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Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 1:50am On May 01, 2011
kandiikane:

@blood_shed.
But think about old age, I know now maybe you might be young and you don't want any woman stressing you but as you grow old you will want someone's company, you cannot come home to an empty house each day. Its a very lonely life.



I can hire a housekepper, preferrably 18-25 year old Brazilian. Much cheaper than a wife lol.

Seriously though, I think if people can't learn to live with themselves and love it, then living with others may not make them as happy as they think. If you can't find happiness being alone then nobody else can make you happy, just my opinion and as I've gotten older I've learned to love and appreciate my own company even more.
And marrying and having kids doesn't guarantee that you'll be taken care of when you get older. I know plenty of people who just stick their grandparents in retirement homes and forget them.
But even if I had kids, if I got older and they all grew up I'll just tell them to live their lives and enjoy themselves, that'll be their gift to me, knowing that they've grown up and made me proud, that's all I'd want for them. Their lives go on.

At the end of the day, you came to this world by yourself and that's exactly how you're gonna leave.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by kandiikane(m): 1:57am On May 01, 2011
Humans were not made to be alone,that is why each specie has both male and female.
It is nice to be your own company sometimes but to say you just want to be with your company for the rest of your life you will just go insane.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 2:04am On May 01, 2011
kandiikane:

Humans were not made to be alone,that is why each specie has both male and female.
It is nice to be your own company sometimes but to say you just want to be with your company for the rest of your life you will just go insane.

See, this is what I don't get about people like you? Where did I say I'd never socialise with people? I do hang out with friends and go out and all that stuff, but once I come home, I want my peace of mind. Plain and simple.

And are you honestly gonna tell me that there are not people who are miserable living with others? That there are no people who have families and are miserable as heck? I know countless people my age who have had children, some married and are MISERABLE, and that makes me feel even better about myself, no lie, dont mean to bea sadist lol.

It goes both ways, but don't come at me with all that "humans are not made to be alone", "no man is an island" rhetoric. Remmeber, the human race is comprised of INDIVIDUALS.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by kandiikane(m): 2:08am On May 01, 2011
People like me? What have I done to be "People like me".

I am only trying to understand your views and also contribute mine.
Anyway its your life
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 2:12am On May 01, 2011
kandiikane:

People like me? What have I done to be "People like me".

I am only trying to understand your views and also contribute mine.
Anyway its your life

People who buy into the idea that those who live alone are automatically going to be miserable or something is somehow wrong with them.

Matter of fact, some people are safer away from me, so I'm doing them a favour smiley
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by ektbear: 2:13am On May 01, 2011
I'm surprised this thread hasn't made the front page yet
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Pweety4me(f): 2:17am On May 01, 2011
^^^Sleeping team
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by kandiikane(m): 2:17am On May 01, 2011
Blood_Shed:

People who buy into the idea that those who live alone are automatically going to be miserable or something is somehow wrong with them.

Matter of fact, some people are safer away from me, so I'm doing them a favour  smiley
lol, I can see that from your name.

I know quite a lot of older people who are unmarried and you know they are going on with life as usual but deep down it is miserable because they have noone to share with.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by ektbear: 2:25am On May 01, 2011
Pweety4me:

^^^Sleeping team

For real. This is the type of thread that would have like 500+ posts if frontpaged
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Pweety4me(f): 2:30am On May 01, 2011
Na dem sabi, i no get anything to debate jare. . .lol
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 2:37am On May 01, 2011
kandiikane:

lol, I can see that from your name.

I know quite a lot of older people who are unmarried and you know they are going on with life as usual but deep down it is miserable because they have noone to share with.

Yes they exist, but I see more people walking with their families and they look DRAINED!!! The woman has put on alot of weight and looks older than she actually is, the dude, who for example used to look like Carmelo Anthony, now looks like Craig Mack. The libido goes down, sometimes it leads to depression as well.

Your life is YOUR LIFE, so if you can't enjoy your life by yourself then you have issues, that's just me though. But I embrace the freedom I have as a young man and I think that'll be the case when I get older.

Marriage in 2011 and beyond is not the one, especially for men, and men who want to accomplish alot in their lives. Just work, hard and enjoy my hard earned money on MYSELF. Simple lol
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by kandiikane(m): 2:58am On May 01, 2011
ok smiley
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 2:59am On May 01, 2011
You know I'm right innit.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Brite02(m): 3:30am On May 01, 2011
topic,

nope
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by MrsChima(f): 3:32am On May 01, 2011
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Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by ektbear: 3:44am On May 01, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

Are you a good cook, Mrs. Chima?
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Nobody: 4:12am On May 01, 2011
I would cook for my guy,
sorry excuse for women cannot, will not, and never cook for their
men. Bottom line.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 7:19pm On May 01, 2011
MzDarkSkin:

I would cook for my guy,
sorry excuse for women cannot, will not, and never cook for their
men. Bottom line.

lol
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by MrsChima(f): 7:21pm On May 01, 2011
ekt_bear:

Are you a good cook, Mrs. Chima?

Are you? tongue
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by MrsChima(f): 7:21pm On May 01, 2011
Blood_Shed:

lol

You like that don't you? undecided undecided
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Dsense(m): 7:23pm On May 01, 2011
AA don't ccok for em husbands.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by 190: 7:24pm On May 01, 2011
MzDarkSkin:

I would cook for my guy,
sorry excuse for women cannot, will not, and never cook for their
men. Bottom line.

she has a brain after all cheesy cheesy
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by CrudeOil2(m): 7:27pm On May 01, 2011
I dont want any b1tch cooking for me either.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by MrsChima(f): 7:36pm On May 01, 2011
D-sense:

AA don't ccok for em husbands.

LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin

We can afford professional celebrity chefs and not village cooks. wink wink
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Dsense(m): 7:41pm On May 01, 2011
^^^Continue deceiving yahself . . .Do you cook for me? undecided
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by MrsChima(f): 7:43pm On May 01, 2011
I would rather piss in your garri then to cook for you.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Dsense(m): 7:46pm On May 01, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

I would rather piss in your garri then to cook for you.

AA are too mean to em Husbands , , , ,They don;t/can;t cook . .can't fck . . .can't dance . . .Can't sleep without snorring. . . .But can only maassttuurrbbaattee undecided
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by ektbear: 7:47pm On May 01, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

Are you?   tongue

Sort of  grin

The food I make tastes pretty good, but isn't anything fancy. Once in a while I'll make a salad + BBQed ribs + mashed potatoes, things like that. But usually it is spaghetti, baked chicken bosom, stir-fried rice, chili, things like that that don't take much time to make.
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Pweety4me(f): 8:02pm On May 01, 2011
ekt_bear:

Sort of grin

The food I make tastes pretty good, but isn't anything fancy. Once in a while I'll make a salad + BBQed ribs + mashed potatoes, things like that. But usually it is spaghetti, baked chicken bosom, stir-fried rice, chili, things like that that don't take much time to make.
I would eat it, but must observe & sample tongue
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BloodShed1: 8:05pm On May 01, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

You like that don't you? undecided undecided

Actually I do.

Are you AA?
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by Nobody: 8:38pm On May 01, 2011
Whats wrong with that crazy girl, who gives a damn about your food?
Re: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by BABE3: 8:40pm On May 01, 2011
J12:

Whats wrong with that crazy girl, who gives a damn about your food?

lol--personal question darling--ermm, Are you a student? (Asin UNI.)

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