OLDESTWARRIBOY:


smokes, drinks, dreads, drugs, I don't care attitude etc

Shedrack777:
because na bad guys sweet pass. and na bad guys dey spend money pass. that's why as a man, try and be a bad guy during your youth days before it's time for you to settle down and become a good guy

Palema007:
Who is a bad guy?

bigbossila:
Well said bro. But this is the reality. Nigerians lady don't have any no purpose in life apart from raising kids and cooking.. never mind them please.

Vanilla4:
Probably not me and many others out there, a bad guy is definitely a red flag.

kevinhacker:

And you still wear nose ring

Palema007:
I never personalized that,did I? Here I am trying to help you guys understand why some ladies go for your so called bad boys. But what do I get in return? Assumptions and incoherent babbles.

Some of you are so difficult to reason with.

MemoriesAndMe:

Where did you get that definition from? Which of the holy books stereotypes any of the listed as characters of a bad guy or thats just your assumption?

Theevilone:


What are you saying, is pastor CHRIS Oyakhilomi and the rest of divorced people both prominent and non prominent people all bad boys ?

For your notice bad boys also have successful relationship.

I never said 'good boys' relationship/marriage won't crash. There are millions reasons different marriage/relationship crashed...that's another topic entirely.

What I meant is most the girls that dated/dating 'bad guys' after seeing the heat is too much will run to we good guys

God1000:
I've been pondering on this for some time now, do we live in a morally bankrupt society where good values are not considered anymore before dating or marrying someone because there's so much weird behaviour and news nowadays, there's another trend of females going after the toffs and socialites, mostly the harpy and snobs! how about marrying someone you know that has a bright future, I'm not trying to stereotype or profile the entire female gender, we still have a handful of good ones, but the preponderance/vast majority of delusional and misquided ones prefer bad boys for the reasons known to them alone.
Back in school I had a guy that dated countless ladies due to his ruggedness while I struggled to even date one, some ladies don't like calm and gentle guys which is an aberration and anomaly to me.
If good virtues are no longer a consideration, then that explains why we have too many unholesome unions these days and I fear for the future of this country.
So as a lady what are the qualities you look out for in a man? Intelligent and calm guys or cult boys?

The invasion of western civilization into our culture is another problem

Lastly I understand the fact that we all cannot be the same, or behave in a particular way, life is about choices, we all have our preferences regardless of compatibility, but I will also advise young people to be circumspect to avoid sad stories, don't get yourself into an entanglement that will mar your life, be painstaking and wise, there's no need getting into a relationship with someone you're poles apart.

Wishing you a blissful and fabulous Sunday.

God1000:

Any guy that doesn't care about rectitude and established norms, guys that engage in anti social behaviour

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


After the 'Bad' guys show them pepper finish, dem go cor dey disturb good husband material boys like brother chatinent and I.

We boot them out quickly, we are taken already by sisters of virtues

taiwotimitt:
I met a girl during my service year. I love her, I made my intention known to her. She told me the truth which I considered a red light. She told me that I'm too soft to handle her. I asked her what she meant by that.... I couldn't believe what she's was saying... Na confirm bad guy can handle that girl indeed....

That's why sometimes when I see these so called bad guys treating innocent or bad girl anyhow, I really don't care

Theunbothered:
Being a bad guy is powerful, power is masculine, women are attracted to masculinity.

That's why a guy who is "good" is seen as weak and women hate weakness regardless of what foolish modern day notions of equality might tell you.

favour32:

Many of the past bad guys dey grave.

NiceMen:


Women dont like bad boys, they like men who exude masculinity in the sense that you act more like man when the needs arises because men are meant to lead women.

This is why when you are yes yes yes man to a lady, while you think you are pleasing her, you are showing a very unmanly trait that isnt supposed to be.

A man has to be firm and has a mind of his own.

For instance, if a girl tells you let's just be friends when you ask her out by making your feelings known, you dont accept it. You should reject it.

Once you accept the friendship, you have shown weakness and you will never get that lady to date you, further hurting yourself even more.

The idea is to be MAN...act like a MAN... be unpredictable and never let her know you too well.

zcee:
When those bad guys f#k and dump finish while the good guys are chasing after them,nxt thing you will hear is men are scum..

Ndi nzuzu!!

uptownemmygee:
When I was a nigga with dread and steady kpoli, girls always troop around us, party, foursome nah normal normal and we no dey pay money self oo. But now that I'm calm, I don't even have one single GF

shogsman:
It's basic biology, shying away from this modern brouhaha, deep down a woman want to be told what to do and controlled by a stern man who appears to be devoid of basic emotions.
When an alpha male expresses love to them they feel lucky simply because the guy in question won't normally express or give attention to just any woman.
Same reason almost every woman like getting their As$ smacked, holding their hairs from behind during sex

Ugandatales:


The bolded is so true. It happened to me recently. I rejected her offer, blocked her on Whatsapp, and went by my way. I was shocked when she sent me a message a few weeks later, saying she misses me, and asking if she could come over so I could f*cked her hard, like I was f*cking a slut. I was shocked. Girls don't like nice guys; nice guys disgust them.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


After the 'Bad' guys show them pepper finish, dem go cor dey disturb good husband material boys like brother chatinent and I.

We boot them out quickly, we are taken already by sisters of virtues

Shedrack777:
because na bad guys sweet pass. and na bad guys dey spend money pass. that's why as a man, try and be a bad guy during your youth days before it's time for you to settle down and become a good guy

Shedrack777:
what are you thinking, that bad guys means being a criminal, doing drugs and other evil vices? no! a bad guy here means an RED PILLED alpha male who knows how to please and control a woman