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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by darlenese(f): 5:31pm On Jan 11, 2020
no sex before marriage kwa. 80 percent of these no sex before marriage crew have been over used by their exes

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Dollypizzle13(f): 5:37pm On Jan 11, 2020
franzis:
Sex or no sex , a guy who wants to stay will stay and the one that wants to leave would leave ...
Osheyy
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gracemadeit(m): 5:37pm On Jan 11, 2020
If you are a christian, this is for you. 1 Corinthians 6:13, Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. 1 Corinthians 6:18, Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19, What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20, For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by iammolise(m): 5:41pm On Jan 11, 2020
Gina2019:



He didn't wanna put too much pressure on her because she is not asking him for money...

So if so, then what's the difference between her and OLOSHO

But WHY should sex be commercilize these days, but why goddess of love ( Aphrodite) ?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 5:41pm On Jan 11, 2020
Use him for money rituals
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Deepfreezer(m): 5:48pm On Jan 11, 2020
Op you're so selfish.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by NaijaOlosho(f): 5:51pm On Jan 11, 2020
superfitsez:

can we hook up, just arrived this shithole

U bring cash
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by superfitsez(m): 5:53pm On Jan 11, 2020
NaijaOlosho:

U bring cash
sure baby..
how much you charge?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by bestabigaelever(f): 5:55pm On Jan 11, 2020
Offpoint:
Are you a virgin, is he a virgin?

Sex is like a good wine, those who have never taste of it would not have the urges to want to drink it. even if they do have the urge to drink, it won't be as strong as those who have tasted and drank the wine before.

Only virgins can keep to 'no sex before marriage' agreement, anything outside that is just 2 adults fooling themselves.
Damn!!!! @ your signature
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Albertone(m): 5:59pm On Jan 11, 2020
Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.
Effect of too much of Steve Harvey's Think like a man,act like a woman.

Not only cookies,you'll still see biscuit....

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by ucheuzor1(m): 6:08pm On Jan 11, 2020
Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Having sex means nothing. If he has the intention of marrying you, having sex with you doesn't stop him from going ahead. Sex even makes the whole union more interesting.

If you deny me as your guy sex, I may feel within me that you're getting it somewhere as long as you're not a virgin. I may end up not taking you serious.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Wiifesnatcher(m): 6:09pm On Jan 11, 2020
Which useless guys listen to this no sex before marriage crabs?


May all guys that listen to this nonsense crabs always face disappointment from ladies


Thunder fire no sex before marriage. Some guys can sabi mumu, how can you be in a relationship and na lady go dey dictate how you go dey operate your relationship?


She might not even be a virgin yet you will be so foolish to listen to that crabs

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by mrksquare: 6:13pm On Jan 11, 2020
Pedrotina11:

All lies...u r lying...lies


Ain't lying. Damn serious.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by CorleonOfSicily: 6:24pm On Jan 11, 2020
After the cuddle and kissi, you will go and finish the job with someone wet no be your fiancee and mostly, is free dish. Wicked players everywhere
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by golddare: 6:25pm On Jan 11, 2020
Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

That's the game dont worry he will come around, dont be bow, once he chop the narative will change but make sure you dont chop somewhere else too. If you are meant to be God will make it so.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Toluwashe778: 6:26pm On Jan 11, 2020
dear, there are different phenomenon and ideology on sex. my point is , many people decide to hand sex before marriage in different ways. please writer, HANDLE IT THE WAY U FEEL IT PROPER TO YOU. U will definitely see someone like u . I have a friend who is practicing no sex before marriage and she is not a virgin and her fiancee really love it . the truth of the matter is 90% of young adult do not despise sex before marriage . please don't let the people here decide ur way of life. some men still go for decent girls. it is the same people talking here that will come back and say girls are olosho. please preserve urself if u can. someone is despirately looking for a woman like u oo

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Offpoint: 6:26pm On Jan 11, 2020
bestabigaelever:
Damn!!!! @ your signature
smile** I've been through hell and I conquered hell dear.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by IamCookie(f): 6:37pm On Jan 11, 2020
sinceraconcept:
You fornicated with your guy very well and now he's your man,pls don't start preaching to your daughter against fornication o as she's surely going to taste kondo before marriage just like her mum

You can call it anything you want. All I know is that i am emotionally stable and leading a good life. With respect to my daughter, you needn't worry about that. She's mine.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by IamPlato(m): 6:49pm On Jan 11, 2020
Lyydia:
Thanks
which One Is Thank You? Answer The Question, are You A Virgin?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by walexbyte: 6:50pm On Jan 11, 2020
all this lie lie ladies she might have been in some relationship before. after all there Bleep arround now she wants a seriois guy to hook, cuddle and kissing she is just punishing the guy.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by SamUnbeatable(m): 6:52pm On Jan 11, 2020
Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.
how can I go to buy sugarcane without tasting it
land wey good, go produce beta harvest.....
do u know how long it will take both of u to settle down?? so he should wait even if it's five years in courtship without tasting the farmland?
u probably expect him to cheat on u and r emember side chicks mostly com out victorious ......lol...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by six1996(m): 6:54pm On Jan 11, 2020
this thing are funny Sha. u cnt predict us.
if u sleep with him 100tyms if
he go marry u he will Nd if u like wait till engagement if he go dump u he will that am
sure of.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by SamUnbeatable(m): 6:55pm On Jan 11, 2020
]how can I go to buy sugarcane without tasting it
land wey good, go produce beta harvest.....
do u know how long it will take both of u to settle down?? so he should wait even if it's five years in courtship without tasting the farmland?
u probably expect him to cheat on u and r emember side chicks mostly com out victorious ......lol...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Jaemes(m): 7:06pm On Jan 11, 2020
Following your story... Fine , u both agree on no sex till marriage, but its difficult to cuddle and kiss and not delve into sex at the end .It is pre-intimacy and pre-intimacy is a prelude to the main thing (coitus).

Its like visiting a porn site and deceiving urself saying 'I won't watch any i jus want to satisfy my Fantasy" ...


Hahahaha,My dear You Lie! The devil will jus use u to do Parte after Parte. I've been in such situation umpteenth times. At the end , we rue it.

So you see...Its better you jus dont kiss or cuddle cuz it will always be hard not to have sex at that moment.

Body no be Firewood oo�
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jan 11, 2020
IamCookie:


Well, I gave it to my guy very well ...and now he is my MAN. Your decision is your decision, though.

This is what I always advise, once you love the guy, don't hold back anything. Only few men are able to run away from a good pussy. A man will never leave you simply because you give him too much pussy. There must be other reasons more compelling. Right now, the girl I love the most is the girl I bleeped on the first day she visited. This girl doesn't play games with sex, she takes it very seriously.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Munzy14(m): 7:17pm On Jan 11, 2020
Innobee99:
Kiss and cuddle kee u there




grin grin grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Yusman316(m): 7:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
When u see a lady bringing such a condition into a relationship, it simply means in a previous relationship someone promised her all sorts of things, slept with her then zoomed off. She is simply being cautious

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by MNDY(m): 7:30pm On Jan 11, 2020
Gina2019:
This is not about a Nigerian girls mentality thing. This is a different scenario entirely.

The guy didnt pick her call cuz she didn't give him sex. Does that make any sense at all? Do the math yourself and tell me what the result is going to be if eventually she say yes to the sex.

You said girls would not open their legs except if given money. What you mean is that she can compromise and allow him to have sex if he gives her money.
It is how majority of Nigerian girls operate. You can even f*uck a Nigerian girl by buying her indomie to eat.

Even if she gives him sex, he can also refuse to pick her call too, or don't you know? Maybe she is even having the s*x with somebody else. Nigerian girls are very unintelligent. You cannot use sex or virginity to make a guy marry you, you use brain (intelligence) and good character.

Nigerian girls do shakara with womanliness too much even as they enjoy sex themselves too.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by chelseamann(m): 7:31pm On Jan 11, 2020
Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.
@Bolded..total lie...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Equation89(m): 7:42pm On Jan 11, 2020
When you say no sex before Marriage, eliminate anything that will generate strong sexual urge.

For kissing and cuddling him.. my sister, you are putting him in a tight corner. If he eventually rape you because of accumulated sexual urge...don't blame him because you caused it.

If you want to kiss on this situation, let it be a kind of kiss that won't go deep.

Based on your explanation, you guys have been having deep kisses, cuddling and romancing which will lead to a very high/strong sexual urge.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Brightgem(f): 7:42pm On Jan 11, 2020
wirinet:

So to you a woman's dignity is tied to whether she is a virgin or not? That's 1st century mindset. In the 21st century where women chart their own destinies without depending on men, their dignity is tied to their character, education and career.
Those that feel their dignity is tied to their virginity better become a nun.

Even Mia Khalifa married a young successful bachelor.

If you yourself had any dignity, any common sense, any self respect, any values, any parental teachings, any good guidance, then you would have understood my post on one hand and on the other hand you would have not stooped low to use MIA KHALIFA as an example.

But I don't blame you, this generation doesn't know how to define success, that's why you can use pornstars or a scammer as an example of success.

90% of people don't have sense, as a friend of mine said.

You lack decency or intellectual capacity to hold a discussion with me. So dey your lane of pornstars abeg. This is my final exchange with you.

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