4 somtimes nw,i av found myself thinking about a guy in d next building to d house whre i stay. D guy is a divorcee wit a 5years old boy,his gentle nature,his calmness got d beta side of me. Dis guy is nt d wow! Handsome type,but he is so damn easy going dat i just cant help thinking wot bein in his life ll b like. 4rm all indication d guy has a tin 4me too,d way he luks at me,d way he always steal glances at me,he even ask som1 wot he tot abt me and dat 1told me,but he neva told me anytin himself and am falln 4him seriously. Should i tell him ow i feel abt him or i should wait 4him to do d talkn,maybe he is stil doin his homework. Pls nairalanders wot do i do?

My favourite novel "The gurl nxt door" anyway, be patient he would approach you

The patient dog eats the leanest bone, abi no be so
IMO, I'd advise you to take the bull by the horn
Take charge of your life
Don't wait for him to come to you
Please go tell him how you fee, but when you go, please go with a condom; AIDS IS REAL ooo

GIRL,

come here for a minute let me holla at ya,

DON'T
YOU
EVER
IN
YOUR
LIFE
APPROACH
A
MAN

Do you hear me?  Let that man do the approaching TRUST ME, let him do it! IF he wants you, he will approach you!

Gbam!

tell him how you feel sweery
he may be scared of aproaching you
u know being a divorcee and all that

I need your advised too because I am in LOVE with the girl next window

Assuming you have a PENIS, WELL legally a man can't be so sure nowadays!

ANYYYYWAY,

If you haven't introduce yourself, SIMPLY INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE NEIGHBOR and if she needs anything THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE SEX SILVERTUKE!!! she can rely on you SEEING THAT YOU ARE SINGLE, then the ball is in her court,

silvertuke:

I need your advised too because I am in LOVE with the girl next window

very easy
just sneek into her room at night
Again, like i said earlier on, have a condom with you; AIDS IS REAL ooo

Poster,

I never approached my husband, HE APPROACHED ME and we are married. I am telling you do not approach a man, if he wants you he will come to you REAL TALK,

BUT IF YOU MUST,

Gone ahead and talk to that man if you want to, GONE AHEAD, you know you want to!

Mrs. Eve:

Poster,

I never approached my husband, HE APPROACHED ME and we are married. I am telling you do not approach a man, if he wants you he will come to you REAL TALK,

BUT IF YOU MUST,

Gone ahead and talk to that man if you want to, GONE AHEAD, you know you want to!

thanks for the insight!
I am sure the Op now knows what to do

Poster,it seems he likes you,just relax and be yourself,he'll come to you,if he really wants you,what if you talk to him and he rejects you,how'd you feel?

freecocoa:

Poster,it seems he likes you,just relax and be yourself,he'll come to you,if he really wants you,what if you talk to him and he rejects you,how'd you feel?

. . . like a ho!

strangerf:

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. . . like a ho!

EASY KILLA EASY!

Exactly Freecocoa!

thanks guys,i tot about sticking wit d waiting stuff,but d tin is a lady family friend 4rm ibadan just moved in to their family house and she is always lurking around him wheneva he is around and dat makes me jealous;atimes,am scared to loose him. Wot if he decides to start dating d lady 4rm d ways she lurk around him,besides he didnt av any girlfriend 4 now,dat am sure of.

honey, if he wants you, then he comes after you, and if he hits something off with the other lady, then you are better off without him anyway.

slymm:

honey, if he wants you, then he comes after you, and if he hits something off with the other lady, then you are better off without him anyway.

Did you take a look at the OP's profile pic at all?
OP is getting old oooo
That is not the best advice to give her

Op is going to be worse off without him
Abi who is going to be shining Op's congo? Or you wan dey shine OP's congo?

The OP needs someone fast, that is why she is geetting desperate

afribeauty:

thanks guys,i tot about sticking wit d waiting stuff,but d tin is a lady family friend 4rm ibadan just moved in to their family house and she is always lurking around him wheneva he is around and dat makes me jealous;atimes,am scared to loose him.  Wot if he decides to start dating d lady 4rm d ways she lurk around him,besides he didnt av any girlfriend 4 now,dat am sure of.

What is this i am reading u dont av him yet now. abegiii, calm down.

strangerf:

Did you take a look at the OP's profile pic at all?
OP is getting old oooo
That is not the best advice to give her

Op is going to be worse off without him
Abi who is going to be shining Op's congo? Or you wan dey shine OP's congo?

The OP needs someone fast, that is why she is geetting desperate

Dis is d problm wit some nl,y com up wit an insult. If am old did i come beg 4ur fathers dick. Pls stay out of dis if u re trying to get attention. D fact dat am falln inlove wit a guy those it mean am ugly or strandered,pls bingo dis site is 4matured and real people not d alameisiia's like u,so Bleep off! Or u want to b like cork,c cork we know,u we dont knw who u be,cappish!

Okay,

I had to put on my white coat and slide my glasses on the tip of my nose,

Honey, You are obsessed with that man and that is STALKERISH, you already said that you are jealous when other chicks try to approach him and HE AINT EVEN APPROACHED YOU YET and you afraid to lose something THAT YOU NEVER HAD, that to me is TEXTBOOK obsession, PLEASE take it easy because you will push the man away NOT ALL MEN LIKE AGGRESSIVE WOMEN and I am sure HIS AFRICAN ARSE aint shy or timid, MOST AFRICAN MEN AREN'T anyways,

Why would you want to chase a man that is not chasing you? That is desperate and STRANGER, when women get desperate they do some STRANGE things, No offense StrangerF,

thanks guys,i tot about sticking wit d waiting stuff,but d tin is a lady family friend 4rm ibadan just moved in to their family house and she is always lurking around him wheneva he is around and dat makes me jealous;atimes,am scared to loose him.  Wot if he decides to start dating d lady 4rm d ways she lurk around him,besides he didnt av any girlfriend 4 now,dat am sure of.

DON"T DO THE TALKING especially if U want something serious else he will just use u cos he "dnt hav a girlfriend 4 now". I just got out of such a relationship and now looking for the real thing. [url]https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-540623.99999.html#bot
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My dear, JUST MAKE URSELF AVAILABLE AND EASILY ACCESSIBLE to him. Show Ur interest tru simple ways like asking hw he is coping with house issues as a single parent, how his biz is doing etc. Show care and love to the kid etc.

strangerf:

Did you take a look at the OP's profile pic at all?
OP is getting old oooo
That is not the best advice to give her

Op is going to be worse off without him
Abi who is going to be shining Op's congo? Or you wan dey shine OP's congo?

The OP needs someone fast, that is why she is geetting desperate

HOW WE DEY SURE SAY U NO OLD PASS HER(some people look older than their age)
Anyways,everyone will grow old. . .

Mrs. Eve:

Okay,

I had to put on my white coat and slide my glasses on the tip of my nose,

Honey, You are obsessed with that man and that is STALKERISH, you already said that you are jealous when other chicks try to approach him and HE AINT EVEN APPROACHED YOU YET and you afraid to lose something THAT YOU NEVER HAD, that to me is TEXTBOOK obsession, PLEASE take it easy because you will push the man away NOT ALL MEN LIKE AGGRESSIVE WOMEN and I am sure HIS AFRICAN ARSE aint shy or timid, MOST AFRICAN MEN AREN'T anyways,

Why would you want to chase a man that is not chasing you? That is desperate and STRANGER, when women get desperate they do some STRANGE things, No offense StrangerF,

i guess u re rite,but am not desperate abt him,maybe am selfish,yes. I shuldnt tink abt loosing wot i dont av yet. I tink i ll appreciate,my neigbour 2neigbhour friendship and leave d guy alone. I av a guy to say d truth,bt am not inlove wit him,so inlove or not i ll stay wit him. My boyfriend want me to park out of d area dis month.i ll do just dat. Tanks 4 ur honestz guys.

find out why his divorced first

@poster, why bother miserable people who reply you You should have ignored whoever took a jab at you concerning your age, first off, he doesnt know you, so his opinion does not count. And dearie, matters not how old you are, welcome to 2011, you do not need a man to stand as a happy woman. Please leave that neighbour guy, let him come to you, and if he doesnt, hey life goes on eh.

OP,
U better listen to my darlin ''Ms Eve'' . . .She's still regreting the day she approached me and i fortunately turned her down . . . . .She's talking from experience!

@ OP-- [b]PROCRASTINATION IS THE THIEF OF TIM[/b]E===It is better you tell him how you feel about him than playing the waiting game==I want to believe there are other ladies feeling thesame way you do, Do it fast and be smart about it.I Wish you goodluck

U mean Procrastination?

Abi why she dey waste time naww== She needs to act fast before the guy move to another babe.

@poster; if you really want him (not love him,cos you don't) , don't just go and tell him. try to create a friendship with him first cos he is too old for those i love you,i need you craps. be his friend and show that you care,learn him more and know what you might be going into. the, voila, you are in

Give him notice me style. He will eventually correspond. Otherwise, you can do self service picturing his image in your head.  

@ op women, shakes head. Dats y we say leave jobs for us guy una no go gree, nw any guy dat is rich and comfortable u people begin love. Rubbish