Lexusgs430:


Have I ever been broke? Yes......


I am presently broke, but N200 would not be sufficient to get me unbroken.............

Maybe not@200...but if u hadn't eaten since yday the 200 will look like 2million to you...at least u go soak better gaari and kulikuli

spiceadole:
Lol..your wife is a clown.
When she agreed to marry a man who earns about 60K while her business was flourishing, what did she think?
This is just the beginning for her.
By the time you make money, you will dump her for another woman. Na una way

What exactly is your point? So women should marry men who are financially powerful than they are? Anyways...i wish the OP gets more money and dump her for another woman like you said.

Lexusgs430:


But why expect wife, to support his family. How are we sure, his wife is not supporting her own extended family, for the comfort if her immediate family?.....

The wife ain't supporting his family, he never said that. She said those words when she discovered he was fronting for his dad?

Again i ask you,what's the purpose of marriage if not to assist each other? Why swear to 'till death do us part' or 'in sickness and health, poor or rich'? If you are not ready to help lift up ur partner when he/she is down?...
That's why I'm confused with today's definition of marriage o

solasoulmusic:
Money comes and goes but the loyalty that stays and supports is valuable she should have sent it sometimes yes it’s frustrating when you have to handle all the bills but for the people we love we should not count the cost. I’ve sent credit to someone when they only called me for one minute

This comment is worth a million naira. " for the people we love we shouldn't count the cost". I read your comment over and over and over

prince3009:


What exactly is your point? So women should marry men who are financially powerful than they are? Anyways...i wish the OP gets more money and dump her for another woman like you said.

Wrong

Dump her for what After supporting him for that long? She is human and as such is prone to emotional outbursts once in a while.

When I see good women,I know. OP's wife is good

Chai Nairaland!!!! Na which kind post come be this one na??

Person wife dey keep malice with am sef don become NEWS??

luminouz:

The wife ain't supporting his family, he never said that. She said those words when she discovered he was fronting for his dad?

Again i ask you,what's the purpose of marriage if not to assist each other? Why swear to 'till death do us part' or 'in sickness and health, poor or rich'? If you are not ready to help lift up ur partner when he/she is down?...
That's why I'm confused with today's definition of marriage o

I don't think she complained when she was supporting her own family.......

What happened to him telling his dad, sorry papa I no get money to buy you credit.....

How would you feel if i begged you for some money stating i had pressing needs, then you see me at TFC with sinaj?......

You're lucky my guy. She is only keeping malice. She tried na . Must you tell her you want to send something to your dad?
You're lucky Sha. If it is the one lying beside me here, you go wash plate before you will eat. Malice keeper.
Common go and hug her, kiss her and make passionate love to her. Idiot.

luminouz:

Maybe not@200...but if u hadn't eaten since yday the 200 will look like 2million to you...at least u go soak better gaari and kulikuli

Garri and kulikuli must be cheap in your area o..... N200 would not provide me with garri, kulikuli, water &, sugar in my area........

Abi you go talk say make i drink garri sugarless?.... Haba, who does dat......... You never jam ijebu garri b dat.....

luminouz:

I get ur point but like I said,I have been in those shoes before, so I never judge anyone for being broke or question the little they give to help

Absolutely........

In as much as I want to comment, but I said let me keep quiet cos I ain't married yet so I don't know what's like to be married(the challenges that comes with it). But all I can say is May God continue to bless ur family and this prayer also goes to couples struggling with one financial issues or the other. God will open doors for u guys. I pray one day, u think about this post and laugh. Amen.

Lexusgs430:


I don't think she complained when she was supporting her own family.......

What happened to him telling his dad, sorry papa I no get money to buy you credit.....

How would you feel if i begged you for some money stating i had pressing needs, then you see me at TFC with sinaj?......

Lol,why would she complain about her own family na? Its just the added stress or biznez frustration or her mood swing thingie that made her talk
Have u considered what will make ur dad ask u for help? I believe it must have been very urgent.
On ur last sentence? Sinaj ain't ur family and unless u lied to me about the pressing need,I won't give u kobo. Once I have found out na outing u take my money do,I would be disappointed on two counts.
One,that ur not ballsy enough to tell me the truth and secondly,I won't trust a word outta u again and so even if u REALLY need help,I won't answer again.

atakamus:
You're lqucky my guy. She is only keeping malice. She tried na . Must you tell her you want to send something to your dad?
You're lucky Sha. If it is the one lying beside me here, you go wash plate before you will eat. Malice keeper.
Common go and hug her, kiss her and make passionate love to her. Idiot.

Lol

Hideki:
This comment is worth a million naira. " for the people we love we shouldn't count the cost". I read your comment over and over and over

thanks

luminouz:

Awwwwww...
Tell d nigga is fvcking lucky to have you!!!!
I wish you the best!

thanks and for sure have a good one and regards to yours

she has actually taken me from grass to grace and helped me from a self contained to a 3bedroom flat. She has been helping with house expenses for over a year now, I do work but my salary is very small, just around 60k.

She is into business which flourished so much but it's a little down for now.

Write that woman a letter of apology and vow NEVER to depend on your wife ever again. Even a woman you do not ask for money but give money to will still disrespect you talk less when you make it a habit to ask her for money. Seeing that her business is a little down now, the considerate thing is to give her something from your monthly 60k salary - no matter how little and note that your parents expenses no matter how little should not be something you ask from your wife. If you could not afford the 200 naira recharge card for your Dad then he has to wait until you get paid. If you can drive - Uber is a possible part time option and if you can't drive then learn how to. I for one would rather do labourer work part time or sell stuff inside go-slow instead of asking my wife for money. A word is enough for the wise.

Lexusgs430:



Garri and kulikuli must be cheap in your area o..... N200 would not provide me with garri, kulikuli, water &, sugar in my area........

Abi you go talk say make i drink garri sugarless?.... Haba, who does dat......... You never jam ijebu garri b dat.....

See you oh! U still dey find sugar on top the gaari?
Hunger never reconfigure ur stomach abi?
Lemme analyse, Garri one cup(50), kulikuli(30) and water(3 for 30)...u still have 90bucks for indomie at night,assuming u drank gaari in the morning...use ur mouth as the sugar,longthroat

ImaIma1:
When someone says marrying on that kind of salary is not advisable, they will say we are materialistic.

Imagine if a child is involved. You will know that it's not about being prudent or being a wife material.

Meanwhile, on this forum, a guy has been urged on to get married on a 40k salary. You guys should tell yourself the truth and stop hiding under "a good woman will manage"

This is real life, real expenses.

Hy ImaIma1, how are you doing? Seriously update ur pic, just wana see u... U r my crush here on nairaland

atakamus:
You're lucky my guy. She is only keeping malice. She tried na . Must you tell her you want to send something to your dad?
You're lucky Sha. If it is the one lying beside me here, you go wash plate before you will eat. Malice keeper.
Common go and hug her, kiss her and make passionate love to her. Idiot.

Lmaoooo!!!
Werey!!!

Timekeeper:



Hy ImaIma1, how are you doing? Seriously update ur pic, just wana see u... U r my crush here on nairaland

Pele o...crusher!!!
Send her PM jor...now u have advertised her to wolves here!!

Rosarie:
For the first time nl did not see any fault in the woman.the woman is tired of oga.apologize.she is loosing interest in you.soon love will start fading.if you are not careful you will not know when you people will become living like strangers.women hate men who can not man up to their responsibilities

No fault coz the Op is being honest about the virtuous wife he has... She is a good wife material but do u think u can be like his wife with the way u girls live fake life?

I'm asking u a question, do u think u can ever be like his wife, like ever??

luminouz:

Pele o...crusher!!!
Send her PM jor...now u have advertised her to wolves here!!

Wolves shey una dey mad ni.. Make una no touch my crush ImaIma1 ooo. Besides she is a mother ooooo, don't break her husband heart ooo. ImaIma1 don't be tempted oo, does wolves will do u bad, stay wit ur husband and be with me too. My crush

luminouz:

Pele o...crusher!!!
Send her PM jor...now u have advertised her to wolves here!!

Wolves, if una no wan mad, no one shud send a pm to my crush oo ImaIma1


Thanks bro, wolves has been taken care of

I hope u r not part of the wolves oo Cox if u r, u go yawere ni ooo.. U go bugije ni ooo

Timekeeper:


Wolves, if una no wan mad, no one shud send a pm to my crush oo ImaIma1


Thanks bro, wolves has been taken care of

I hope u r not part of the wolves oo Cox if u r, u go yawere ni ooo.. U go bugije ni ooo

Shuuuuu...u don dey curse upon that small thing? Person no fit follow u play?

emerald16:
My wife has been really helpful from when we started dating, she has actually taken me from grass to grace and helped me from a self contained to a 3bedroom flat. She has been helping with house expenses for over a year now, I do work but my salary is very small, just around 60k.

She is into business which flourished so much but it's a little down for now. She helped made our marriage possible by contributing far more than i. She is every woman's dream and is even poised to help me secure a better job and a side business.

I have also contributed my part in helping her grow her business though not financially but through technical support, expert advice and more as she just started her business the very month we started dating but though in a small way with very little capital.

I feel I have over burdened her with my own problem and she is carrying way too much on her shoulders cos her parents and siblings are also depending on her.
I felt a pinch of her frustration when I asked her if she could help transfer a little sum of 200 naira to me for airtime, she was about doing it when I told her I actually wanted to send the amount as airtime to my dad,then she flared up saying she will take care of me, herself and even my parents! I felt bad and terrible cos I rarely ask her for money to send to my people except on very rare occasions which are but a few.

I kept mute and didn't feel like talking to her and we haven't exchanged a proper conversation since last night when it happened.

What do I do? Even when I try to initiate a conversation, she doesn't seem interested

@Chizzy, is this your story or a made up story? I know you're a woman and you just got married. What's with the super story?

Timekeeper:


Wolves shey una dey mad ni.. Make una no touch my crush ImaIma1 ooo. Besides she is a mother ooooo, don't break her husband heart ooo. ImaIma1 don't be tempted oo, does wolves will do u bad, stay wit ur husband and be with me too. My crush

She don get husband na..wetin u dey find again sef!

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@Chizzy, is this your story or a made up story? I know you're a woman and you just got married. What's with the super story?

Lol,u see why I no dey take NL romance stories serious

chinchonglee:
Hw is she d one catering for u wen u earn 60k monthly..

Wetin u dey use ur 60k do?


Wen i said i rather remain single for life dan get married wit a 60k income u pple thought i woz joking baa.

if u like get married to a 300k income earner, person where no fit manage money, no fit manage money!.

Ahmed0336:


ah ah madam take am easy. why u dey para pass him wife onto dis matter?

OP just give it time, wiffy is probably stressed up please try to ease some of her burden by working extra hard. God ll see you through

You are very mature

All the people advising him to go and make more money, if it's that easy nobody will be broke.

luminouz:



Shuuuuu...u don dey curse upon that small thing? Person no fit follow u play?

I no curse u.. I only want to know if u r not part of the wolves oo

Talk is cheap..wen u reach that level u will understand.

Joromi12:
Why marry when u no fit afford am. 200 card kwa