Goldieluks:

Harakiri,one good advise from me.
Go use your writing talent on writing a book,get some cash out of it,don't waste it here on NL,even if you feel,your making some sense.

harakiri:

Actually, you should take your own "advice" and write an e-book which jokes you "think" are funny.

Tosinville:

Agabal23

Thanks alot brother, help me tell that harakiri o! that he still reason like a kid, his mate are in the school today and i dont know why did he failed to go today. How can someone generalizing every women together just because those ones u met aint worth it is that the reason why that kid should blasphem every ladies so thats d reason why i said this thread is silly without differentiating.

MeGaStReEt:

Wetin Women Dey Contribute 4 Relationship?

Straight and simple question. I see no reason why they cant answer this question

Lord_Reed:

@Goldieluks
You didn't stroke the ego properly. You have to verbally kowtow to um big chief harakiri.





what are you on about?

Lord_Reed:

@harakiri
Its amazing how when called out on stuff you have no answer for you just go silent. What am I saying sef? Its bloody expected.

Lord_Reed:

@Goldieluk
He didn't receive your advise in good faith because your sentence structure to him was standoffish. He usually accepts people who start with 'I agree with you'.

hardbody:

Emmmm, Harakiri, i have patiently read through this particular thread(i guess the first i have ever managed to finish or at least get to the last comment as at the time of sending in a reply) and i want to WARN you to please stop arguing with some of these people. You made a whole world of posititive impression on me because of your clarity and logical chronology of your ideas and points. I have also read through Lord Reeds arguments and counter arguments, and i must aslo say that he has also made some impression on me. Much as i do not want to join issues on a topic which as far as i can decipher from your posts, have been thoroughly and comprehensively dealt with (with you and Reed coming from seemingly opposite vistas), i tend to lean more on your reasonings which, i must confess relate more to everyday life experience.

You need not join issues with people who clearly are not even able to articulate the real purport of the topic and the issues arising therefrom and being deliberated upon, that would make a total nonesense of the beautiful points you had made much earlier on this thread. having said that, I align myself with the thought that whatever it is women claim to bring into a relationship could be otherwise 'obtained' or 'procured' from outside of relationship. That is the fact of life. Even companionship could be 'paid' for especially if one is willing to accept same no matter how 'pretencious' or 'hypocritical'. I guess women simply add some value in relationship that has graduated into marriage because of the children that had come out of the relationship.
I am yet to come to a conclusion that plunging into that 'graduated relationship' for the sake of what the woman has to offer is worth all the trouble. I may be wrong though, but i am yet to learn

hardbody:

Tosinville,

I tend to think that this topic, the thought process needed to make an impact and indeed the calibre of inputs being made and particularly those making those contributions slightly rank above what you can effectively handle. I do suggest that you drop off for now and when it is possible to better articulate and comprehend the issues being deliberated upon, you may then come back.

my guess is that at the rate you are going, you may make that meaningful contribution in some 6 years from today. You may now leave!!!!

Lord_Reed:

@harakiri
Stop frothing in the mouth like a rabid dog and answer the question asked.

Who asked about your female relatives? Even if I did do you have the guts to express all these rants to them in person?

Which leads to my original question(s). Do you have the cojones to tell the lady you want to lay all these blusterings you mouth of here before you've reached base?

Your online rants and raves are typical self delusion if you go out there to lie and deceive ladies just to get in their pants when you can't tell them these things.

Again and again you've used questionable definitions which when challenged on you conveniently ignore.

sandraa:

Harariki or watever u call urself wat is actually your problem * am not so sure cos i couldnt read all thru your boring posts!*

but back to topic pls if in your wack mind u think Women dnt contribute in a relationship pls y ve one at all?
pls can you sack your mum and any other female in your family dat dey dnt contribute anything to your life and let us be abeg!!
if u r dating a chic and doesnt contribute then dump her sorry backside and move on to who will contribute to your life!

from all the argument if am wrong which i might be since i didnt read thru, i didnt see the most famous phrase of all tim *BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN IS A WOMAN*
pls i dnt know how u grew up but i know from time till date women ve been will always be d reason most of us are alive today!

so pls shut your trash and appreciate a woman anywhere u see one!!!!!!

deeplo:

He be like say woman never hammer some men on this forum before
cos i really dont see why any reasonable man cant read  simple
English sentence (lines).

I have learn from experience, ( for the record i am married and also have gfs) women only need
men for what i called showmanship, its not that men can survive without them but honestly,
but in my opinion, how can a man work all his life only for a woman to say all in the name of
marriage will collect all i worked for in divorce settlement. Thunder go fire
that woman and all of them who think like that.

Seriously there is noting woman/lady/girl etc dey contribute.
Thumb up harakiri

roymary:


Deeplo [/b]is what i call [b]Agbaya, a bad example to youths! You wouldn't be alive without a woman in the first instance[b](ultimate value)[/b]. Women have their various flaws but nullifying their indisputable importance is what i don't understand.  

Yes, we bash women daily, i tell them i don't trust them but i know they play vital roles, they keep me alive and sane. Just imagine a world without women; Deeplo, you will be nothing but a caveman eating live caterpillars.

Married men who keeps [b]girlfriends [/b]makes me sick; so unnecessary.

deeplo:

i really dont know why some ppl cant just express their thought without resulting to abusive
words. Whats is your own with mine? do i owe you any explanation how i spend my life.
Pls and pls respect ursef, bside, either am a disgrace or otherwise it absolutely
none of your biz ok, i av my money to spend to whoever that cares to have some case ok

if you have any meaningful contribution pls do, if not, u know wat to do?