shegxy9:
She allowed a guy to sleep in her room in just two weeks she resumed to school... Hope am not deceiving myself cos I really want to settle down with her... Am a serving corper!!!

Move on

shegxy9:
I will make it short guys... I met this damsel February this year and it has been great times since then...

Around may she got admission to University outside the state we are but the main issue is that wen she came back I was telling her about her attitudes when she was in school like most times we hardly talk but she said that I know this is her first semester in school and she apologised that it would not happen again...

But the main issue is this, she said I need to forgive her because she has offended me, she said a guy slept in her room though she swore to me that nothing happened that night...

Pls guys have been having these mixed feelings since yesterday like can she be trusted?? And hope am not in love with upcoming olosho

Pls no insults, only matured responses

smh the way ppl just carry every little matter and make a public discussion is just funny, don't u have close friends u can talk to abt this? Or is it that we all just wanna make front page. So a guy slpt over at her place so u are thinking she might be an upcoming olosho, so bcus she is dating u she can't relate with other guys or what? All this bondage that ppl call relationship nowadays self.


Person wey go cheat go cheat and until u catch her red handled it's best u give urself rest of mind and trust her. Are u saying if a girl sleep over at ur place then we shud assume u guys had sex?

Gone already

How can person be dating an undergraduate, these are prone to happen. If u want a serious relationship, pls be date a working class lady or bizness lady n make sure u yourself is a working class guy or bizness guy

Shegxy9 what exactly is the problem I read your previous post just now.are you talking of this same girl or another person.?
Well for her even telling you really shows that she loves you. But act wisely try to find yourself a plan B cause she has that too...
-HAPPY SUNDAY .

shegxy9:
I will make it short guys... I met this damsel February this year and it has been great times since then...

Around may she got admission to University outside the state we are but the main issue is that wen she came back I was telling her about her attitudes when she was in school like most times we hardly talk but she said that I know this is her first semester in school and she apologised that it would not happen again...

But the main issue is this, she said I need to forgive her because she has offended me, she said a guy slept in her room though she swore to me that nothing happened that night...

Pls guys have been having these mixed feelings since yesterday like can she be trusted?? And hope am not in love with upcoming olosho

Pls no insults, only matured responses

A serving corper. Don't you have elders in your family, amongst your friend you can share this with? Must everything come online? You no even get sense. Is nairaland harboring or grooming specialists in giving relationship advises? This place is full of different ages and backgrounds and everyone has the same opportunity in dropping comments. You don't deserve any woman coz whenever u have an issue with her, you'll always rush online and spread ur dirty linen.

My advise for you is to go back to her and apologize for sharing her confession with the world

Was dating a lady since June 2020, immediately she gain admission in University I just ended the relationship cos av been suspecting her of cheating on me but she denied it severally. Recently I had access to one of of social media handle and when I go through her chat I feel like committing suicide but thank God for the spirit of God in me.

Her recent guy is the one she met on campus but she always denying not dating anyone.


I swear any guy that doesn't fear Ladies is in Danger

Dumte:
If you as me na who I go ask? Your own is even better you've a girlfriend, whether she is faithful or not. How about those of us without a date?

Then pick a date bro!!!�

shegxy9:
I will make it short guys... I met this damsel February this year and it has been great times since then...

Around may she got admission to University outside the state we are but the main issue is that wen she came back I was telling her about her attitudes when she was in school like most times we hardly talk but she said that I know this is her first semester in school and she apologised that it would not happen again...

But the main issue is this, she said I need to forgive her because she has offended me, she said a guy slept in her room though she swore to me that nothing happened that night...

Pls guys have been having these mixed feelings since yesterday like can she be trusted?? And hope am not in love with upcoming olosho

Pls no insults, only matured responses

Will you be satisfied with a liar as wife?

A guy slept in her room but she swore nothing happened! They did nothing beside all night prayer and morning devotion, and now you are asking us if you should continue with the relationship, I SWEAR TO GOD WE HAVE ALOT OF DUMB GUYS HERE BECAUSE THIS IS THE SECOND DUMB POST I HAVE READ HERE SINCE YESTERDAY

shegxy9:
I will make it short guys... I met this damsel February this year and it has been great times since then...

Around may she got admission to University outside the state we are but the main issue is that wen she came back I was telling her about her attitudes when she was in school like most times we hardly talk but she said that I know this is her first semester in school and she apologised that it would not happen again...

But the main issue is this, she said I need to forgive her because she has offended me, she said a guy slept in her room though she swore to me that nothing happened that night...

Pls guys have been having these mixed feelings since yesterday like can she be trusted?? And hope am not in love with upcoming olosho

Pls no insults, only matured responses

Rubbish story. I was recently warming up to someone who is serving in another state and I called a friend of mine to help find her an accommodation. Her budget wasn't up to but I quietly had the mind of assisting to complete it. Only for her to tell me she was going back to her place of service and would stay in her male friend's house unti she gets an accommodation. The fact that both of them would be living in same house alone and she's comfortable with it, suggests to me that they would have some kind of closeness. I could not even wrap my head around what would be happening between them. I quietly pulled out myself from the nonsense situation immediately. I don't like rubbish. If your girl can allow a guy sleep in same room with her for a night, you should be very worried man. Very very worried.

Iniobong34:
These is one of the disadvntges of tellin the truth because they will use it against u. Bro trust her my opinion tho. I prefer her type if u ask me lemme not go far

But who knows whether that is the whole truth?

Truvelisback:
If she hadn't told u that a guy slept in the same room with her, would u av known?

He wouldn’t, but hey, he can’t because of that her perceived openness then choose to remain with her even when the end is clearly visible from the beginning

Girls say half truth...only before amadioha can dey confess. So use your brain and complete the story.

shegxy9:
She allowed a guy to sleep in her room in just two weeks she resumed to school... Hope am not deceiving myself cos I really want to settle down with her... Am a serving corper!!!

OP just forget that babe because I can assure you she is a big flirt. Run except you want to feed another man's child or get STD.

If you know, u know








Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

shegxy9:
She allowed a guy to sleep in her room in just two weeks she resumed to school... Hope am not deceiving myself cos I really want to settle down with her... Am a serving corper!!!

She just got admitted into the university for God's sake. She is got too much time to still explore. Are you still in school too? If you have graduated, you really need to think about letting her leave her life abeg.

A guy slept in her room but they didn't have sex...OP no offence but for that girl to have told you that it means she actually thinks you are the most stupid guy in the whole of Africa she no rate you at all she must think your reasoning faculty is on leave of absence....abeg how many times you slap her after she tell you that rubbish 3,4,5 e no do you need to double am when you see her again

My guy, start getting ready 4 anything, d truth is she is no longer spending more time with u, since u guys are far away, now that she is in skul, other dudes are coming around, and spend all the time 2geda, and all that bla bla bla. I will advise u don't over trust, just get ready for any result from this, either breakfast or any.
Brother man, for the now focus on urself, make urself better.. No too go love any lady, e get y!!
This have read from personal experience and from friends around me.

You prefer her type guy you may die young if you no change that mentality...it would have been better if kept quiet than spew that rubbish a guy slept in my room we didn't touch each other for which planet that one dey happen??

Iniobong34:
These is one of the disadvntges of tellin the truth because they will use it against u. Bro trust her my opinion tho. I prefer her type if u ask me lemme not go far

He actually said “please no insults”


Funny guy

shegxy9:
She allowed a guy to sleep in her room in just two weeks she resumed to school... Hope am not deceiving myself cos I really want to settle down with her... Am a serving corper!!!

you never get work you never feed your poor parent in the village who suffered so hard to sees you through school , nah to think of how to marry akwuna with empty pockets... your ancestors must be highly disappointed in you

you never get work you never feed your poor parent in the village who suffered so hard to sees you through school , nah to think of how to marry akwuna with empty pockets... your ancestors must be highly disappointed in you undecided

Another Tego husband loading ……….

Hiaaaaa
All this relationship wahala
If you're not ready for relationship and its baggages. Kindly 'unrelationship' your self and free us from all these questions.
Is she the one?
Is she loyal?
Should I marry her?
Wtf!!!!!!!

shegxy9:
She allowed a guy to sleep in her room in just two weeks she resumed to school... Hope am not deceiving myself cos I really want to settle down with her... Am a serving corper!!!

Bro, I'll be straight with you on this sort of issue. Maybe she didn't have sex with the guy but I can bet you a million bucks that they smooched and made out aggressively. She probably held on because she just got to know the guy and she's not sure if the guy wants to just smash and hit the road. And the boy is a very cute guy trust me

Let me tell you my own story. When I was in school, 400lvl to be precise; the new apartment I moved to, I met a very fine girl and we hit it off almost immediately. In less than a week, we'd done every thing aside sex. She was in a serious relationship with her guy who works in Abuja but me, I was at a corner smooching the living day light out of his girl. Sometimes, I'd be on her nips when the bf would call. She spends almost every night in my room but she'd always tell her bf that she's not had sex, which is true but that's not the whole truth. Get me now?

What I'm saying is, just take your mind off her matter. You can continue dating her but just know she's not yours any more because even she did not sleep with him, it is just a matter of days that bobo go shag her; not weeks or months oo . A tall, fine and muscular dude is seriously helping you take care of her.

Just "let her be", but don't break up yet (Okafor's Law) . Just look for another girl to take your mind off, but most importantly, focus on your goals, bro. You can get random lay here and there, just keep anything relationship at arm's length.
Just be calm, heart break dey enough to go round for all of us

Good luck, bro.

RULE NO: NEVER DATE A GIRL THAT IS IN SCHOOL. MOST ESPECIALLY DON'T SEND ANY POCKET MONEY

�It's a SuperStoryyyyyy, A Life of strive and sorry�

Remag666:
You prefer her type guy you may die young if you no change that mentality...it would have been better if kept quiet than spew that rubbish a guy slept in my room we didn't touch each other for which planet that one dey happen??

and am sure if she keep it to her self even d op wouldnt hv known that such thing happened. A girl dat wil cheat on u wil always cheat no matter what. u know what i mean by that

How old are you?

BluntTheApostle:

But who knows whether that is the whole truth?

its left 4 u to believe her or not

Trogge:
....... What if the girl didn't tell him, am not sure he will post this

U jst said it. no mind am