xendra:
now you are trying to be an ingrate, you are not even shameful enough that a woman is catering for you, you now want to prove a man to your family with her money. SMH! tell them you don't have money and stop adding to the woman's stress.

Kenturkey048:
thank you oooh....where is the pride as a man...she is making that kinda of statement for 200naira recharge ,,but if it was to be the other way round ,the reverse would av been the case.

emerald16:
Thanks guys please I don't want this on front page

emerald16:
Thanks guys please I don't want this on front page

lonelydora:


Your earning of 60k and her flourishing business should have made you reign your job and join her. Why suffer yourself on a 60k job when she's doing well in business. Bro, make more money and your problem is solved

planetx:
All the people advising him to go and make more money, if it's that easy nobody will be broke.

xendra:
now you are trying to be an ingrate, you are not even shameful enough that a woman is catering for you, you now want to prove a man to your family with her money. SMH! tell them you don't have money and stop adding to the woman's stress.

Timekeeper:



No fault coz the Op is being honest about the virtuous wife he has... She is a good wife material but do u think u can be like his wife with the way u girls live fake life?

I'm asking u a question, do u think u can ever be like his wife, like ever??

luminouz:


See you oh! U still dey find sugar on top the gaari?
Hunger never reconfigure ur stomach abi?
Lemme analyse, Garri one cup(50), kulikuli(30) and water(3 for 30)...u still have 90bucks for indomie at night,assuming u drank gaari in the morning...use ur mouth as the sugar,longthroat

emerald16:
My wife has been really helpful from when we started dating, she has actually taken me from grass to grace and helped me from a self contained to a 3bedroom flat. She has been helping with house expenses for over a year now, I do work but my salary is very small, just around 60k.

She is into business which flourished so much but it's a little down for now. She helped made our marriage possible by contributing far more than i. She is every woman's dream and is even poised to help me secure a better job and a side business.

I have also contributed my part in helping her grow her business though not financially but through technical support, expert advice and more as she just started her business the very month we started dating but though in a small way with very little capital.

I feel I have over burdened her with my own problem and she is carrying way too much on her shoulders cos her parents and siblings are also depending on her.
I felt a pinch of her frustration when I asked her if she could help transfer a little sum of 200 naira to me for airtime, she was about doing it when I told her I actually wanted to send the amount as airtime to my dad,then she flared up saying she will take care of me, herself and even my parents! I felt bad and terrible cos I rarely ask her for money to send to my people except on very rare occasions which are but a few.

I kept mute and didn't feel like talking to her and we haven't exchanged a proper conversation since last night when it happened.

What do I do? Even when I try to initiate a conversation, she doesn't seem interested

emerald16:
Thanks guys please I don't want this on front page

xendra:
now you are trying to be an ingrate, you are not even shameful enough that a woman is catering for you, you now want to prove a man to your family with her money. SMH! tell them you don't have money and stop adding to the woman's stress.

emerald16:
My wife has been really helpful from when we started dating, she has actually taken me from grass to grace and helped me from a self contained to a 3bedroom flat. She has been helping with house expenses for over a year now, I do work but my salary is very small, just around 60k.

She is into business which flourished so much but it's a little down for now. She helped made our marriage possible by contributing far more than i. She is every woman's dream and is even poised to help me secure a better job and a side business.

I have also contributed my part in helping her grow her business though not financially but through technical support, expert advice and more as she just started her business the very month we started dating but though in a small way with very little capital.

I feel I have over burdened her with my own problem and she is carrying way too much on her shoulders cos her parents and siblings are also depending on her.
I felt a pinch of her frustration when I asked her if she could help transfer a little sum of 200 naira to me for airtime, she was about doing it when I told her I actually wanted to send the amount as airtime to my dad,then she flared up saying she will take care of me, herself and even my parents! I felt bad and terrible cos I rarely ask her for money to send to my people except on very rare occasions which are but a few.

I kept mute and didn't feel like talking to her and we haven't exchanged a proper conversation since last night when it happened.

What do I do? Even when I try to initiate a conversation, she doesn't seem interested

chris51:
Young man, you are a big FOOL.
In this 21st century, you have a wife helping you this much and you are taking her for granted.

Go and apologise to her before you see the other side of her.

luminouz:

The wife ain't supporting his family, he never said that. She said those words when she discovered he was fronting for his dad?

Again i ask you,what's the purpose of marriage if not to assist each other? Why swear to 'till death do us part' or 'in sickness and health, poor or rich'? If you are not ready to help lift up ur partner when he/she is down?...
That's why I'm confused with today's definition of marriage o

dia4iam:
I completely agree with you with a little addition. Secret101; Saving alone does not make a difference. It is stacking the cash and re-investing that makes the money grow wings.