You are been kept as a spare part incase the main man spoil.

Some people have to understand the difference between Priority and Alternative. When they do, they can decide which one they wanna be.

Nonsense question from a love toy.

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

so for 3yrs you no see another babe date? that means you are still into her. stop deceiving yourself and go for her. block ko, block ni.

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

weh fine girls full everywhere u deh allow that olosho deh monkey you, is like u just wan Bleep her that's why u can't get off the thought of her. Guy forget that girl she go cheat on if u finally get her.

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

She's using a 'friend-zoning' strategy for you. She feels you might come 'handy' someday and has decided to groom you for then.

It's left to you if you want to be friend zoned or free.

she is using you as back up. block her with immediate alacrity

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

i am an executioner.. I don't mimic my words or indecisive when I want to to a decision. I get angry when I see people like you consuming so much energy to decide... What you seek for won't take me 2 seconds to decide and I don't even need to seek advice anywhere... Summary.... Throw that girl out

vizkiz:
Tell her to stop calling you for a while. Let her see reasons why you are making this decision

baba you dey here

Op be decisive for once and cut her off totally, stop acting like a weakling.

2016easy2017:
Please fellow nairalanders.has anybody noticed these days that all u buy from shoprite are fake:
Toothpaste
Body cream
Lipton label tea
Tooth brush
Perfume
Torchlight
Rechargeables
These are all I've bought from them and fiundbto be fake

So na because of this things u go shop rite, road side Aboki no de again, abi you wan just tell us say you go shop rite go buy gala and coke ��

Hustlewell:
You knew she had a boyfriend yet you still proposed? that is somehow tho, if she had said yes and left her guy for you, i am sure you know she might still leave you for another. She admitted having a boyfriend this means she is a good person. if na some girls knowing how much you like her and havent given up, they ll double date. please OP ignore foolish and stupid comments here like banging her/using her and even insulting you for having feelings calling you "weak" we are all humans and men have feelings too and somethings cant be controlled. Talk to her and explain why you need space after you the feelings must have died down a little then if she agrees to still be friends then fine

Best comment I have read so far,I wonder why guys still go ahead trying to woo a girl who already is in love with someone else and later you are calling the girl names. why not go out for other single girls.same thing is happening to me,a guy head over heels for my girl after telling him she has someone,oga keeps calling everyday telling her she is breaking his heart and all..

SweetCunt97:
She calling you does not stop you from loving someone else. I really don't see the problem here

no no no
We don't like such distractions.
Remember the nigga approached her for a relationship not casual friendship.
Most guys live a focused life

She’s using you to prop up her other relationship (troubled). It is a strategy to get the other guy to know that someone else wants her badly and that though she rejects you, you keep disturbing her.

She probably talks about you to the other guy to make him take her seriously.

Block and cut her off.

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

SweetCunt97:
Good to know I've got a fan.

Well if u continue like this, with d good contributions, u may just av earned urslf a fan, "Sweetcunt"

She's just tormenting you... It's the worst kind of feeling ever. Leave her and move on.

Listen to the first three comments.

She de check frequently whether u are now doing well in life... OP hope you are doing well in life

SweetCunt97:
She calling you does not stop you from loving someone else. I really don't see the problem here

The problem here is, she's using him and that's not right.

the babe dey use sense, she surely doesnt want to put all her eggs in one basket

Am passing through same with a lady....
Though mine is different cuz we banged like twice. Anytime she come and we make love, she stops calling and contacting me for months. I'll delete her number and move. Like 3 months later she calls again and we hang then she stops calling again.
Some ladies na devil Dem be.
Leave her and move bro

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

You proposed marriage to her knowing she had a guy? Bros you no get sense. You still come nairaland dey ask wetin you go do? Bros who do you this thing?

if after 3 yearz d guy has failed to marry her then she is putting u on pause mode as option B when it eventually goes south.

Tell her to stop calling you for now because your wife to be will be coming to your place from American and she will stay for one month

You should shun her, and block her on all the social media. She just wants to have you as friendzoned friend. If she's not interested in having you as her one and only, then let her go. Staying with her is wasting your time.

I have been in the same condition twice before I met the love of my life. These ladies wanted to have me as substitute (friendzoned). Both ladies of the same age, complained about having boyfriends who cheat on them who they (ladies) can't let go of. Well, I had to move on. One of them celebrated her birthday recently and as I was thinking of perfect gift for her, she was thinking of perfect sex for her boyfriend who also have another babe. Don't trust a woman or what she tells you except she's your faithful wife.

Well you could call her and explain the way you feel. I promise she’ll stop bugging you.

romenna:
no no no
We don't like such distractions.
Remember the nigga approached her for a relationship not casual friendship.
Most guys live a focused life

ordinary calling? He should get focused with someone else na

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

Just move on with your life, she's not interested in getting married with you.

My guy better show Her ur bad side and move on, otherwise u will remain single for life.

SweetCunt97:
ordinary calling? He should get focused with someone else na

Ordinary calling na e billings and using take dey start.

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

Don't blacklist her, play along and get a decent lady and when you are together when she call, just give the phone to your new found lady to answer the call