naijafrend:

@ busy_body

looks like you are more miffed with the abuses hurled at your madame's husband, well well , now I get it

why don't you stuff that foot inside your mouth and remain quiet? who on earth invited you to get in between me and that w***ch ? Do you think only she can abuse anyone and anybody? Well I haven't even started, let me know if you need your share, randee kahin ki, badi aayi mujhse panga lene, !

accusing someone of being abusive yet doing exactly the same thing and even boasting of continuing, see her mouth like "who invited you . . .", how old are you again, 5 years old odoyo Apoda oshi, alainironu jatijati oshi, and the psycho claims she is not jobless, akuri elepa Kano Cos i said the insult was one of the lowest of the low ones on NL, she is now feeling like a "G", na ya type, and  as if her sorry pathetic a/r/s/e was the one I was addressing in the first instance

Busy_body:

Hmmm, I am going to call you out as a Christian, Ivynwa, you are in the wrong here, you have just said in your last statement despite posting about 5,000 lines, that you refuse to be drawn into any argument with Jennykadry, so pray tell how many lines would you have typed if you wanted to give her the time of day, 85,000,000 Oops, sorry, just had to slip this in . . . er . . . for research purposes only, yeah thats it


You are a Christian, we are not supposed to condemn people nor judge them nor look down our nose on them because of a flaw we might deem they have.  If at all we feel the need to intervene, we are supposed to chastise with love, admonish with love, pray on their behalf, intercede on their behalf, etc, not call them out to mock them and deride them and rub it in their face that we are better than them.  
Once the egos and pride and anger has dissipated, people all round need to apologise to one another and pray that God will meet everyone of you at the point of your needs, be each other's Brother's keepers, look out for one another, life is too short and precious to be dabbling into such childish and petty mudslinging such as this, and in the Family section too. It is well.

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Busy_body link=topic=587840.msg7590230#msg7590230 date=1295830144:



I referenced her as the devil's spawn and she responded, wow, you are the true offspring of your father true true



Sorry oh, Mrs-the-owner, i apologise for not glancing up quicker to see you name has now replaced Seun Osewa as the new owner. Since Nairaland has now changed hands and you now own the forum, what are you gonna do if I don't keep quiet or stop meddling and posting wherever I freaking want, shoot, freaking brainless hyprocrite, accusing someone of being abusive yet doing exactly the same thing and even boasting of continuing, see her mouth like "who invited you . . .", how old are you again, 5 years old odoyo Apoda oshi, alainironu jatijati oshi, and the psycho claims she is not jobless, akuri elepa Kano Cos i said the insult was one of the lowest of the low ones on NL, she is now feeling like a "G", na ya type, and  as if her sorry pathetic a/r/s/e was the one I was addressing in the first instance


Who is who's Madame here, abi dem swear for this odensin, I'm saying i used to act worse than Jennykadry sometimes and she used to caution me, now the only way your porous cheesy brain could decipher this was to conclude she is my Madam Its my fault for giving you credit by acknowledging your vacuous existence as the devil's spawn when the devil himself is already under my feet, sorry, carry go with your aids and malaria campaign and gutter antics, to insult the living daylight out of Jennykadry to rid [b]your forum of her presence, psssffft [/b]Oya start abusing me, the suspense is unbearable and i am already shaking in my boots, shior, *rolls eyes*

Ah, all those who have been reading lengthy posts written by this baby christian taking baby steps, see for yourself how her "christianity" has come out in open !
My point proven !!! Woman, preach what you practice

N.B : I'm still surprised why jennykadry is quiet here and this one is out there like a mad woman defending her.

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@ JK, what u said 2 Ivynwa is some[b] of the most callous things I av ever heard.[/b] How can u mock someone 4 not being married n not aving kids? Count your blessings and bless instead of cursing. Don't lose d substance and start chasing shadows. 

jennykadry:

As for naijafrend that one is just an attention seeking bast[i]a[/i]rd, you even get time to reply am , abeg leave that oponu and mind useful people ojare

IyaBasira:

One question;
Were any of these insults TRULY necessary?

unsuregirl:

After a few days of a cool down time and some thinking, we have finally talked our issues out and we have settled on seeing a counsellor so that we can tackle the problems and temper issues,
I guess a marriage deserves atleast one sincere shot, And marriage or no marriage, counselling is a must for both of us right now so that we can stop being as toxic as we both have become ever since we began to live under one roof,
So, thanks to some of you whose words mattered and who took interest in my posts!

IyaBasira:

@ Busybody and Jenny kadry;

Before we start saying the IVYNWA is wrong, maybe you should take a look at these comments

Lol some people are busy writing long epistles here for people that really don't care if an animal(the epistle writers) exists.


One question;
Were any of these insults TRULY necessary?

Some of your comments were just daft. Saying something like " We nigerians have mothers who put us through countless marriage counselling sessions to prepare us for the bittersweet journey ahead" , and as a result you are wondering if she had a mother, was just plain wrong. Even with a mother, can you tell me that you got everything right when you first got married?

You might say that it's none of Ivynwa's business and that she's in the wrong, but if I had seen this topic earlier, I might have said exactly the same thing she said. A lot of posters have deduced that the woman in question and her husband are simply immature.

That being said, there was no need to insult her the way you did. It was completely unnecessary and to add to that , the poster herself seems more mature than you are, because she simply ignored your comments and that of Genius whatever- his - name -is. You are obviously trying to provoke her into having a battle of words with you and unfortunately for you, she knows why she is here. She is here to seek ADVICE, and not unprovoked insults.

I have never been a fan of the saying that Elders deserve respect because not all elders deserve to be respected. The insults you threw at this woman today makes you living proof of that.

johnterry1:

jennykadry,

u are such a shameless monkey.did i hear u yab a fellow woman abt her not getting married,having kids,no husband and getting to menopause.damn.u even called her condemned vag!na.with all these,i strongly doubt your sanity.how can a sane woman tell another woman that gravity must have affected her body?same will happen to u too.i read the poo u wrote,was pissed and so left the thread.it was only d bigrod that pointed out the droppings u wrote.the guy that paid your dowry is in deep trouble.am sure u give him more hell than all these we are discussing.i would advice that u change your ways since u are not just a married woman but a mother.do u think that u are better than those that are not yet married.u are uncultured,local and useless.

Ujujoan:

^^^ Sheesh!

Busy_body:

There was no need to come back to claim the moral highground whilst at the same time questionning someone's ability as a Mother, that is asking for it.

Ujujoan:

^^^ Sheesh!

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@ JK, what u said 2 Ivynwa is some of the most callous things I av ever heard. How can u mock [b]someone 4 not being married n not aving kids? [/b]Count your blessings and bless instead of cursing. Don't lose d substance and start chasing shadows. 

johnterry1:


ujujjoan and bb.
am sure jenny was refering to your guys too with this.she feels she is a better person cos she is married to one lunatic.

naijafrend:

@ jenny kadry

Keep barking ! If not bone, someone would atleast throw a stone at you !
Disgraceful creature!

naijafrend:
Ah, all those who have been reading lengthy posts written by this baby christian taking baby steps, see for yourself how her "christianity" has come out in open !
My point proven !!! Woman, preach what you practice

N.B : I'm still surprised why  jennykadry is quiet here and this one is out there like a mad woman defending her.

naijafrend:

@ All

I dont know Ivynwa in person or otherwise. But the statement that Jennykadri made about not finding a man and there upon not having a child seriously bothered me. Shouldn't we be appreciting her for not falling for all and sundry who came her way and instead wait for the right person ?

Remember, it is for god to give someone a husband/child and the same god can take it all back before you could even wink your eyes.

JK mentioned in her previous posts about having a good mother who teaches the value of blah blah blah (there again she insulted somebody's mother, doesn't that count at all because the poster is a foreigner?? Mind you, a mother is a mother, foreigner or not). Wish you had learned from your own mom how not to insult someone with things like this.

JK and BB felt bad when I started using their language. How do you think others would feel when you talk this kind of rubbish to them ? Before you go about with your abuses take time to read through your posts (atleast in this thread) and see where it all started.

unsuregirl:

This is not my place to interfere but just a small suggestion - why don't u guys take up a new thread to discuss the glories of JK. Thankful as I am to some of you for having rightly pointed out things to a girl like me from another land, now you are sending wrong signals about the Nigerian Spirit to people from a foreign culture.  
Now everyone should kiss and make up, your posts are just full of verbal abuses and unless this is a common thing in nairaland (in which case, I just graciously step aside as I am an outsider) , just try to stop it,

unsuregirl:

@naijafrend, how do you know hindi gali "randi kahi ki, badi aayi mujhse panga lene?"

johnterry1:

busy body,

why are u supporting that goat ? cos she is your friend,huh?? that  woman is so stu**pid.i never knew men marry animals like jennykadry

u no wan talk cos she is your friend too.if na another person,u for carry all of us go court.

johnterry1:


ujujjoan and bb.
am sure jenny was refering to your guys too with this.she feels she is a better person cos she is married to one lunatic.