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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Kajaard: 7:17pm On Oct 24, 2021
CSTR2:

If you are hear wetin some men dey do people future wives, you go provoke.

Every weekend na sex Marathon for years and years of a relationship.

You use your pricckkk configure her Toto to your spec, and at the end you wan push am to another man.

Na ogun go fire both of them.


My brother the matter tire me O cheesy

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Pussywar(f): 7:17pm On Oct 24, 2021
Hamiltonii:


You're a rétàrd. Aged borHOLE.
You’re communicating with a r*tard and understanding her. You know what that makes you.


Your “borehole” comments scream illiterate virgin because someone who has been with a girl knows how the vagina works. Stay mad.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by neyoohhh: 7:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:


You overrate your importance. Whatever you call “irresponsible” is your personal problem, but you’ll not shame me for indulging in something as natural as sex because I’m a girl. Shame someone who thinks you’re something.

FEMINISTS AND LOW VALUE MEN HAVE ONE THING IN COMMON:

THEY ENJOY COMPLAINING, BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO

GOALS/PURPOSE IN LIFE.

PLUS, IT ABSOLVES THEM OF ANY RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SAD LIFE THEY LIVE.


Whor.e###

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by firstratedcitiz(m): 7:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
Easier preached than practiced.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Pussywar(f): 7:19pm On Oct 24, 2021
mybiz234:


A woman who has multiple sex partners have already objectified themselves. So, the men are only seeing you the way you present yourself.
Whatever makes sense to you. It’s not worth it trying to educate someone bent on remaining unintelligent.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Hamiltonii: 7:20pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:

You’re communicating with a r*tard and understanding her. You know what that makes you.


Your “borehole” comments scream illiterate virgin because someone who has been with a girl knows how the vagina works. Stay mad.

I insist you're a rétàrd and an Aged borHOLE.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Smartb0y: 7:20pm On Oct 24, 2021
advanceDNA:


The op is just forming woke and civilized....ask him if he can allow his brother or son marry a retired olisho... He will not answer truthfully
his gf is a conc feminist.
she has brainwashed his life

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by 1Sharon(f): 7:21pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:


It’s you who has equated high body count to cheating. It’s you who’s being illogical. From where to where? Please, assimilate my statement well before coming for me.

Go and look up pair bonding.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 24, 2021
oshaosha2014:
I know you are joking.

Bro I’m not joking Women are human beings and they are the sex designed for Sex. They get offers every day omo if the body count is your problem which woman doesn’t have a high body count? Ask yourself this in your quiet time can you determine how many people she has slept with since she was 18? Do you think her behavior will give it away? Do you understand that women act according to the situation? So many men want women who are good in bed where will she learn it from ? From God ? Why do men think we have the monopoly on sex? Women are busy laughing at how men act insecurely about sex making it a big deal y’all should wake up practice safe sex and live your life stop worrying about what she’s doing with her body. You probably won’t ever find out how experienced she is.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Pussywar(f): 7:21pm On Oct 24, 2021
neyoohhh:


FEMINISTS AND LOW VALUE MEN HAVE ONE THING IN COMMON:

THEY ENJOY COMPLAINING, BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO

GOALS/PURPOSE IN LIFE.

PLUS, IT ABSOLVES THEM OF ANY RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SAD LIFE THEY LIVE.


Whor.e###

A self acclaimed “high value” man nagging like a bitch on the internet because a girl refused to accept his nonsensical mentality. You’re the low value man.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by sonymax16(m): 7:22pm On Oct 24, 2021
So in ur mind,u are giving advice.This ur writeup belongs to the thrash can......rubbish undecided
sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Sunday2021: 7:22pm On Oct 24, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.
another hoe
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Pussywar(f): 7:23pm On Oct 24, 2021
Hamiltonii:


I insist you're a rétàrd and an Aged borHOLE.

Then imagine the vagina of the one who you came out from, with a head so big because it’s full of rubbish.
A whole lotta small dick energy.

Find another girl who’ll give you attention, you know how much you lack it. Bitch-boy.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by advanceDNA: 7:23pm On Oct 24, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
. What cake do they eat? It is their body, respect it. That is what maturity is all about.

By respect you mean I shouldt care about how sexually disciplined the woman I'm going to spend the rest of my life with is.....that's not maturity....that's carelessness and stupidity of the highest order....

Why do u think people vett people??
Companies do it...
Families do it to ensure their son or daughter is not marrying the wrong person ....but this fvcking generation want to paint black white....kolewerk.... If u wantto marry a prostitute...go ahead.. forci g your ideologies on other men by calling the imature for expecting a level of decency from a life partner is just repulsive and dangerously patronizing

Whether u simp men like it or not...u can't normalize the act of being sexually voracious....

U can't make sleeping around look like a good thing ..

Even women know it's not good ..they lie about it....

Many of u forming woke like decent men/women..u will now come on line to come and be forming negative woke... Thunder fire una dia

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by mybiz234: 7:23pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:

Whatever makes sense to you. It’s not worth it trying to educate someone bent on remaining unintelligent.

Educate?! Lolz. You are the one in need of education.

How can you dress and present yourself like a prostitute and you complain when people call you a prostitute?
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by iTearHerToto: 7:23pm On Oct 24, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
. What cake do they eat? It is their body, respect it. That is what maturity is all about.
Someone paid you to post this crap or you're being enchanted

Either ways........





Pukes angry
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by mrnatty(m): 7:24pm On Oct 24, 2021
Evil post, you just they promote nonsense. Have you ever ask your self why some girls can keep a man and they come here and rant all men are evil? Its cause some of them have borehole as P**sy, how will a girl they have finished her speedometer, a girl that av sexed from her future sex be able to keep a man, a girl at the age of 24 she is already having a carnal as P**sy be appealing to any man for keep. A girl you will enter her promise land and you discover her land has been vandalized with nothing valuable left, how will you want to have anything to do with such a person?

If you must know... body count matters alot especially for ladies, if you like be using ur promise land to hustle until theirs nothing left to offer any one who wants to own it later, then O.Y.O will be ur case as a lady. Any man that enter ur promised land will never want to enter the second time let alon have a relationship with you. If you like be saying real men dont care about body count. Body count matters alot ooooooh, if ur promise land has no pleasure left in it because you have turn it in to a carnal due to excessive spreding of led for different size D**k to vandalize O.Y.O will be ur case later. No man will chop u twice let alone keep u as girlfriend or wife to be, and that makes you a bitter food that no body wants.

If you think am lying go and ask aunty hookup, she will tell you her bitter story of being vandalized with nothing left in her to offer any boyfriend let alone husband. She cant keep a man currently cause of the smelly carnal she now av as promise land. As you they spread leg so try fear God small and pity ur future husband by leave small thing for him to browse with joy.

If you let them finish you speedometer at this very young age na you go suffer am later, if like be shouting real men dont care about body count. Whether you tell ur body count or not, when he enters he will still know if you have been reckless with spreading of ur legs, so nor they give ur self hope by turning a motivational speaker of evil encouragement.

Ladies body count matters alot if you think am lying ask broda shaggy, only spread your legs for someone responsible if you cant stay with out spreading it, don't go and make it a public property else they will help you vandalize it with not left to offer ur future husband.

Ask our brodas here...non if them wey nor dey run from ladies with obo carnal.
Na only once them they enter that kind carnal and thats cause they didnt know ontime if not they will av nothing to do with you let alone av plans for any thing serious with u.

No man wants to suffer from another man's sin...so ladies narrow is the way that leads to enternal life buh broad is the way that leads to ebternal damnation.

If you think am lying ask all our brothers here, they knows this already so nor deceive ur self pls....

Ladies please refuse to be vandalized by public D**k that has money. e get why.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Tonnyray: 7:24pm On Oct 24, 2021
Even women have little regards for whoring women. Don't be deceived.
Tell your mother-in-law to be you have a body count of 15 let's see her reaction.. after all body count means nothing. (mind you she's a woman).
Majority of these "woke" women won't allow their sons marry nonsense. My aunt is a classic example.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by MummyD2020(f): 7:24pm On Oct 24, 2021
Tickles001:
Here we go again.

Maturity, respect, not necessary, doesn't matter, past, doesn't owe you

These are the words you hear when it actually does matter, but they want you to believe otherwise.

If you don't want to answer, simply decline like a sensible person:

Guy: So, what's your body count like?

Girl: I really don't want to tell you, but you can be rest assured am as good as new.

This is far better than trying to make a huge case out of a simple question. undecided undecided

There's nothing wrong with letting your partner know about your past, if they want to know.

Ok so only women get to answer while the men listen. Weldone sir
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by advanceDNA: 7:24pm On Oct 24, 2021
Smartb0y:
his gf is a conc feminist.
she has brainwashed his life


Even feminists know... High body count is not ideal....they lie about it
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Drella(m): 7:25pm On Oct 24, 2021
Ayinke93:

Say na catalyst grin grin. Let’s starts from you checking out the meaning of the world catalyst and asking yourself if it applies to the context in which you used it.
You people are so dull and you won’t save yourselves the disgrace by staying off social media with your archaic views. Nobody even bothers to ask about a man’s body count and you people still die in churches trying to get them to marry you, but somehow, a woman’s loyalty is tied to the number of people she has slept with. Fucking dullards.

For the catalyst part,sorry about that.I'm an Illiterate.

I really wanted to explain better and clarify the misunderstanding you have about my post.But what's the point if your reply would be another set of unprintable names and insults.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Ekuke: 7:25pm On Oct 24, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
. As stated in my post, relationships are for the "men". How you weather the storm of life makes you a man. A guy that was getting to know my girl, move from being friends to asking her for a nice time, even when my girl informed him about her relationship status. When I saw the chat, I delete his number, block him then proceed to create some red lines. I simply take charge. I am not been called a man because I have a dick but I can handle situations. You should be concerned about the present not what happened in the past.
guy you will end up with a prostitute with twelve abortions. Or else look for deliverance if not e don be for you.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by criuze(m): 7:25pm On Oct 24, 2021
I'll mot lie shaaa

This is the first time am hearing the term Bidy count

I don't even know how to answer such a question

But they say it doesn't break or something like that


So now for linguistic sake

How exactly do you say body count in your local language

It seems can't come out of my mouth
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by princewarri1985: 7:26pm On Oct 24, 2021
Na them be this, retired slay queens them, body count really matters because all these retired slay queens dey find one innocent guy wey them won die for he neck, when una dey sell market dey frustrate guys even both the ones wey love una for real join self, now market don cast and now una dey find who una won carry bone give, nobody won chop bone because real men eat flesh, you all have nothing to bring to the table, i have said it before that marriage is not for me, and AS A SABI WARRI BOY I CAN ONLY GIVE MARRIAGE A THOUGHT AGAIN ONLY IF IT'S FOR A US OR CANADIAN VISA, NOBODY BE MUGU

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by neyoohhh: 7:26pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:


A self acclaimed “high value” man nagging like a bitch on the internet because a girl refused to accept his nonsensical mentality. You’re the low value man.

Stupid LovePeddler, high value decent Nigerian girl's are all over my dms begging for a relationship.

I'm here to educate you retarded cardi b wannabe bitches and stupid low iq men who you're subjecting to a life of misery and slavery.

You ain't got shit on me , I'm everything you dream of bitch and I fckn know it.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Hdhdhd(m): 7:27pm On Oct 24, 2021
I stopped reading when I saw "there's no such thing as hoe"
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by MrColdsweat: 7:27pm On Oct 24, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
. As stated in my post, relationships are for the "men". How you weather the storm of life makes you a man. A guy that was getting to know my girl, move from being friends to asking her for a nice time, even when my girl informed him about her relationship status. When I saw the chat, I delete his number, block him then proceed to create some red lines. I simply take charge. I am not been called a man because I have a dick but I can handle situations. You should be concerned about the present not what happened in the past.

The past is the determinant of the future.

Why do they study history in schools?

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Kajaard: 7:27pm On Oct 24, 2021
Ekuke:
guy you will end up with a prostitute with twelve abortions. Or else look for deliverance if not e don be for you.

He is already with a confirmed nairaland feminist cheesy
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by iTearHerToto: 7:28pm On Oct 24, 2021
Smartb0y:
who brainwashed you,i really need to go beg that person on your behalf
grin
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by MrColdsweat: 7:28pm On Oct 24, 2021
How can you say bodycount doesn't matter. Then believe okafors law works?
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Oluskid: 7:29pm On Oct 24, 2021
Just like OP said, 'her actions, her choice, respect it!'

Toor us too, 'our actions our choice'
#we ain't settling 4 less(hoes).

But las las, he's kinda rit tho, its her choice n action to do wateva she wants wit her body, so she'd be ready to bear any consequence dat follows, Let's just not body shame them!

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Longsleeve: 7:29pm On Oct 24, 2021
I don't blame the OP at all..

Pussy pressure at work..

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