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Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
johnterry1: e concern you, eh? My depreciating body and falling parts are well taken care of thank you! Now run along . . . |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by naijafrend: 2:45pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@unsure girl Meri maa, tum meri hindi ki baat choddo.bas yehi socho ke meine kuch saal tumhari desh mein bitaya.bhagwan ke liye in logon ke saamne apni desh ko neeche math dikhao. Kam se kam yeh to socho ki mein tere liye ( shuru tho tere liye hua, lekin ab kisee aur ke liye) yahan pe in pagal auraton ke saath led rahi hoon.Ek paagal aurat ne teri maa ko gaali diya aur tum chup betein ho, @ BB Get a life, will you ? With this attitude forget being 'born again', even if your mother born you again you will not reach anywhere, supporting a gutter mouth to abuse your fellow women, from being man less to childless to what not, then justifying it. next time 'baby' goes to church, make sure you confess your sins inpublic lest you want to be the one being tagged as childless and hubbyless !!! Btw, how much does JK pay your for defending her ? Or does she send someone over (no wonder you got so miffed earlier) to service you BTW who on earth told you I'm a woman , you rat?? |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by unsuregirl: 2:53pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
naijafrend: Seriously, itni achchi hindi, tum nigerian ho ya from some place else? And vaise bhi, except JK and genius, something something, sabhi log normal hi hain, ek do pagal toh drama karne ke liye chahiye, Agar sab ko JK ki baatein galat lagti hain, and phir bhi usse nahi samajh aata then may god bless, |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by naijafrend: 3:02pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@ unsure girl Arrey yehi to is jagahan ka sabse acchi baat hai. Ek doosere ko gaali dena . Agar tumhe lagta hai ki main yahan ki rehne wali nahi hoon, then let it be Chalo itna to pata chala ki teri problem ko kuch tho solution mila. Ab sab teri haath mein hain.meri maan sab teekh ho jaayega, been there done that. isi liya toh keh rahi ho.shuru shuru mein yeh sab ke sat hote hain. baad mein tumhe kuch toh kahani chahiye na, apne bacchon se kehne ke liye |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by unsuregirl: 3:07pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Thanks, I hope that you are right |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Busybody2(f): 3:12pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
naijafrend: As the "starters" to the avalanche of menu of abuse you have been promising to unleash on me, that is limp, lame, dry and dull, and leaves a sore taste in my mouth, hope the "main course" comes packed with a punch so you would not have to bother soiling your effeminate hands conjuring up the "desserts", otherwise start looking for that knicker like I said Arrant nonsense of a timewaster, getting me all shook up for nowt, arrggghhhh Oh so you be man Now i feel so sorry and wish i could take it all back I mean I understand women frothing at the mouth because of the too many clashing hormones we are saddled with, but for a man like you to have uncontolable verbal diarrhoea Houston we have a problem What went wrong, it must suck to be you, from now on i will go easy on you and will only pity you, care to share, this bleeding heart wants to know |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by blank(f): 3:16pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@ JK, thanks 4 d well wishes. My husband and I will be just fine. I re-read everything. U started by calling her an animal n den she called u "mama mmadu" and u talked of her childless state, and she talked of u being an unfit mum and wife, etc. Not putting d cart b4 d horse, u started it. Its like d original poster obsessing over d slap while glossing over her part dat led up 2 it. I feel u r obsessing over the "mama mmadu" she called u. U mis-interpreted it 2 mean she was calling ur parenting skills into question. At dat point, she was calling u "an agbaya" as in ur too old 2 be engaging in such acts. Such an "insult" can be used on someone dat is not even married just as I highlighted above. All these is neither here nor dere. U av said d last words, Ivy is no longer responding, can it all end, pls? |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by naijafrend: 3:29pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@ BB Ah, this woman dey craze, na mad dog bite you When I asked you who on earth told you I'm a woman , you just confirmed I'm a man !!! Such a foolish pig! na wa o! With all those fluctuating hormones like you have admitted, you are nowhere going near a child, let alone having one 1 Like |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by naijafrend: 3:37pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@ BB dont waste your time to reply, i'm just bored with you, you are no match for me, seriously, as you've admitted it yourself, you are just a BABY who thinks she is big enough to take the whole world on her own, thtz what you are a silly little creature ! Shooooo, go look out for someone of your own size ! |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
blank: Arrrggg for heaven's sake I have told you to have a kid first before you come on here and start talking poo. Seriously do you think we are in some "who says the last words or not" competition . How can I be obsessed with mama nmadu?seriously why should I be obsessed? even ivynwa at her age is way when I mean years I mean years older than me so why should mama nmadu bother me?You just don't get it. This is my last reply to you |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by ifyalways(f): 4:25pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Unu nile neediri "amu" kara aka including me unsuregirl:Goodnews. I wish u the best,u and your hubby. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by dammy2good(f): 4:37pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@unsuregirl hello,sorry about all d YABS uve bin reciving 4rm FOOLS like jennykadry . i cld not help but post dis when i read all d trash she has bin writing but not 2 worry its quite obvious she is a FUSTRATED MARRIED WOMAN who is trying 2 put up a front as though she's got d best marriage . bk 2 u i love d path uve taken its beta 2 work d kinks out while ur marriage is still young my sister has bin married 4 5yrs now and still feels sexually fustrated in her marriage and 2 annoy her more d husbands behaves like God's gift 2 women and carrys gals around ,i know a lot of pple is gonna critise me 4 ds but i told her 2 go laid cos i was so mad at d bastard but d tin is dis she can't continue like dt in d marriage. men are really not ready 2 take sex advice 4rm women cos dey feel dey are MAN and sjld bi in control.my point being dis pls do try and work things out with ur man bi careful not 2 get preg yet and if things do not work out bi ready 2 run very fast away from d marriage so u do not end up bcoming a sexually fustrated wife or end up getting involved with several men African women have bin brainwashed in2 believing dy shld take all crap thrown at dm by men dy beat u,humiliate u do not pay d bills give u HERPS or whatever infection dy can doll out and still expect respect BULLSHIT. NAIRALANDERS am expecting daggers bring it on .d beta our women start tinkin wit dr head not dr ass dy beginn 2 get d respect dy deserve adios |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by deniyor: 4:51pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
^^^ why are you expecting daggers. To each his/her own. If anything works for you, go ahead. As you lay your bed, so shall you lie on it. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by koolchicco: 4:52pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
ifyalways: Hahahahahaha. Abi ooo! This Ify. . . .sef! |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Zenakoboko(m): 4:55pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Well, sex is not the only problem, it is the last problem, the main problem is his anger as he usually twists my arm whenever he is angry and thats a pattern, sometimes he hits me when he is angry, not in a manner that might bruise me but its humiliating nonetheless. And he is angry whenever i complain for a long time and try to argue for long time (say more than half an hour), long accusations make him so angry that he loses all control You have to STOP nagging. All men hate it! Just grow up my dear, this is marriage; 'tis no longer boyfriend and girlfriend kind of relationship. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by johnterry1: 6:03pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
jennykadry: classless monkey |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by IyaBasira: 7:16pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
unsuregirl: @ Unsuregirl ; Yes, it is a common thing in Nairaland. It'll all blow over in a few hours. Right now everyone is just sharpening their claws. jennykadry: Unfortunately I don't have the time to quote what you said towards me being just a 19 year old and that I should wait to get married and have children first before I talk. But i really wanted to ask, why do all your insults revolve around motherhood and marriage and children? We can talk to each other on an equal footing without bringing up their married or unmarried life. As far as you and Ivynwa are concerned, it seems like you actually did start the fight. Initially, I thought the comment about an animal epistle writer was directed at someone else, but Ivynwa was the only poster who actually wrote what could be called an epistle. I'm still wondering why you had to call her an animal , though, especially since she wasn't talking to you. Anyway, BB says the two of you opened a thread to insult each other, so you guys can thrash it out on your own. What I am concerned about is the fact that you chose to insult someone who didn't really deserve half of the insults you heaped on her. Even if you weren't happy with the fact that the advice you gave didn't seem to sink in, you should at least have left her to her business instead of insulting her intelligence. And for your information, I was 19 a year ago. And I don't need to get married and have kids before I understand the difference between right and wrong. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by deniyor: 7:28pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
***grabs popcorn. Damn I missed most of the movie already**** |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
He hits you and has a history if being physically abusive. Next time you feel like nagging he might just break your head. I say you need to leave that situation until he learns to behave like a human being. If you guys go to church then I suggest you get some counseling either through church or a professional. You husband needs to take anger management classes and I hope those come with a daily butt whooping. The fact that you say it is humiliating for you shows that you are being abused mentally and physically. I feel sorry for you. You should not feel that way with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with. +1 |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Quote from: harakiri on January 18, 2011, 08:41 PM *applauds* |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by dayokanu(m): 8:11pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
See all these fine girls fighting over me? Am I not Gods gift to women? |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by aminalib(f): 8:13pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
answer: No |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Thanks everyone for their advice, Though everyone has been supprotive here, there is still one thing that I need to clarify, If I had even an iota of a thought that I was nowhere at fault then the situation would not have been confusing the hell out of me as I mentioned in the first line of my previous post. I do realize that I should have acted in a more mature manner and the only reason I acted the way I did was out of utter sexual frustration and an extreme sense of loyalty towards him. I told him plenty of times that night that I want nothing more than him right now. And no matter how tired or sleepy he was, I am still not able to justify his slap. both of you would benefit from anger management, because this is insane. marriage is hard enough as it is, but if both people have trouble keeping their hands to themselves, they have a long way to go. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Respect is reciprocal you know . . . in this case, to get his respect, you have to respect him first. I have learnt, from the wonderful people in this forum and from my personal experience, that the best way to get a man's respect is to give him his first! if domestic abuse really is not the issue-the OP started her thread with an emphasis on that, but now i'm not sure if that was ever the case at all-then you really need to take this advice. both of you have serious work to do, and if you are both willing to do the work, HUMBLY, then it's a start. good luck. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
neither one of you is nigerian? @OP, I don't mean any harm, but why did you post this question in NL then? i think i'm sorry i even started reading this thread. now i can't stop. SMH. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
LOL @iyineda. i wish i had done the same. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by OAM4J: 2:49am On Jan 25, 2011 |
Where was I when all these were going on? @ Iyalode BB, E ku ise. Dont worry you will soon grow and become matured like me, then you can preach more powerful sermons like me, but you need to see me for some special anointing classes @Jenny, oya come inside for some koboko, it's been a while. I will continue to give you plenty @ Ivy, Iya basira, Johnterry, naijafriend and others Please let there be peace @OP Am happy for you. Please save your marriage. It worths all the efforts. |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 4:31am On Jan 25, 2011 |
@All that think "they are trying to talk some sense into me" are seriously and honestly wasting their time as una talk e enter one ear the next thing na to comot from the other @Dayo egbe enu'e dake jare ta lo'n je Gods gift to women? the last time I checked you out no be say your yekini fit even reach a woman's canaan land @OAM4J Me dilute the truth? for where, you too carry ya yekini come hiaaa jare the weather is too cold for long talks @Ify ifyalways: Mu'wa eri'go kwa nke'm dis morning, nothing me' ga |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 6:37am On Jan 25, 2011 |
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Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by chika98: 9:21am On Jan 25, 2011 |
chaircover: I will categorically say that I visit here to read what you've got to say. Very informative and I am not even trying to patronize you at all. Sensible stuff and realistic views on marital issues and likes. Keep at it Ma'am |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by rasputinn(m): 10:21am On Jan 25, 2011 |
dayokanu: Which girls?you wish |
Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 25, 2011 |
unsuregirl, my word for u is u are immature, u need to find a corner, sit there and suck ur thumb, ur right thumb. |
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