LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.


Anyways, check my profile for business deals.

Uniquekriss:
it will serve you better to comprehend after reading before quoting.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.


Ihe nka owu Rice

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

sgtponzihater1:
100000 multiplied by Zero dollars. Had I done this below 30yrs old, I may have owned a housed by now. Still no qualm though.

Shun Ponzi schemes, focus on family, avoid trouble

We must all be rich. Sgt Ponzi Hater

Uniquekriss:
Let's call a spade a spade, many of us spend double of that amount without recognizing it, hmmmm, we're talking about a whole month o, she visits you, while seeing her off u buy suya, or barbecue fish or shawarma, u spend almost #400 airtime talking to her on the phone daily, u sub for her and sometimes recharge her line, sometimes u send her money for hairdo and nails, u go to visit her with gifts or takeaway, on Sundays u both sit out or see movies, all these don pass 30k monthly bros.

beauty7:
What about males that are depending on the money that their girlfriends are giving them?

If you see the way Nigerian men are rushing to date rich Nigerian girls.

It is those girls that buy them phones,cars and give them money.

It applies to both gender.

Every girl that has money and is rich always wish that a male will ask her for money.

But because some men feel it is an insult to collect money from a lady.


But more men are beginning to seek for rich girls and those girls based abroad.

osazsky:
what is so special in sleeping with a girl..these days girls have more than 5 boy friends...she is the one sharing it now..in the whole of Africa I have nerver met a virgin..there are no virgins in Nigeria.infact we have only 3 in Africa.. one in Botswana...one in Zimbabwe and d last in Algeria..spits

Happy2020:
Obviously Nigerian men are stupid as hell and think they need to pay to have a girl and pay for pussy. It’s unfortunately become the norm because Nigerian women are lazy AF and selfish and always take take take from whoever will give. If you have an iPhone, a car, their legs fly wide open.

phorget:



Most ladies will die of hunger if all guys choose to follow my path. I won't spend my money on any hoe.

Mcslize:
jaelz how will you know she truly loves you with the way you are spending money on her? She is just with you for the money.

I have up to 7 babes but only one is a wife material among them all. I am doing this to know who truly loves me for who I am and not just for financial benefit.

The highest money I have given the wife material one was N1500 for tfare when she came visiting.

She has never asked me for money and I have never nurtured the thought of giving her money. Why? Because I want to see if she will still stay even as I am not spending on her.

She does call me with her own airtime. She has never asked me for an airtime or money. When I was giving her that tfare I mentioned above, she was even asking me what I was giving her for? It looked stranger to her. And I simply told her to take it for her tfare.

Sometimes I feel like giving her money but no I don't want to use money to buy her love. She still call me frequently and all.

Now, this shows me that she truly wants me.

Why the rest are demanding for money unnecessarily. I shout at one two days ago to stop asking me for money. We are still quarrelling till now.

I do politely turn them down any time they ask for money.

Now you can see it's only one that is good among them all. That's the one that never ask me for money but she is still there.

Still trying to watch her. But that doesn't mean I will spend on her or use money to buy her love. If I do that, it means the foundation of the relationship only be based on money just like what you are doing now.

I can tell you that your girl is only with you cux of the finanical benefit she is getting from you. If this seems like a lie to you, just put this to test. Stop giving her money and watch if her attitude won't change within a week.

Do not spend on a girl that may end up leaving you tomorrow. Withdraw that monetary benefit and watch if she will not show you her bad side cuz what you are doing is using money as a tool to buy her love and make her stay with you which may backfire later in time when she eventually leaves you if you are no longer spending on her.

The possibility of her leaving you is high if you withdraw that monetary benefit because that's how you have positioned her right from the beginning. You've conditioned her mind that you must give her money. The month you do not give her, she will start giving you attitude.

If she leaves you today, you will feel pained because you have invested so much money on her.

Do not invest in a girlfriend. You can only invest in a wife not girlfriend that may leave you anytime.

I will advise you to reconsider this financial burden you are championing.

KaluwisxPRO:
Imagine the type of commotion on NL because of $70. Nigeria is really gone, and I mean it. $70 is not even enough to feed a dog monthly. Guys, please look for something better to earn better so you don’t go about thinking 30k is something. If you come here to tell me it is better than nothing, Ogun go fire you.

Chumachu:


Come and join MBA �.

Churchill6767:


30%... WTF, how much your papa dey give you?.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.


Anyways, check my profile for business deals.

Sixfeetbelle:


Wait, are you guys in a sexual relationship? Your "wife" is who I'm referring to here.

moniwallet:


Entitlement mentality, pls how much do u spend on ur boyfriend monthly u day $70 is to feed a dog, how much do u live on a day. sebi na so work easy u no do dey rely on guy to feed.

Mcslize:


I am still single o. I am not married. Even if I am dating any lady, I have that mindset that I am still very much single. I consider myself a single man even until any deserving lady prove me wrong.

I have personally decided never to spend on any lady whether we are in sexual relationship or not to see if their attitude will change along the line.

And from my experiment, only one is able to prove me wrong out of 7.

The rest are too money conscious.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Onyitina:
If u ❤️ her; why pained on spending on her?�