Bandit C.:

Yeah she's aight but she reeks of c.u.m. Yuck.

how old are you guys and how long have you lived in the US or abroad?

Jenifa_:

how old are you guys and how long have you lived in the US or abroad?

old enough to do the horizontal tango

buzugee:

i once had a nigerian girlfriend throw our tv out of the window in london because she was angry    then one time she was fighting me in the car when i was driving. she nearly drove the both of us over a cliff  

i called the cops the day a chic attempted it with my tv way-back. she coughed out every penny back. naija chics are not to be pitied especially when they put up such disgusting attitude. would she throw her father's black n white tv out of the window when she was in nigeria?

buzugee:

i once had a nigerian girlfriend throw our tv out of the window in london because she was angry    then one time she was fighting me in the car when i was driving. she nearly drove the both of us over a cliff  

Hmph, you had a crazy Nigerian girlfriend. But that's all your evidence?  

cou-gar:

i called the cops the day a chic attempted it with my tv way-back. he coughed out every penny back. naija chics are not to be pitied especially when they put up such disgusting attitude. would she throw her father's black n white tv out of the window when she was in nigeria?

what did you guys do to these girls to provoke them that much lol

buzugee:

old enough to do the horizontal tango

that's not answering my question. I didn't ask you if you entered puberty. lol I just want to know why all the attachment to naija 'cause it seems you guys have been abroad for a while.

cou-gar:

i called the cops the day a chic attempted it with my tv way-back. he coughed out every penny back. naija chics are not to be pitied especially when they put up such disgusting attitude. would she throw her father's black n white tv out of the window when she was in nigeria?

good question yet funny. but yeah the naija chics i have encountered abroad all seem to be very angry types. dunno why sha.  

Bandit C.:

@ Tensor, you sure are hard headed aren't you  . You just refuse to see things from my perspective.

I don't know about you, but Leona Lewis looks as black as most chicks i see on the streets of Enugu where i am from. And what is with the ''oyibos are really your type of woman but for cultural reasons you would prefer a Nigerian bride'' remark? huh. I guess you decided to totally ignore the other naija damsels on that list. It says more about where you are headed to with this discussion than what my preferences are in women.

Looks black ? What exactly does that mean. She is of Afro-Guyanese- Italian -Welsh descent and was born in Islington, London. Anyway she happens to be very fair complexioned as to be almost white. Certainly not a typical Nigerian damsel
However their are plenty of these exotic damsels in London.

chiogo:

Hmph, you had a crazy Nigerian girlfriend. But that's all your evidence?  

oh yeah she was crazy alright. the straw that broke the camels back was when she tried to harvest my kidney with the kitchen knife   i pick race.
but ermmm my evidence is numerous. i have friends and family all married to nigerian women and i see the women all bossy and thangs. nothing wrong with being bossy when it is necessary. but to be unnecessarily bossy is just crazy.

buzugee:

good question yet funny. but yeah the naija chics i have encountered abroad all seem to be very angry types. dunno why sha.  

truth be told, the stress in this country can be depressing. the cold weather, occasional boredom and other variables also contribute to their aggression but even then, a woman must behave like a lady - not like an agbero.

Jenifa_:

what did you guys do to these girls to provoke them that much lol

little argument is enough to spark them into life.

Jenifa_:

what did you guys do to these girls to provoke them that much lol


that's not answering my question. I didn't ask you if you entered puberty. lol I just want to know why all the attachment to naija 'cause it seems you guys have been abroad for a while.

oh my bad hun lol. well as a nigerian you are always attached to nigeria. does not matter how long you are gone for. it is a spiritual attachment.

cou-gar:

truth be told, the stress in this country can be depressing. the cold weather, occasional boredom and other variables also contribute to their aggression but even then, a woman must behave like a lady - not like an agbero.

little argument is enough to spark them into life.

lmao. you have said it all. the harsh life, cold weather, hustling and impending biological clock gauging makes them extremely angry abroad. lol @ agbero and you are right. it dont take much to spark the flame

Buzugee, you're a mess.

buzugee:

lmao. you have said it all. the harsh life, cold weather, hustling and impending biological clock gauging makes them extremely angry abroad. lol @ agbero   and you are right. it dont take much to spark the flame  

anything as little as who holds the remote control or why you received a call late in the night. it's sometimes baffling when these chics start their drama. and when you take your car keys during their drama, they block the doorway that you ain't going nowhere.

chiogo:


Buzugee, you're a mess.

dunno bou all dat  

Never trust anything that bleeds for 3-5 straight days and doesn't fu cking die.  This women no dey feel the lonliness and rejection that men have to put up with. 98% of women does is sit around, look pretty and wait for us to do something. I wish they could feel one moment of what it takes to put up with their crap. Pretty sure they can't handle it.

cou-gar:

anything as little as who holds the remote control or why you received a call late in the night. it's sometimes baffling when these chics start their drama. and when you take your car keys during their drama, they block the doorway that you ain't going nowhere.

lmao you ain never lied bruh.  memorys men. in london its always some kinda drama between the men and the women. either someone is cheating or some guys butt just got whooped by his girl because she suspect he is cheating. london police are tired of getting domestic dispute calls from nigerian couples sef. always whooping each others butt. its crazy mayne.

well then I see nothing wrong with marrying from naija. I've met people who married from naija with no problem actually. To me, it's a function of age and mentality. Older men in their late 30s and 40s or if they are uneducated will be less successful than guys who are younger and already westernized to some extent.

For me, I cannot in a lifetime picture myself married to a nigerian person who grew up his entire life in Nigeria. I puke in my mouth a little at the mere thought of it. Has to be someone born here (any race) or came here at a younger age. preteen or early teen at most (also any race).

2) I am really hard to move when it comes to girls and their swagger, i just don't know why. If i don't not find a girl attractive now, it wouldn't change after downing 6 glasses of Hennesy and Red bull. Could be because of my many encounters with girls in my lifetime.

you must be really young. This kind of one night stand attraction you are describing is not what you should be looking for in marriage. That kind grows over time from friendship. at least that's my opinion. lol but I agree that attraction plays some role.

roymary:

Never trust anything that bleeds for 3-5 straight days and doesn't fu cking die.  This women no dey feel the lonliness and rejection that men have to put up with. 98% of women does is sit around, look pretty and wait for us to do something. I wish they could feel one moment of what it takes to put up with their crap. Pretty sure they can't handle it.

this is mad funny.

buzugee:

lmao you ain never lied bruh.   memorys men

i am still searching for a nigerian woman in london though. if you have any you can recommend, hit my fone.

Bandit C.:

Thank you so much Bro. At least you know where i am coming from. I can tell you this, i have this thing with getting women, even while i was still a yound lad fresh out of secondary school, i was still bagging chicks, hate to say this but even ones who use to come to see my sisters (i have 4 girls before me). Here in Europe, it is even worse, because you rarely need anything to woo chicks up here but my problem lies in the fact that

1) I am really close to my mom (being the last child out of 8 children) and enjoys doing whatever she advices me since she has never given me an advice that didn't turn out well before. She always chats with me, even as a young kid about my core naija wife and my little son/ daughter visiting her.

2) I am really hard to move when it comes to girls and their swagger, i just don't know why. If i do not find a girl attractive now, it wouldn't change after downing 6 glasses of Hennesy and Red bull. Could be because of my many encounters with girls in my lifetime.

3) I am easily bored by white women and cannot picture myself getting married for life to any. Maybe it could be because of how unstable and unpredictable they are.

4) It is difficult, up here to find a black and white couple, whose marriage made it into the middle ages of 45, 50 and up.

5) I would never want to divorce any woman i tell ''i do'' today unless she opts for it because i want a happy home.

6) I have a weakness for ''naija chicks'' that i always see in Nigeria whenever i travel for example. Not saying that there ain't those type here but believe me Bro, they are quite difficult to find.

Contrary to what most might think here, i am a liberal type and believe in individualism and would never marry a woman because i believe she is naive,can be controlled and wouldn't know her rights, No. I would rather a well educated wife who can stand on her own and make decisions she finds appropriate without involving me so the ''chauvinist'' case does not apply to me.

But the thing is, i would like to marry a chick ''from Naija'' simple.

Ol boy, if you want to marry a very pretty chick from Naija, just recognize the fact that there is a very great chance that Aristo don chop am like crazy. I have nothing against Naija chicks in Naija but that's just the way it is. I am also a connoisseur of extremely pretty women. I don chop the baddest babes from Brazil, Dominican Republic, Jamaica, Costa Rica, Bahamas, Australia etc. When I go to Naija, I only chop the baddest chycks over there, Infact next time I go, maybe na Nollywood chicks I go dey chop   . Anyways, my point is that the way the Nigerian system is structured, Aristos go at the prettiest Naija chicks with everything they got. They fly them to London, South Africa etc. Even if the girls have a good head on their shoulders, it's only a matter of time before they succumb to the wiles of the moneybag Aristos. If that does not bother you, then it's all good.

My other advice is that you should not leave anything to chance. Spend a whole lot of time with the woman you intend to marry, and try to sniff out hidden characters that usually come out after marriage. If you are perceptive, you will easily find them. Also, develop yourself very well at your home base. A lot of Naija clowns in yankee are cab drivers, they go home to marry the baddest chick they can find. Bring her to yankee, spend all their money sending her to nursing school. When the girl graduates and starts to make money, then she begins to look down on her cab driver husband that did not develop himself. Don't let that happen to you.

cou-gar:

this is mad funny.

i am still searching for a nigerian woman in london though. if you have any you can recommend, hit my fone.

if you want a peaceful nigerian woman i would recommend birmingham. the ones in london are all stressed out and angry  CREDIT CRUNCH

roymary:

Never trust anything that bleeds for 3-5 straight days and doesn't fu cking die.  This women no dey feel the lonliness and rejection that men have to put up with. 98% of women does is sit around, look pretty and wait for us to do something. I wish they could feel one moment of what it takes to put up with their crap. Pretty sure they can't handle it.

oh dear

Jenifa_:

you must be really young. This kind of one night stand attraction you are describing is not what you should be looking for in marriage. That kind grows over time from friendship. at least that's my opinion. lol but I agree that attraction plays some role.

The guy is just seriously misyarning. Someone looking for a life partner is seemingly obsessed with superficial things like beauty. Yes there has to be that physical attraction in the first place but there are other mich more vital things to look for. Things like character, comportment, attitude,temperament and faith.

^

wtf? ? ?

^

wtf? ? ?

You are in trouble.

Jenifa_:

well then I see nothing wrong with marrying from naija. I've met people who married from naija with no problem actually. To me, it's a function of age and mentality. Older men in their late 30s and 40s or if they are uneducated will be less successful than guys who are younger and already westernized to some extent.

For me, I cannot in a lifetime picture myself married to a nigerian person who grew up his entire life in Nigeria. I puke in my mouth a little at the mere thought of it. Has to be someone born here (any race) or came here at a younger age. preteen or early teen at most (also any race).


you must be really young. This kind of one night stand attraction you are describing is not what you should be looking for in marriage. That kind grows over time from friendship. at least that's my opinion. lol but I agree that attraction plays some role.

you know it has nothing to do with age, place of upbringing or whatever else you may conjure. its all about upbringing. i believe it is a 'class' construct. you will find out that people raised in upper class and upper middle class in nigeria (what we so succinctly call 'ajebutters') are more metrosexual. they believe that domestic work should be shared out, they are heavily vested in romance, they are even somewhat westernized even though they may have never left nigeria at all. then there is the other half who grew up in households with domineering archaic fathers (almost always a lower middle class or lower class ) who are so vested in 'manhood' and feel its is the wifes role to do certain things etc etc. those are the types you want to stay away from. so i wouldnt chalk it up to age or place of upbringing.

Jenifa_:

well then I see nothing wrong with marrying from naija. I've met people who married from naija with no problem actually. To me, it's a function of age and mentality. Older men in their late 30s and 40s or if they are uneducated will be less successful than guys who are younger and already westernized to some extent.

For me, I cannot in a lifetime picture myself married to a nigerian person who grew up his entire life in Nigeria. I puke in my mouth a little at the mere thought of it. Has to be someone born here (any race) or came here at a younger age. preteen or early teen at most (also any race).


you must be really young. This kind of one night stand attraction you are describing is not what you should be looking for in marriage. That kind grows over time from friendship. at least that's my opinion. lol but I agree that attraction plays some role.

Hmmmh!! I guess it has degenerated to insults. Telling me i must be young now, huh. Typical naija man way of arguing, when you have nothing else worthwhile to say, try to ridicule the other party and call him juvenile. You are probably not as old as i am but i'll take the insult. Anyway, i am young enough to know that it is something that would spark an interest in you to approach a lady and if that thing doesn't pick up at the initial encounter, i wonder how this relationship that transcends a one night stand would even pick uo.

Think before you express yourself.

[color=#990000][/color]I am goin to share some fustration on this one;  You guys always think that your women understands you best, but it's not true all the time.  You guys come to the States, play with the American women, married them, divorce them, and go back home and marry your lady.  It is not right.  

haha, this thread has turned into something else. Chai, Nigerians got issues sha.  
But I still want a Nigerian for marriage. Crazy, right?  

Jenifa_:

For me, I cannot in a lifetime picture myself married to a nigerian person who grew up his entire life in Nigeria. I puke in my mouth a little at the mere thought of it. Has to be someone born here (any race) or came here at a younger age. preteen or early teen at most (also any race).

LOL, I always say that too but there are exceptions. Not all of 'em are prehistoric, control freaks. You might even find some with the character you're avoiding here in the States. I think Naija people are all the same, home and abroad. . .if you can see thru some of the hypocrisy  

One just needs to find someone they're on a common ground with, not someone you raised from rags to riches, same mind-set, especially not marry through some arrangement(although, not all of them are failures), actually get to know the person for a while before marriage, and definitely not keep a long-distance relationship before marriage.

she shouldn't have been drinking in the first place. but that sounds like R.APE to me. stuff like that can get you into trouble with the police if the girl cries foul.

She is of age and they were well acquainted. I am not sure where ra-pe would come into it