praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

Nuttella:
They will not change until they give their life to Christ, they need to be free from the demon manipulating them, any man that is a womanizer cannot change because he is acting under the influence of a demon.

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

2extremes:
Kindly share your thoughts on the above topic. In a relationship, should a cheat be given another chance? Do they ever change?
You can also share your experience after catching or being caught cheating? Did you change after?

Fiscus105:
For men forget

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

ACE1010:
A cheat is like a Cameroon...he or she only changes his or her skin and behaviour. Never take back a cheat.
, I repeat never take back a cheat!!

2extremes:
Kindly share your thoughts on the above topic. In a relationship, should a cheat be given another chance? Do they ever change?
You can also share your experience after catching or being caught cheating? Did you change after?

2extremes:
Kindly share your thoughts on the above topic. In a relationship, should a cheat be given another chance? Do they ever change?
You can also share your experience after catching or being caught cheating? Did you change after?

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

songzDaniel01:
.. Oponu

habsydiamond:
In a relationship, the only thing u can do to a cheat is to forgive and let go..... If u forgive and accept such person don't be surprise that such act can repeat it such.. It's not different from a lady saying she will change a drunkard... E no possible mehn... Only God changes people

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

Synord:

IT DEPENDS

This topic is tricky and it is safe to say forgiving a cheat determines on certain circumstances and the peculiar scenario in which the cheating occurred .

There’s no reasonable excuse for cheating . As such , i will not delve into the logicality or excuses a cheater might come up with no matter how logical or reasonable such excuse might sound .

However, there are two major elements to know if a cheat will do better

1) Remorse
2) Efforts

There are so many things you can do to see if they are truly remorse . Most cheaters that apologize are only remorseful they are caught and not because they cheated .

One of the ways to know remorse at times is if the cheater confesses by his or her volition . They come to tell you they cheated and pour out their mind . This shows that their conscience is dealing with them and they can no longer cope . Most of these people are remorseful and realize that they have made a mistake .

You can ask them to do certain things like cutting off the person they cheated with , confessing their cheating act to another person that can hold them accountable or even seeing a therapist or counselor and they will gladly do it .

2) Efforts

If he or she does show efforts to do better , they will most likely cheat . If you react to things they do and they constantly say “ is it because I cheated “, they will most likely cheat “.

Genuine efforts to do better include seeing a therapist , cutting off bad friends or influence, spending more time with you , being more spiritual , talking about temptations with you etc .

If this two elements are seen , then it is better to forgive . No one is perfect . Forgiving doesn’t mean continuing a relationship , it is starting an entirely new relationship . The trust must be built from the scratch.

It is hard but it’s not impossible .

God help all our relationships and marriages Z amen

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.

DamZik:
Sir, you just described what transpired between me and my fiancee. She cheated on me with a married man old enough to be her father in a faraway city. They were having sex together for about one year while she was telling me the elderly man was her spiritual father. She confessed willingly by herself and I forgive her because I think she was remorseful. The two factors/steps you explain above are glaring in her life.
I also forgive her but it's not easy. I remember it everyday. But I can't throw the baby away with the water. She has surrendered her life to me.

bepositive11:


Cheating is often a symptom of an underlying issue. If you haven't identified and addressed it, it's likely that she may cheat again. She may not even truly love you, but you know her better than I do. Either way, be careful. Don't end up with STDs or raising another man's child.

AntiWailer:
No they dont.

They will only devise smarter means of not being caught.

That is why when they are crying , they are always particular about how u knew.

A cheat will always be a cheat. You can choose to live with it but don't be deceived that they will ever change.

Nothing can change it, a lady once brought her BF's car to come and fck my Corper friend when i was serving.

if u like steal for them.

praiseneo:
I just forgive my gf after I caught her cheating and she admitted all her wrongs
I love her sincerely and I’d help her with her flaws.