO BLAME BABY? HOW CAN YOU allow yourself to be introduce as cousin, thats why his friend want to sleep with you, cos thats what he was told. Go on a find someone else to love, cos that guy is gone for good ok. In front of you he was enjoying the company of many women while calling you cousin. My God I can't believe this, are you from the Village?? Any pray to God to give you your real man.

Or are you in love with him till now cos he is out of the country, many men of today are out of the country, some travel out of the country every week, so find someone else ok. I included.

i don't know what the hell you still have to stay with some one who has neva been proud of you.Let alone go down on your kneels.Do you think you're that ugly or feel you'll neva find a more handsome or richer guy.Abeg forget about that thing that calls himself a man.

first of all chic, if that boy friend of yours introduced u as his cousin, he definately had so much tricks up his sleeves, relationships are always about love,but believe me or not, he wa not in love with you, love is about trust,if he believed his cousin who claimed he slept with you,hey! this guy does not trust u, he does not love you, now he is gone so far away,you caused so much by allowing this dude introduce as his cousin, now i advice you to just let him go,LOVE IS LIKE A BIRD THAT NEEDS TO FLY, IF IT BELONGS TO YOU,IT WILL COME FLYING BACK,O.K?.

oh babygirl, am so so sorry about that. But let's be a bit biblical here; "God reveals to redeem".
you should be happy he's shown his true colours earlier, u wld have lived in fools paradise till u die of
this your love.
The damn guy is not worth your precious love. it hurts though but dnt think u cnt love again.
Time really heals you know. Get up, stand firm on your two feets and declare him "HISTORY" "JUST A PAGE IN YOUR LIFE"
Close it and open another fresh page. Dnt jump into another was so soon, have patience and God will give
you a guy that appreciates you, boasts of you, shows off with you and worship you as WOMAN!

Come on girlfriend, FORGET about this guy. he doesn't DESRVE you.

You can still continue

Then what are you still doing with him?, abbegi, NEXT, just start trating him as a cousin 4real,

The guy either doesnt love u, or is plain ashamed that ppl should think he is with u, or maybe he has a holier-than-thou image he is trying to keep, in which case, babygirl u no need stress, u deserve to be recognised for who/what u are to him and be appreciated for it,

Me sha, my guy no dey introduce me as his babe oh, my name will do, however if someone asaks him if we r dating, we will say YES, sometimes sef, by d time him dey intorduce me, d way him go hold me, dem go sabi say theres is more there than meets the eye, whether he says it out or not, me too i return d favour, afterall his parents gave him name now, his now is not ' meet my guy'

but saying ur love is ur cousin, na insult!!

jesus is been hidden for several years when he was born but when he came out, he doesn't have to be introduced before he's been recognized as the son of the most high God

he may never be introduced as a girl friend before been recognized as a wife

a guy that is not proud of u as his girl does not deserve u at all forget him

please my dear, that guy is not for you.just forget about him totaly and start another life.

why are u waisting ur precious time on him? let him go.

Maybe it's a slip of tongue, in their custom; my cousin means my love

mubowa:

as hard as i try to believe your stotry, something keeps telling me there is still something behind it that you are not letting out.

c'mon man u have to be fair the girl is heart broken give her some words of advice thats what she needs right now so come off it dude.

For the first place him is not the right one for friendship, he not love you that is while he introduce you as a cousin.

So take heart and cheer up.

For the first place him is not the right one for friendship, he didn't love you that is while he introduce you as a cousin.

So take heart and cheer up.

@poster, you should be glad and greatful that nature has decided to pardon you, by allowing the break-up come natural, otherwise you would have suffered the consequence of allowing yourself to be be-littled by this good for nothing kind of boys, who know little or nothing about what relationship is all about. Only God knows who he will be introducing his next girlfriend as, maybe his dog

he never loved you from the beginning since he introduced you as his cousin

why you no break bottle for him skull as him introduce you as cousin

move on, because he was looking for a way out then , he saw an opportunity to cut out so he took it since it was a one shot deal

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the truth is that u fail to catch his gist from the onset,
the guy no love you.
forget this story of you loving him.
what is love if its nt reciprocated
abeg wake up and move on with life.A better guy will come.

@ poster i dont really know what to tell you but i hope you know how you feel about this guy, personally to me i dont think he is wort it.

My Love Introduced Me As His Cousin
too bad

life has its different ways of treating one another more especially, in relationship. I understand how you feel, its not your fault that you love him but then, you can't change his mind

Just think he never exit in your life, he is not your man let him go.show him with out him you can live, just let him go.

how old are you?
you must be under 20 when this happened , i swear on my bet!!!

there must be something about you that made him not too proud to announce you.
underage?
maYBE Y[b]OUR innocence and in experience put him off?[/b]

maybe he never really got to have sex more than a couple of times. but you fell in love cos he disvirgined you, which makes him your first, and your curse.

same with me. underage girls put me off, no matter how much friendship we achieve, they better dont wish for sex cos i cant give it.

if you are sure you are mature then Baby, pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee love me na!!!! so that we can get to go out

, i be bobo too,